peihu 2007-6-20 04:16
现在是什么教育
教育是教给学的人做人的道理,学生今后如何生存于世那就靠学生自己去掌握生存之道。就像父母生下小孩不可能照顾小孩一辈子一样
教育不一定要看教育者的学历而在于教育者所受的教育有没有教其做人的道理
国内教育表面文章太好,施教者缺乏为人师表最基本的素质“德高为师,身正为范”教师监考舞弊导致学生作弊造假现象严重。
教育是培养下一代而不是造假商造出假冒伪劣物品只要卖出不管后果,国家是要靠每代人长期建设维护的,否则亡国灭族是迟早的事!
教育该怎么搞这该值得国家机器依赖者深思反省的了
saimei1962 2007-6-21 21:59
The same as Hong Kong education policy.
anbangwdy 2007-6-22 10:24
楼主说得有道理,是值得大家反思
目前的应试教育大家都不喜欢,但是又没有好的办法代替,教育是很深的学问
mikehk 2007-6-22 14:12
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moxfactor 2007-6-26 03:45
這個不應該是家長教的嗎? 為什麼要依賴學校教做人的道理? 家長也有責任呀, 要生就要教.
peihu 2007-6-29 02:41
家长是该教 都让家长教那学校留着去搞那些作奸犯科的事啊 那些老师是用来干什么的?引导犯罪还是干什么 ?再说在家教育家长每天陪孩子 那说去养家 ?政府对孩子教育问题好象是要求在学校的吧,不去学校好象家长是要负责任的吧。在家教育得再好学校里什么都学坏了 找谁去 ?教师不像教师样 干脆送孩子去黑社会最少还能学会“忠”“义”二字
moxfactor 2007-6-29 14:21
家長教做人, 老師教常識. 這才是理所當然吧.
"都让家长教那学校留着去搞那些作奸犯科的事啊"
那裡來的邏輯.... 你生的孩子又不是政府強迫你生的, 何來要反強迫政府負起教你孩子做人的責任? 都怪在其他人身上, 要政府教家教的小孩不如直接給政府養好了. 只會付米飯錢的家長還有什麼用?
adadada 2007-6-30 22:33
好多家長教不好學生,就把責任推給學校
只會令學校百上加斤
kathywonder 2007-7-2 09:28
[quote]原帖由 [i]adadada[/i] 於 2007-6-30 22:33 發表
好多家長教不好學生,就把責任推給學校
只會令學校百上加斤 [/quote]
Absolutely right, I've a son who's going to 7, I'm single mum and have to work 'til Mon to Fri, he has a maid to be with, but mostly I'd rather have conversation to my kid in order to know him more, or what he did in school. The point is just spend time on your kid and let'em know they've a strong back up behind, don't forget parents're the key person they mostly trust.
Kat
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daehanmanse 2007-7-3 00:37
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2007-7-2 09:28 發表
Absolutely right, I've a son who's going to 7, I'm single mum and have to work 'til Mon to Fri, he has a maid to be with, but mostly I'd rather have conversation to my kid in order to know him ... [/quote]
翻譯:絕對正確。我的兒子快要七歲了,我只是一位單親母親,而且從星期一到星期五也要工作,雖然有一位菲傭照顧他,但很多時候我都想辦法與我的孩子交談,好讓我能更瞭解他。
可惜呢,香港很多師奶卻不來這一套,功課不管、學生做甚麼也不聞不問。到學生出問題了,就來怪罪老師。
這些家長還以為自己在鄉間生活,小朋友天生天養。實在很應該把它們遣返鄉間。
kathywonder 2007-7-3 09:31
Hi!! There!!
It's me but I'm not gonna make sounds annoying here, but a.....the fact is, the thing what we did for our child, they'll do all the same thing after now. For me, I know how hard to be a single parent but frankly don't mind to be, that's not what I can handle. I have to work like you all, but I know my son growin' up day by day, he'll walk far away from me day by day. That's why I do not mind payin' more effort on him. Plus, kids depend on what the parents do........My point is.......if you do somethin' right now, you'l pay no regret when the day your child leave independenct.....
