kathywonder 2008-2-15 09:59
終於可以再喺呢度留言. Thks, 細摩版主. 唔該哂!!
尋日係情人節, 有啲乜嘢慶祝......其實我唔係需要一啲好 fancy, 好 elegant 嘅禮物, (尋晚都係同埋仔仔, 羊咩一齊出街食飯.) 嘻......去太平......館囉!! 羊咩同仔仔檻住我織俾佢嘅頸巾; 我收到乜嘢禮物?? 遲 d 話俾你哋知.....:P:P
mmr.ren 2008-2-15 10:04
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-15 01:59 發表
終於可以再喺呢度留言. Thks, 細摩版主. 唔該哂!!
尋日係情人節, 有啲乜嘢慶祝......其實我唔係需要一啲好 fancy, 好 elegant 嘅禮物, (尋晚都係同埋仔仔, 羊咩一齊出街食飯.) ... [/quote]
我係 last minute 先搵倒 D 時間買左樣實用既野俾老婆 :victory::victory:
kathywonder 2008-2-15 10:10
[quote]原帖由 [i]mmr.ren[/i] 於 2008-2-15 10:04 發表
我係 last minute 先搵倒 D 時間買左樣實用既野俾老婆 :victory::victory: [/quote]
唉!! 你真係........:oh::oh: 咁大意....
mmr.ren 2008-2-15 10:13
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-15 02:10 發表
唉!! 你真係........:oh::oh: 咁大意.... [/quote]
我諗左好耐架喇... 要真係有用又要鍾意, 諗唔倒都唔奇 :lol:lol:lol
kathywonder 2008-2-15 10:14
[quote]原帖由 [i]mmr.ren[/i] 於 2008-2-15 10:13 發表
我諗左好耐架喇... 要真係有用又要鍾意, 諗唔倒都唔奇 :lol:lol:lol [/quote]
唉!! 10 個男人着咗7, 8 個都係咁.......
mmr.ren 2008-2-15 10:16
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-15 02:14 發表
唉!! 10 個男人着咗7, 8 個都係咁....... [/quote]
諗過過種都好重要嘛... :P:P
日日諗住佢想要咩, 所以想唔愛佢都幾難, 時時刻刻都諗, 日日都掛 :loveeyes::loveeyes:
sl886 2008-2-16 18:28
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2007-11-22 17:50 發表
Oxfam Trailwalker 2007, 東壩頭:P:P [/quote]
Dear Kathy, as a lovely lady, how do you explain my story?
Last year, I went to the mainland for a businness trip. I met a lady who worked in the mainland branch of our company. She was 37 at that time (born in 1970) but still in a good shape. We met in a formal occassion and I treated her as a regular friend. You know, I served her during the dinner, as a gentleman, nothing special.
Last month, my company, as well as the mainland branch, had a sort of meeting for strategic planning. The venue was in a Country Club in Guangzhou. In this occasion, I met her again. After the welcome dinner, she invited me to have a walk. I promised, also, because, as a gentleman, it is courtesy. There was a lake at the center of the Country Club. From the banquet hall to the lake, the environment was dark so she held my arm. I did not notice any strange. After we had arrived the lakeshore, I suggested siting down for a rest. Then something happened! She leaned her head on my shoulder. Well, I didn't know how to response. Time seemed stopped. Biologically my instinct urged me to "start the action" but my brain told me that I must stop because there might be too many potential complexes, e.g. I didn't know her background so as the consequences. After a couple of minutes, I decided to retract and I suggested going back hotel. She said she had some good tea, why not going to her room for a chat. I refused because I had already made the decision.
After I had gone back to Hong Kong, we communicated through email. I know more about her background. She is married but have no kids. She said she feels life boring and my appearance made her life colorful. She liked me when she saw me at the first sight! I also tell her about my situation. I have a regular GF. She says that's OK. We are adults. She will not affect the relationship between my GF and I. I will go to the mainland branch next month. I wonder whether there will have something happened.
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kathywonder 2008-2-21 18:03
[quote]原帖由 [i]sl886[/i] 於 2008-2-16 18:28 發表
Dear Kathy, as a lovely lady, how do you explain my story?
Last year, I went to the mainland for a businness trip. I met a lady who worked in the mainland branch of our company. She was 37 a ... [/quote]
Sorry for my lated reply, and a....thks your words first of all and think it's not kinda story like, (I mean what you told.) but fact's really happened on you. One thing I do appreciate, at least you know what ur position is, and never step to ur "Thin Red Danger Line", never goes wrong. I don't think she's wanna play tricks on you, or even she's gonna crush on you possibly, but 'em...she's ur co-league but diffenent location. The point I wanna tell is "Why u but not others??" Just curious, and did you meet her several times before, and as a net friends I wanna ask, "You're her boss, or not!!??" Or you both just the same level in work and got no influerance for each other. Plus, she gotta husband, right?? As a common friend, I do don't mind people close to me, coz that's reacted as friendship like. But if she, ur co-league did more than you expect for, so, you have to think 'bout being a lair since start up the relationship. Know what, it seems piece of cake sayin' sort of words "That's ok, I won't being the person in the middle." But when the times go far, won't she being ur nightmair?? I'm not gonna push you hear what I say, but it always happen, especially the women presently whose so aggressive, close to insane. That's why Kathy wanna give you advice. No matter what...hope hear ur good news soon, and remember. It's hard to find someone u love, but you can lose it in a second.
