strange 2008-4-6 17:59
深圳女朋友在早上送個男人回香港
前天早上, 我打電話給深圳的女朋友, 她是做按腳的, 說我要過去找她,
她說要陪個同事去草埔租房子, 沒空陪我, 要到下午才可以, 我說好吧, 叫她下午有空才打電話找我吧.
那我就先上去, 打算去東門逛一逛, 等女朋友陪同事找完房子,去會合她.
誰知我於早上十時半一出羅湖關口, 離遠約三十公尺見到她從羅湖地鐵站電梯上來, 旁邊有一個男三十來歲的男人, 見他們從電梯上到地面後, 那男的向她親了一下, 跟著便自己行向交通樓出關方向, 而我的女朋友則站著不動, 依依不捨的望著那男人行往出關往香港方向.
當時她沒有看到我, 而我可能被我見到的一切嚇呆了, 沒有即時衝上我女朋友那裡揭發她, 呆了的看著女朋友在送那男人後,離開關口那裡.
過了一陣, 我打電話給她, 問她在那裡,她還說自己在草埔和同事一起.:fire:
我當然將剛才我看到的向她質問, 她竟然說沒有這事, 是我看錯.
各位兄弟你們差一下, 我的女朋友是否和那男人於前一晚去開房, 開心一晚後,然後第二日早上送他回香港去?
ben7 2008-4-6 18:24
故事這麼多，放棄吧
以經是過去式了呢
K場之狼 2008-4-6 19:13
古惑女一定無得留低!!!!:fire:
khadafy 2008-4-6 19:20
呢D野日日都發生無數次,
深圳女朋友,是用來調劑下就可以,
咪咁認真啦！
人地離鄉別井,是要搵錢旣.....
點會只是招呼一個人呀！...係咪！
Rambo4 2008-4-6 19:26
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japjap 2008-4-6 20:08
同樣故事實在聽得太多, 但係都謝謝師兄你又提醒我一次, 唔好咁傻同天真
firefrog 2008-4-6 20:40
[size=5]這樣的事，每天都有發生!:reading: 如果係一星期過嚟拾返劑�H女朋友，咁你笑吓就算:lol，唔好阻人發達。如果佢:afraid:真係你女朋友:rose:咁就要小心處理。:L[/size]
[size=7]既然你發現咗，我覺得你想點係最重要[/size]
tommyoou 2008-4-6 20:50
每一條女背後有一個故事，
只准聽，不准問，
知結果，還要問，是最笨
BBQ_GUTS 2008-4-6 20:53
give up :saujai:
happyguy 2008-4-6 21:09
其实你應該吊着他,然後給她电話，她否認後行上前拆穿她
pkhkg 2008-4-6 21:27
你己經親眼見到，你重要問？係唔係想我地俾個好聽嘅原因，等你安慰自己原諒佢呀？放棄吧，每日都有好多相同嘅事情發生架啦。
mc-188 2008-4-6 22:00
It's very usual. Don't you understand? You've seen every thing. You still have to ask....
colorbhk 2008-4-6 22:23
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-6 17:59 發表
各位兄弟你們差一下, 我的女朋友是否和那男人於前一晚去開房, 開心一晚後,然後第二日早上送他回香港去? [/quote]
唔係, 係果朝開房,開心一上午後,然後去接你.
jjchan218 2008-4-6 22:28
難道要女女 24小時standby等你回來么！
人家女兒年青又要揾食，你玩吓咪算囉。:saujai:
做BG嘅實在接觸HK男性太容易，怎會受得住金錢誘惑？这跟男性也抗拒不了靚女一樣！:lol
Take it easy!!!!
ayufan 2008-4-6 22:51
這個很正常，常常有的勒。
Rambo4 2008-4-6 23:44
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7-siu 2008-4-6 23:51
My friend, you have seen all you need to know. No need to ask anymore. Just leave and say nothing. or just give her a sms.
ying8585 2008-4-6 23:53
[quote]原帖由 [i]firefrog[/i] 於 2008-4-6 20:40 發表
這樣的事，每天都有發生!:reading: 如果係一星期過嚟拾返劑�H女朋友，咁你笑吓就算:lol，唔好阻人發達。如果佢:afraid:真係你女朋友:rose:咁就要小心處理。:L
既然你發現咗，我覺得你想點係最重要 [/quote]
agree, 唔知就話冇得好講!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
strange 2008-4-7 00:33
謝謝各位的意見!
寧可給我知, 不可給我見.