Just wanna share my point and does anyone here help me translate, thks alot!!
Kathy
kathywonder 2007-7-3 09:51
One more thing, the parents and the teacher, both sides, it doesn't help if conflict for each other, we can't put all the burden on the teacher, and we need havin' more conversation to the teacher of ur kid. Remember, the teacher in school monitors ur kids all day long, and he has no right keepin' the eyes on him after school. School has a regulation but not at hm,....let's ur kids know.....school's a place for human relationship buildin' up, and get knowledge, home is a place where the child can be with their parents.
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johnkarry 2007-7-3 10:28
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2007-7-3 09:51 發表
One more thing, the parents and the teacher, both sides, doesn't gonna to conflict for each other, we can't put all the burden on the teacher, and we need havin' more conversation to the teacher of ... [/quote]
I agree. 我的兒子應該跟妳的同年, 讀小一. 思想跟我的年代已完全不同. 我在他的年紀時只會問今晚吃什麼? 但他已問一些我不識回答的科學性問題. 我也不知道應該感到恩惠, 還是感到不快. 他經常和她媽媽拿他學的日語和我開玩笑, 我完全不知他說什麼???我好像完成孤立, 好像和他很難溝通. 有時只有透過老師才知他在學校中的 一二.
大冒險家 2007-7-3 11:08
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2007-7-3 09:51 發表
One more thing, the parents and the teacher, both sides, it doesn't help if conflict for each other, we can't put all the burden on the teacher, and we need havin' more conversation to the teacher ... [/quote]
Echo Kathy per request ...;P;P
Agreed to certain extent that parents play a vital role in shapping the child's path ...however, I do feel taht nowaday, parents are over-reacted, over-caring their child, put them to so many non-academic activities, for the sake of getting a higer marks for enrolling in best schools...etc...
It seems that the child nowaday lose so many freedom. Cant even have their own thinking ...etc. We should give them a higher degree of autonomy
kathywonder 2007-7-3 12:02
[quote]原帖由 [i]peihu[/i] 於 2007-6-29 02:41 發表
家长是该教 都让家长教那学校留着去搞那些作奸犯科的事啊 那些老师是用来干什么的?引导犯罪还是干什么 ?再说在家教育家长每天陪孩 ... [/quote]
U said totally rubbish!! You unless wanna ur kids being a street boys or even gangster, and won't drop a point like this otherwise!! I'm a woman in work like you, but I do enjoy the times with my kid. And you!? If you care 'bout ur kid, just bring your pure heart and doin' somethin', btu not leave lines here to complain, complain and complain. On and off, I don't mind you leave me message to ask me for. Maybe I'm not a gd mother, but I'm learnin' to be and don't mind sendin' you help.
Kathy!!
johnkarry 2007-7-3 12:04
[quote]原帖由 [i]大冒險家[/i] 於 2007-7-3 11:08 發表
Echo Kathy per request ...;P;P
Agreed to certain extent that parents play a vital role in shapping the child's path ...however, I do feel taht nowaday, parents are over-reacted, over-caring ... [/quote]
你說得對. 在我立場, 個囝喜歡的日文, 英文, 畫畫, 他學無問題因為他喜歡. 但老婆還要他學琴, 數學, 普通話等. 星期一至六 Full Booking. 暑假Schedule仲忙過返學, 依家仲話要佢學法文同西班牙文. Oh! my god. 是否師奶集團總是要囝囡學這學那???難道便不能成材嗎???我見個囝測驗, 考試已可自己攪掂, 也知道不溫習和不勤力的結果. 甚至自己設定目標. 所有我覺得那些補習班有需要才上吧....