Kathy!!:P:P
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kathywonder 2008-2-21 18:18
點解今日冇上嚟....唔....奶奶今日唔係幾舒服, 咁要同佢睇醫生. 對於奶奶, 我一直都有一份歉意的. 她起初真的唔想我同我ex-hus 離婚的. 所以...就算我ex-hus 點唔生性, 對住老爺,奶奶, 我一定盡好我的本份. 今日見到她, 她精神比之前好. 但老爺嘅離去, 加上我 ex-hus 嘅事, 令她蒼老了很多. 其實今日我仲帶埋"羊咩媽咪" (我未來奶奶)飲茶, 幸好佢倆個老人家傾得＋分投契, thks God!!:P:P
要過去的, 始終要過去, 怎樣活着, 並活得精彩, 活得開心, 才是最重要; 幸福......咪從這裡來呢!!
Kat
sl886 2008-2-22 10:36
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-21 10:03 發表
Sorry for my lated reply, and a....thks your words first of all and think it's not kinda story like, (I mean what you told.) but fact's really happened on you. One thing I do appreciate, at ... [/quote]
Dear Kathy, you are really a lovely lady as you can organize your life so well. You are even able to bring your ex-mom-in-law and your future-mom-in-law together having a nice meal.
Thank you for your advice. I understand what you say and I agree with you.
For my case, I did meet her several times before. But just once a year. Your question “Why u but not others?” may have two answers: 1/ In terms of ranking, I was one of the top rank officers in the meeting, so I think I successfully drew her attentions. 2/ I think I am physically attractive to her. I always have shining smile on my face. My figure is still in very good shape: 38-28-37; 5’10” and 145lb. I have dense hair on my head. I even have no “fish-tailed” wrinkles when I smile.
Although I am senior to her, we have no influences to each other. We even cannot be considered as colleagues. My office has no collaborations with hers. So, even we start, it will not have any complexes, at least in terms of work, because we are in two different cities.
Frankly speaking, she did give me a good feeling. Nevertheless, it is not sufficient for me to start such a relationship with her although my masculine instinct urges me to seek for romantic adventure.
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mmr.ren 2008-2-22 11:00
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-21 10:18 發表
點解今日冇上嚟....唔....奶奶今日唔係幾舒服, 咁要同佢睇醫生. 對於奶奶, 我一直都有一份歉意的. 她起初真的唔想我同我ex-hus 離婚的. 所以...就算我ex-hus 點唔生性, 對住老爺,奶奶, 我一定盡好我的本份. ... [/quote]
let it be :lol
kathywonder 2008-2-22 12:23
[quote]原帖由 [i]mmr.ren[/i] 於 2008-2-22 11:00 發表
let it be :lol [/quote]
或者係我唔忍心留低奶奶一個o卦!!
chiugor 2008-2-22 13:45
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-22 12:23 發表
或者係我唔忍心留低奶奶一個o卦!! [/quote]
a sentimental and considerate lady,人間有情
kathywonder 2008-2-24 01:37
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Re: a sentimental and considerate lady,人間有情
如果問, 點解重同前夫嘅家人絡, 我會覺得...我唔係要做一個"老死不相住來"嘅人. 佢係我前夫, 這個是不爭的事實. 但我巳經把這段關係下, and bury over it. 可以話...煙消雲散; 但老爺奶奶並不是. 佢哋老一輩的思想是改變不了的, 做後生的, 能夠可以做的, Kathy 一定做到. Since my father-in law passed away, and I'm the only person responsible to keep the eyes on my 奶奶, (Of course including my 大伯's couples.) 有時, 諗返轉頭, 當仔仔出世, 成長, 老爺真的很用心去和這孫仔溝通, 可以話...這孩子令他晚年了卻一件心願. 今日我前夫打過電話嚟, but I wasn't at home and left no message. 我唔知佢發生甚麽事, 但這一刻...仔仔的反應, 令我知道...我唔會再諗起他. 仔仔巳經 100% 放下和他的 relationship; I think...it should be at time to end up!! Perhaps, I'm kind of silly lady, right??
Good night, all!!