一於飛掉她.
fengliu 2008-4-7 01:11
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 00:33 發表
謝謝各位的意見!
寧可給我知, 不可給我見.
一於飛掉她. [/quote]
you are right:verygood:
佢個後備BF LIST 可能好長:L
smbs06 2008-4-7 04:25
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 00:33 發表
謝謝各位的意見!
寧可給我知, 不可給我見.
一於飛掉她. [/quote]
Many brothers think they are #1 in the heart of their respective CN girlfiiends. In actuality, they may be #101 ;P Your case is typical of those who sink uncontrollably. Be clear of what this relationship is and what the future stands for (usually nothing), then you will not be surprised at all.
Years ago, a local guy I knew from China died from an accidental fall off the outside wall of his apartment. He was half drunk one evening when he returned to the apartment where he and his GF lived. As he tried to open the front door, he quickly discovered that it was locked. When he rang the bell and later pound on the door, no one opened it. He was positive someone was there as the door was locked from the inside. He heard some noise coming from the unit that was his GF and another guy. He was so mad he decided to enter the apartment by climbing the outside wall. He slipped and fell when he almost reached his apartment window, breaking his neck in the process and later died. WTF, for one of these girls? Are you kidding me?
john_1 2008-4-7 10:45
they are all parttime女朋友, and we are their part time boy friends. Don't take it too seriously and this will teach us not to spend too money on any one of them.
smbs06 2008-4-7 10:54
[quote]原帖由 [i]john_1[/i] 於 2008-4-7 10:45 發表
they are all parttime女朋友, and we are their part time boy friends. Don't take it too seriously and this will teach us not to spend too money on any one of them. [/quote]
Agree. Not only not to spend excessive money but also not to invest too much passion or emotion.
doubleOO 2008-4-7 12:04
Agreed with most brothers here, Don't be a fool to kid yourself that you are the ONLY boyfriend she has. This kind of story happned so many times and it is not news anymore. it is the exact reason I never want to privatize girls in China, not that I can't afford but I fully understand that such relationship will not last and has no future. So why bother!!
You should count yourself lucky to find out sooner than later before you sink your whole boat or money into her.
安全 2008-4-7 12:20
I think u should be happy too! Now u know u have found a pretty gf! Otherwise, she can't attract other man! It means yr taste is not bad!
coke818 2008-4-7 12:24
樓主，你在香港有沒有老婆，或者女朋友呢？你期望佢同你的關係是怎樣？唔通你會娶佢做老婆咩？你自己都唔到咁專一，你又要人哋對咁專一，係未有ｄ過份呢？出嚟都係玩吓啫，可必咁認真呢？
par3 2008-4-7 12:47
sometimes when u r for real, they tend to feel u r short term solution and that make u disappointed.
sometimes when they r for real, u may end up feeling doubtful on whether they have something hiding behind u cuz u just feel impossible for them to settle on u.
i think the most important thing is that just know what u r expecting from a certain relationship, if things go wrong, all u need to do is knowing exactly when to let go, then recover and move on
eunyeong 2008-4-7 13:08
既然已經見到晒，下定決心分手吧 ! 這樣的事情，在香港也常有的，不要放在心裡啊 !
Haidada 2008-4-7 14:44
師兄既然可以沖上去質問她﹐ 那你跟她的關係應非比尋常。。但師兄提到她是按腳的。。
能否詳細點講一下你跟她的關系呢。。
骨場認識後熟了的客人﹖--應該不是。。還未有權去質問她。。:nono:
不講錢交往的朋友﹖。。可能還未有權去質問。。:nono:
有給家用的飯盒﹖。。應也不是。。飯盒就應該不再上班了。。:nono:
送了很多東西/錢給她。。感覺上是你條女。。﹖我想這有點像了。。:L
CPKTVman 2008-4-7 15:29
回復 #29 Haidada 的帖子
I agree with ur analysis. Most likely 送了很多東西/錢給她。。感覺上是你條女。。﹖
hongkonger 2008-4-7 16:31
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-6 17:59 發表
前天早上, 我打電話給深圳的女朋友, 她是做按腳的, 說我要過去找她,
她說要陪個同事去草埔租房子, 沒空陪我, 要到下午才可以, 我說好吧, 叫她下午有空才打電話找我吧.
那我就先上去, 打算去東門逛一逛, 等女 ... [/quote]
你可能看錯了吧
你這樣發問就証明你心中也不能確認
如果你愛你女朋友, 就應該相信她的話, 對嗎?