johnkarry 2007-7-3 12:09
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2007-7-3 12:02 發表
U said totally rubbish!! You unless wanna ur kids being a street boys or even gangster, and won't drop a point like this otherwise!! I'm a woman in work like you, but I do enjoy the times w ... [/quote]
You are a monther..
adoresex 2007-7-3 13:50
教书育人,现在很多教师都不知道如何做人,哪里来得教育2字
kathywonder 2007-7-3 16:08
[quote]原帖由 [i]adoresex[/i] 於 2007-7-3 13:50 發表
教书育人,现在很多教师都不知道如何做人,哪里来得教育2字 [/quote]
This's sort of constructional problum and 's not what we can improve in aday.
mmr.ren 2007-7-3 16:17
I would say the worst stuff in Hong Kong is the atmosphere of the whole city, people are result oriented (examination) and people are money oriented, people act and speak in two completely different ways.
In this case, you can hardly teach any true value, schools or parents.
moxfactor 2007-7-3 22:45
[quote]原帖由 [i]adoresex[/i] 於 2007-7-3 13:50 發表
教书育人,现在很多教师都不知道如何做人,哪里来得教育2字 [/quote]
也可以對很多家長說同樣的話.
moxfactor 2007-7-3 22:57
[quote]原帖由 [i]mmr.ren[/i] 於 2007-7-3 16:17 發表
I would say the worst stuff in Hong Kong is the atmosphere of the whole city, people are result oriented (examination) and people are money oriented, people act and speak in two completely differen ... [/quote]
the problem isn't only in Hong Kong, albeit Hong Kong suffers from this problem more than many other cities due to it's short limited history and the rapidity the large immigrant population has to adapt to the surroundings. people in Hong Kong are blind followers of the alpha male, mass media.
with consideration of the types of discussion that goes on in the Politics forum, i seriously suggest government provide mandatory parenting courses prior to a couple's first birth. i've recently heard of yet another person, a teenage girl, who until 2 weeks prior to giving birth, did not realize she was pregnant. (and according to the logic of the OP, it's the school system to blame. ;P)
johnkarry 2007-7-4 08:52
[quote]原帖由 [i]mmr.ren[/i] 於 2007-7-3 16:17 發表
I would say the worst stuff in Hong Kong is the atmosphere of the whole city, people are result oriented (examination) and people are money oriented, people act and speak in two completely differen ... [/quote]
以往香港人讀書是以理想為出發點, 現在則以金錢為上. 你看當醫科畢業無人請, 大學生走晒去讀IT; IT爆咗, 地產好時, 個個去讀建築; 到金融好時, 口的人又去讀BBA, MBA; 見會計唔夠人, 又話考ACCA, HKICPA; 依家醫生好搵, 個個又去讀返醫. 究竟有等人真正對自己讀的有真正興趣, 根本就是向錢看. 好似我咁, 80s 會考拿3C都係去排repeat, 中六唔收出呢做嘢; 最近6年係OU完成2個degree (IT & BBA), 又如何, 老婆都話我唔上進, 人工得20k, 要我考ACCA, 金部都是向錢看,根本無樣係我真正鍾意.
個囝得6-7歲, 就要他學這學那, 不斷灌輸做醫生看搵好多錢, 做醫生最好, 千祈唔好老師, otherwise死硬. 看, 這是甚麼世界???
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peihu 2007-7-4 15:21
教育方法有问题,教育者收的教育有问题 ,社会环境却是最有问题,不是想改就能改的
有几人能不向钱看?在当今没有钱生存是问题,就更别说教育了
靠个人解决不了问题,国家机器的运作者的想法是很难从大多人的想法考虑的,所谓的代表绝大多数只不过是当权者的利益分配获得多点的罢了
火雲邪神69 2007-7-4 16:33
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大波妹 2007-7-4 16:44
[quote]原帖由 [i]johnkarry[/i] 於 2007-7-4 08:52 發表
以往香港人讀書是以理想為出發點, 現在則以金錢為上. 你看當醫科畢業無人請, 大學生走晒去讀IT; IT爆咗, 地產好時, 個個去讀建築; 到金融好時, 口的人又去讀BBA, MBA; 見會計唔夠人, 又話考ACCA, HKICPA ... [/quote]
當日我揀fine arts做major果陣, 有人問我讀嚟做乜, 又搵唔到食
但我到今日都冇後悔, 讀書, 唔係為搵錢, 而係求知識, 為興趣, 咁細個就要受到要搵幾錢幾錢既壓力, 唔覺得好辛苦咩?