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jackwine 2008-2-24 03:39
there is no clean cut, no matter what, she is your son's grandma, however, it does not mean that you have the responsibility to look after her, it's your own decision on how to set the boundary.
kathywonder 2008-2-24 10:51
[quote]原帖由 [i]jackwine[/i] 於 2008-2-24 03:39 發表
there is no clean cut, no matter what, she is your son's grandma, however, it does not mean that you have the responsibility to look after her, it's your own decision on how to set the boundary. [/quote]
By the way, why you call urself Jackwine, or maybe you're kinda wine lover like me. :P:P
Try Panfolds Yattana, my favor white wine. As for the red, with no doubt Latour 1996, and Montrose 1990 (Parker rated 100.), and Gruaud Larose 1986. Must try...:P:P
Kat
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kathywonder 2008-2-24 11:04
Oh!! I also leave a thread at [color=Red][b]"遙遠的 Paradise"[/b][/color] , please go and leave me some lines.
Kat
chiugor 2008-2-24 15:52
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-24 10:51 發表
By the way, why you call urself Jackwine, or maybe you're kinda wine lover like me. :P:P
Try Panfolds Yattana, my favor white wine. As for the red, with no doubt Latour 1996, and Montrose ... [/quote]
penfolds, 28, 128 of 2004 are great
chiugor 2008-2-24 15:55
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-24 01:37 發表
Re: a sentimental and considerate lady,人間有情
如果問, 點解重同前夫嘅家人絡, 我會覺得...我唔係要做一個"老死不相住來"嘅人. 佢係我前夫, 這個是不爭的事實. 但我巳經把 ... [/quote]
well, i am fully agree with you, that is fate, when the relationship is over,it is over, but no need to be enemy..
chiugor 2008-2-24 15:57
like my in law, she always go back to see her parents-in law after divorce, and as a mature person, we know what we should do, and what we shouldnt do,前夫 is finished not means the relationship with their family is finished.
kathywonder 2008-2-24 23:39
When I think harder, I also remember how bad he treat me, (who's he, just think 'bout.) With no respect, no care, no appreciatation at all...the total ignorant...so much immuaturity and arrogance, so selfish and self-centre like there was nobody in the world or everyone just evolving 'round him. Father, I hate that. Why my ex can't be the sweet, ....now, he's been away from me and now have to turn my new page. He's just my part of my history......to be continued...
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kathywonder 2008-2-25 18:46
It wasn't a story, few years ago in Astoria, I met a couple whose name James and Sylvia. For me, they're a lovely couple, very funny, engergetic, and ....quite violent sometimes...particularly when they got into an frequent arguement , or fights, they always ended up with some violence.....One time after their "violent fight", I couldn't help but asked 'em, have you both ever thought of getting divorce?" They both responced simultaneously . "Oh! Yes!! Many times!! With a big smile on their faces." Curiously about what happened every time? I was intrigue, Then James said " Well , I was lazy and asked her to go make the papers, and lucky was lazy and asked me to go make the papers, and so we both are so lazy and no body ever go it happen....."
I was laughting and learnt that lazy couples won't get divorce!! That's something good about being lazy though.....:P:P
mmr.ren 2008-2-26 09:33
different people has different style to get together, but violence shouldn't be one of them...
ernestthl 2008-2-26 18:01
let it be..... !!!! >.^
kathywonder 2008-2-26 20:02
[quote]原帖由 [i]ernestthl[/i] 於 2008-2-26 18:01 發表
let it be..... !!!! >.^ [/quote]
Thks my dear!! :P:P
kathywonder 2008-2-26 20:38
A book, here wanna share, "Rape of Nanking" by Iris Chang. Very very very....good book.:verygood::verygood:
chungyong 2008-2-26 21:42
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-26 12:38 發表
A book, here wanna share, "Rape of Nanking" by Iris Chang. Very very very....good book.:verygood::verygood: [/quote]
Ya, knew this book and the author quite some time ago. Very pity, she was dead later because of the pressure is too big.
chungyong 2008-2-26 21:43
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-26 12:38 發表
A book, here wanna share, "Rape of Nanking" by Iris Chang. Very very very....good book.:verygood::verygood: [/quote]
and a friend/colleage of her recently wrote a book about her death
jackwine 2008-2-27 05:40
回復 #667 kathywonder 的帖子
Oh yeah, I love wine, Pinot Noir is my favorite. However, I am not that picky, who you shared the wine with and the drinking atmosphere are more important to me. Once in a while, my wife and I will book a lunch inside the closeby winery, and that's the most enjoyable and the best way to unwind our busy schedule
kathywonder 2008-2-27 09:04
[quote]原帖由 [i]jackwine[/i] 於 2008-2-27 05:40 發表
Oh yeah, I love wine, Pinot Noir is my favorite. However, I am not that picky, who you shared the wine with and the drinking atmosphere are more important to me. Once in a while, my wife and I will ... [/quote]
I love wine coz my 舅父 in Astoria's a wine lover, and before he retired, he worked related wine industry; Pinot Moir, why not try region near by Nuit St. George, typical Burgandy.....:P:P
dizzc 2008-2-27 09:32
我都成日飲, 係唔識分咩係靚, 咩係唔靚(當然差距太大都係識分既), 去買都係百幾至幾百既, 再叫佢揀d冇咁果酸, 木室味既就ok了
最鍾意都係啤酒, 冰凍, 有氣, 大啖大啖飲, 真係爽!