我第時既小朋友唔會迫佢學呢樣果樣, 佢鍾意就會去學架啦, 咁辛苦, 連童真都冇埋
tsangme 2007-7-4 17:11
現時啲香港教育就是咁K型
個個家長都要谷啲細路學呢樣學嗰樣,邊學得以前咁舒服
:saujai::saujai::saujai:
大波妹 2007-7-4 17:16
[quote]原帖由 [i]tsangme[/i] 於 2007-7-4 17:11 發表
現時啲香港教育就是咁K型
個個家長都要谷啲細路學呢樣學嗰樣,邊學得以前咁舒服
:saujai::saujai::saujai: [/quote]
我細個果陣咩都冇得學...阿爸阿媽話嘥錢...:L
johnkarry 2007-7-4 18:14
[quote]原帖由 [i]大波妹[/i] 於 2007-7-4 17:16 發表
我細個果陣咩都冇得學...阿爸阿媽話嘥錢...:L [/quote]
我細個就咩都想學, 但就無錢學. 我老婆都係, 所以依家環境許可就要個囝學, 可能是心理投射..
daidee169 2007-7-4 18:19
i agree with kathy and some other posts.
at the end of the day it is both the parents and teacher's responsibility. both tide together ling ying yang. teacher is just a rep in the whole system and parents can be supplement to what kids learn at school and the driver on the kid's educational strategy.
mainland system/ hk system/ oversea system they all have their pros and cons. you just have to focus and know what you are doing as a parent.
i dont wanna sound like a saint. money is not everything but you need to cover the basic before you can talk about meaning of life. i dont think there is anything wrong with being money oriented. at least that is the most common indicator of being successful. of course that is not what i would teach my kid as the ultimate goal of life but it is essential to have basic survival skills.
we all need to provide the best things to our kids. I dont mean expensive stuff (this will just spoiled your kid) i mean picking the rite stuff in terms of best quality or best to your kid. best thing may be less $ to them so they have sense of value but not too little and they ended up selling drugs on the street. hope you all see my point.
johnkarry 2007-7-4 18:23
[quote]原帖由 [i]火雲邪神69[/i] 於 2007-7-4 16:33 發表
我唔識睇英文, 不過唔講知唔知道网友亞kathywander佢係"暢談性生活"個版好受歡迎口播. 喂!! 各位, 你地有冇認為一個咁性開放既女人會係一個"好母親"呢!? 喂! 佢又離婚, 又生活唔檢點, 佢點會 ... [/quote]
佢性生活如何, 同佢點教囝, 係兩件事, 難道只有性觀念保守才可做賢妻良母?????
kathywonder 2007-7-4 18:30
呢方面, 我比較幸運一點, 我係大學時係Major Mass Communication, 做記者,同Anchor man係我係High school 時既目標, 我 parents冇反對我take 什麼faculty, 不過可唔可以學以致用, 就很視乎外在因素....我曾經係報館做過.....估唔到可以做到兩年, (因為好辛苦!) :'( 但可以講I did no regret coz I really did what I learned. 有時我會問仔仔, "你大個想做什麼呢!?" 仔仔會話,"我唔知道呀, Mama!! Right! 佢唔知道係好正常:D:D 所以我永遠都係個句"You can do whatever you want, just be a good man, don't do anything wrong, and you're my good son ever and ever!! :):) 我父母點教我, 我咪用返正確觀念教仔仔囉!!:P
Kathy
daidee169 2007-7-4 18:35
火雲邪神69:
中國人性觀念太保守 to some extend 無知
性觀念開放不代表ONS everyone you know or 無安全意識
開放不代表淫蕩. open up your mind and open up your kids mind!
your parents play a little sex game and you are the lucky little winning sperm
johnkarry 2007-7-4 18:46
[quote]原帖由 [i]daidee169[/i] 於 2007-7-4 18:35 發表
火雲邪神69:
中國人性觀念太保守 to some extend 無知
性觀念開放不代表ONS everyone you know or 無安全意識
開放不代表淫蕩. open up your mind and open up your kids mind!
your parents play a ... [/quote]
對!! 起碼現在要對細路進行性教育, 長大才不會因好奇而做錯事. (不是指性是錯, 而是因對性好奇所產生的後遺症)
大冒險家 2007-7-4 18:48
[quote]原帖由 [i]火雲邪神69[/i] 於 2007-7-4 16:33 發表
我唔識睇英文, 不過唔講知唔知道网友亞kathywander佢係"暢談性生活"個版好受歡迎口播. 喂!! 各位, 你地有冇認為一個咁性開放既女人會係一個"好母親"呢!? 喂! 佢又離婚, 又生活唔檢點, 佢點會 ... [/quote]
性開放..?其實佢又p是性開放,...只是上綱在我不知你是誰,你不知我是誰的世界吹水講性經驗,...不是濫交, 何來性開放?
離婚, 我想是一種不幸, 不是她所想要的...
好母親與否, 世界上冇人可以評價,甚致她孩孑...
不過我總覺得她內心很需要認同,...好可能在現實世界得不到及受傷害
johnkarry 2007-7-4 19:10
[quote]原帖由 [i]大冒險家[/i] 於 2007-7-4 18:48 發表
性開放..?其實佢又p是性開放,...只是上綱在我不知你是誰,你不知我是誰的世界吹水講性經驗,...不是濫交, 何來性開放?
離婚, 我想是一種不幸, 不是她所想要的...
好母親與否, 世界上冇人可以評價,甚致 ... [/quote]
其實她只是性需要可能較多, 但並不影響她做好母親的責任.
kathywonder 2007-7-4 19:44
小孩子的暑假!!
Thought seems hard to prepare the summer schedual for kids, Me too. But first of all, we have to please with the way things by kids at hm fall out, coz they've been out of school and normally just doin' little work at hm. Plus, summer's a great time to relax, they'll get screw loose if we keep put more burden on them. (English summer course, Math course, Painting.....etc.) Why, they're kids not the slave. My point is, they of course have to keep studyin' but appropriated, and let them try somethin' new, or even weird such as if your kid doesn't know what grass hopper is, just bring'em out to wood and show what grass hopper is. Remember, why not let our child be abnormal. The point I wanna bring out is "Kid needs break!!"
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kathywonder 2007-7-4 21:22
[quote]原帖由 [i]johnkarry[/i] 於 2007-7-4 19:10 發表
其實她只是性需要可能較多, 但並不影響她做好母親的責任. [/quote]
Hi!! Just give me abit respect and I don't wanna say any words related sex here, thks alot!! In a words, as a mother I did the best I can. So,...pls!! ^^
Kathy
大波妹 2007-7-4 22:01
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2007-7-4 21:22 發表
Hi!! Just give me abit respect and I don't wanna say any words related sex here, thks alot!! In a words, as a mother I did the best I can. So,...pls!! ^^
Kathy [/quote]
No worry, Kathy, I can totally understand, u see I never response to him anymore in this post, tht guy's sick:givemefive:
kathywonder 2007-7-4 22:33
[quote]原帖由 [i]peihu[/i] 於 2007-7-4 15:21 發表
教育方法有问题,教育者收的教育有问题 ,社会环境却是最有问题,不是想改就能改的
有几人能不向钱看?在当今没有钱生存是& ... [/quote]
其實你可唔可以講下你既背景, 例如兒女幾多歲, 讀幾多年級, 或者你的學歷背景, well, 相信你都係為人家長, 我都係, 可以的話大家可以相量!! 提點!! 冇錯....錢真係很重要, 但灌輸什麼觀念對小孩同樣重要的, 希望你明白!!