leicalover 2008-2-27 09:34
[quote]原帖由 [i]chungyong[/i] 於 2008-2-26 21:42 發表
Ya, knew this book and the author quite some time ago. Very pity, she was dead later because of the pressure is too big. [/quote]
From wiki:
Chang's death
The book was the main source of fame for Iris Chang, who was well-respected in China for raising awareness of the Nanking Massacre in the Western world.[34] At the same time, Chang was receiving torrents of hate mail, especially from Japanese ultranationalists. She found threatening notes on her car and she believed her phone was tapped. She would respond overwhelmingly to any question of the validity of her work. Her own mother said the book "made Iris sad". Chang suffered from depression and was diagnosed with "brief reactive psychosis" in August 2004. She began taking medications to stabilize her mood. She wrote:
I can never shake my belief that I was being recruited, and later persecuted, by forces more powerful than I could have imagined. Whether it was the CIA or some other organization I will never know. As long as I am alive, these forces will never stop hounding me.
Succumbing to her battle with depression, Chang took her own life in November 2004. After her suicide, a memorial service was held in China by Nanking Massacre survivors at the same time as her funeral in Los Altos, California, and the Memorial Hall of the Victims in the Nanjing Massacre, a memorial site in Nanjing built to commemorate the victims of the Nanking Massacre, added a wing dedicated to her in 2005. In the US, a Chinese garden in Norfolk, Virginia, which contains a memorial to Minnie Vautrin, added a memorial dedicated to Chang, including her as the latest victim of the Nanking Massacre.
kathywonder 2008-2-27 09:41
[quote]原帖由 [i]leicalover[/i] 於 2008-2-27 09:34 發表
From wiki:
Chang's death
The book was the main source of fame for Iris Chang, who was well-respected in China for raising awareness of the Nanking Massacre in the Western world. At the ... [/quote]
With no doubt she's murdered by no hand, and more upset is an innocent like her just wrote us a truth with pure heart, and lost that life at last. God!! give her justice, pls.
dizzc 2008-2-27 10:35
[quote]原帖由 [i]kathywonder[/i] 於 2008-2-27 09:41 發表
With no doubt she's murdered by no hand, and more upset is an innocent like her just wrote us a truth with pure heart, and lost that life at last. God!! give her justice, pls. [/quote]
睇下d開心既書啦, 我對呢d都幾upset
leicalover 2008-2-27 10:45
Kama Sutra maybe?
kathywonder 2008-2-27 23:29
Someone said, "I was dying in here, when read such boring words, sort of hate what woman says." Well, just fine but Kathy doesn't pull the trigger of the gun and aiming on, you can leave and go any other where. But one thing u gotta know, "Treat women well, otherwise, be a loser, cos u pay women no respect."
kathywonder 2008-2-28 08:51
Am I kind of woman insane????
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mmr.ren 2008-2-28 09:32
this two are quite different than the older ones wor... long time ago?
kathywonder 2008-2-28 09:37
[quote]原帖由 [i]mmr.ren[/i] 於 2008-2-28 09:32 發表
this two are quite different than the older ones wor... long time ago? [/quote]
2 yrs ago at Tokyo.
leicalover 2008-2-28 09:59
Don't have those radiant smile. Really like those.
kathywonder 2008-2-28 10:05
[quote]原帖由 [i]leicalover[/i] 於 2008-2-28 09:59 發表
Don't have those radiant smile. Really like those. [/quote]
What 'bout this??:P:P
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leicalover 2008-2-28 10:07
YES!!! This keeps me going for the rest of the day! A Big Thanks. Love it!! :rose:
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dizzc 2008-2-28 13:54
[quote]原帖由 [i]阿甘正傳[/i] 於 2008-2-28 13:29 發表
冇記錯係91 年 thks giving day, 佢又無啦啦咁走上嚟! (好似話探朋友卦, 唉!...藉口!!) 咁又好彩呢段時間我又冇乜人追堝, 因為yr 2 同 yr 3, d 功課好多, 成日寫 assignment, paper. 咁放假個陣, 我又卦住做part ... [/quote]
係好似york添, 不過大把啦......冇加工既話佢話有卅幾c, 港女(溝左北唔算)有鬼咁大咩:lol:lol:lol:lol:lol
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