Kathy
大冒險家 2007-7-4 23:14
In fact, the economy is ever changing, I think people keep chasing on the subject that make money in future is not a problem. This is also one of the aim for education, which is to contribute to the economy. In the past when HK is still an industrial city, many places had been offered for engineering degree, ...now HK have been foucsed more on Finance, so more people should be trained to adapt the changing needs of the society. Of course on one hand we also need to take care the "view" of the child, but society run that way, when the society need more people for finance, they promote finance degree, open more seats for it...
Although the relevance of the degree is not the only factor that contribute to the success of a person, but it does help and the society does need.
Sometimes, children are not mature enough to think so further away, that's y, as parents, we also need to point out all the pros n cons ...etc for different alternatives being chosen.
kathywonder 2007-7-4 23:51
[quote]原帖由 [i]大冒險家[/i] 於 2007-7-4 23:14 發表
In fact, the economy is ever changing, I think people keep chasing on the subject that make money in future is not a problem. This is also one of the aim for education, which is to contribute to th ... [/quote]
Ummm.....on the other way, the situation HK's gonna been changed, what as metropolis in Asia, the core financial city in China, it's just a fairy tale. See the HK economy nowaday's only relied on the Mainland China, and it'd be a dead duck like without support from China. They don't look for the globle market, on and off it'd be a dead end. plus, the ex-HK leader 董建華 pushed out the policy of "Mother langurage", we couldn't see any good react, but the only thing we suffer is, heavy burden on teacher, and they couldn't have any time to up-grade more, coz lack of time and passionate. (See how horrible of politic!!:nono::nono:) That's why I do appreciated what Arthur Lee brought off a merge of CU and 教院. If we can't find any top being a teacher, what U expect our next generation can be the top like!! Right!?
[[i] 本帖最後由 kathywonder 於 2007-7-4 23:53 編輯 [/i]]
moxfactor 2007-7-5 04:19
i don't see a problem with teaching in the "mother tongue" as much as the politicians who want to push it fast. Chinese should learn Chinese as first priority(and by Chinese i don't mean Mandarin or Simpleton Chinese). Mixed language teaching is bad for children, and leading to the famous "Trainee become 青衣" quote from that airport recording. I strongly believe in people being able to speak at least 1 language properly, instead of a mix of blurred languages (and this indirectly targets Singaporeans in general).
the main problem of this thread, is still that some people believe all the burdens of teaching, from general education like languages, math, and science, to morality, social, and even sexual education, should be on the teacher. that's a pathetic excuse by irresponsible parents. people need to learn to take responsibility if they decide to have children. maybe then, the teachers will have less family problems to deal with and be able to teach properly.
johnkarry 2007-7-5 08:42
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2007-7-4 22:33 發表
其實你可唔可以講下你既背景, 例如兒女幾多歲, 讀幾多年級, 或者你的學歷背景, well, 相信你都係為人家長, 我都係, 可以的話大家可以相量!! 提點!! 冇錯....錢真係很重要, 但灌輸什麼觀念對小孩同樣重要 ... [/quote]
妳的小朋友是否一年級?? 根據妳的post, 理應不會安排太多課程給他.
kathywonder 2007-7-5 12:17
傻啦! 我唔會比太多program比我仔仔既, 話哂放summer, 佢喜歡游水, so he takes twice a week, 同兒童攀石班, 你地知細路仔幾energetic 謚!! (佢成日同我bf一齊玩既) 反而平日d中英數, 都係每日做半個鐘頭, 純粹比佢keep住disiipline, weekend, 同 Sunday朝早會陪佢整駼reakfest. 等佢試儱s東西!!
魔鬼與天使 2007-7-7 04:28
[quote]原帖由 [i]johnkarry[/i] 於 2007-7-4 18:14 發表
我細個就咩都想學, 但就無錢學. 我老婆都係, 所以依家環境許可就要個囝學, 可能是心理投射.. [/quote]
我也是你這種心態。
我現在帶兩個孩子,大的成績不太好,脾氣很大,我最初不知從哪里教他,只好送补習社,英文勁差,后來向有些成績好同學的家長請教,聽她們的建議,學鋼琴、國画兼毛笔字;來改善小孩暴燥的脾氣,最近小孩子開始很有耐性,而英文呢,我將小孩交給英文語言學校,從abc開始,學英文拼音,這次英文考試也合格了,雖然他也會叫累,但成績的進步增長了他的自信心。
johnkarry 2007-7-7 08:29
[quote]原帖由 [i]魔鬼與天使[/i] 於 2007-7-7 04:28 發表
我也是你這種心態。
我現在帶兩個孩子,大的成績不太好,脾氣很大,我最初不知從哪里教他,只好送补習社,英文勁差,后來向有些成績好同學的家長請教,聽她們的建議,學鋼琴、國画兼毛笔字 ... [/quote]
我個仔都叫ok, 只要佢有興趣, 唔駛叫佢都會學. 好似佢鍾意日文, 病都話要返學. 但學琴就興趣不大, 間中都有話放棄. 依家佢讀書都唔駛點擔心, 佢有佢嘅方法讀, 係中文字就衰小小. 上學期全級十五, 佢話今次一定要頭五名內, 我反而驚佢壓力大.
kathywonder 2007-7-7 11:03
[quote]原帖由 [i]johnkarry[/i] 於 2007-7-7 08:29 發表
我個仔都叫ok, 只要佢有興趣, 唔駛叫佢都會學. 好似佢鍾意日文, 病都話要返學. 但學琴就興趣不大, 間中都有話放棄. 依家佢讀書都唔駛點擔心, 佢有佢嘅方法讀, 係中文字就衰小小. 上學期全級十五, 佢話今 ... [/quote]
Hi!! Stress,....其實大部份是家長對子女過份的期望, as a matter of a fact, 因為大多數家長本著"羊群心態", 人家的孩子全班考頭三名, 我們亦要兒子努力.....etc.......我仔仔係DBS度讀, 佢今年P1讀完, 考15名, 我仲同佢講"幾好撾!" 特別係英文w, 中文就要努力點! 知唔知!! ^^ 點解我咁講呢! I'm not kinda top in class, 但學生時期我比較喜歡運動, 例如我曾經孩係校隊田徑隊成員. 我清楚我唔可以變成一副讀書機器,我以前全班成績都係考15名之內, 所以...我點解而家要逼我仔仔呢!! 只要佢enjoy in study, 咁已經okay 啦!
kathywonder 2007-7-7 11:10
還有,, 今年佢考15名, 即係證明小朋友仲有進步空間啦!! 而且還有給他知道他需要improve的地方在那裡, 從而引導小朋友從錯處出發. Remember, no one, and nothing's perfect!!
meme1980 2007-7-7 11:39
家長的角色!!!
大家好, 我都是一名家長, 小朋友升小學三年級了. 之前都有在其他网站留言, 但這次我在此留言區發現, 原來在成人討論區留言的, 都可以在此討論區開題討論, 本人並不是要向人說教, 或向其他网友背後說"不是", 只不過家長的角色, 是要以身作則, 正如我對自己的小朋友怎樣貫輸正確家庭觀念. Kathy小姐, 我相信妳為人母親, 亦不想你的小孩有朝一日, 會看見自己媽媽在一些成人討論區寫下一些情欲話題的, 我不認識妳, 但作為母親的我一定不會將這些事公開的......如果我是小朋友, 亦唔想自己媽媽在這裡和其他男网友開談的.