就是妳女友前一晚真的去開房
也可能沒有做愛, 頂多是吹吹簫, 抽抽水已而
大熱天時、孤男寡女, 你又不在, 這個你也理解可以吧, 對嗎?
:nono::nono: 師兄, 你如果睇到呢到都唔發 :fire: , 咁你就唔使理其他師兄點講, 同條女玩落去
因為這會証明你好 on 9 , 請唔好話自己係香港人
陸小鳳6688 2008-4-7 17:25
[size=4][quote]原帖由 [i]khadafy[/i] 於 2008-4-6 19:20 發表
呢D野日日都發生無數次,
深圳女朋友,是用來調劑下就可以,
咪咁認真啦！
人地離鄉別井,是要搵錢旣.....
點會只是招呼一個人呀！...係咪！ [/quote][/size]
[color=Red][size=6]呢的野經常發生架啦[/size][/color]:saujai::saujai:
dontran 2008-4-7 18:47
[size=6][b]咪咁認真啦！[/b][/size], my friend!;P:saujai:
DingDong 2008-4-7 20:17
[quote]原帖由 [i]hongkonger[/i] 於 2008-4-7 16:31 發表
你可能看錯了吧
你這樣發問就証明你心中也不能確認
如果你愛你女朋友, 就應該相信她的話, 對嗎?
就是妳女友前一晚真的去開房
也可能沒有做愛, 頂多是吹吹簫, 抽抽水已而
大熱天時、孤男寡女, 你又不在, ... [/quote]
I like this answer - straight to the point :-)
The story doesn't make sense at all. When he saw it already why so many questions?
strange 2008-4-7 21:21
Actually, she is a foot massge girl. I am one of her customer.
I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living in Shenzhen. She is my 二奶. I go to Shenzhen to see her twice a week.
As I have a wife and a son in Hong Kong, I always return to Hong Kong after seeing her (or sleeping with her).
I seldom stay in her home in Shenzhen overnight. That may give her chance to 偷食.:'(
I am so fortunate that I saw her with another man last Friday. I have stopped giving her money and stopped relationship with her. :nono:
[[i] 本帖最後由 strange 於 2008-4-7 21:30 編輯 [/i]]
peninsula 2008-4-7 22:05
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-6 17:59 發表
前天早上, 我打電話給深圳的女朋友, 她是做按腳的, 說我要過去找她, ... [/quote]
Forget her la!:help::o:(
kinangus 2008-4-7 23:13
case No. N+1..............
alene 2008-4-7 23:18
深圳女朋友,是用來調劑下就可以,香港討論區J@uI4S"iB,~
咪咁認真啦
kenkan 2008-4-8 01:27
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 13:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl. I am one of her customer.
I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living ... [/quote]
你太快同佢對質啦, 你慢慢問佢多o的睇吓佢點問你嘛 :reading: So you know much more. $5000 per month, too much
hkoldguy2004 2008-4-8 02:32
I also give her 5000 dollars a month ............... I go to Shenzhen to see her twice a week.
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$5000.- and go twice a week!:L
Well! $600- per night!
OK la!:blowme:
[[i] 本帖最後由 hkoldguy2004 於 2008-4-8 02:36 編輯 [/i]]
smbs06 2008-4-8 05:02
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl. I am one of her customer.
I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living ... [/quote]
$5,000/month = Time Share at best
Theoretically, there is a monthly stipend threshold for every girl above which you can almost guarantee they will not risk blowing. That figure does vary from girl to girl but for sure it's not 5,000.
mysteryman 2008-4-8 08:10
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl. I am one of her customer.
I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living ... [/quote]
bro, u can have many shoots with gals in SZ for $5k
ghost169 2008-4-8 08:16
I would consider my personal safety if I were you, especially the time you met her!!
hongkonger 2008-4-8 10:06
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl. I am one of her customer.
I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living ... [/quote]
[color=Red][size=6]
我認為呢條女一定會為你的離開, 傷心得流下一公升的眼淚
畢竟人非草木, 誰能對 RMB5000- 不留情感呢?[/size][/color]
hongkonger 2008-4-8 10:13
[color=Red][size=6]
版主, 我提議 block 了這位 strange 師兄的 account
佢俾咁多禮物個囡囡, 仲加每個月 RMB5000-
嘩! 佢想我地以後食 :shit: 咩?
嚴重影響我地的愛國心情
ps. 我只係講下 :lol:lol
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[[i] 本帖最後由 hongkonger 於 2008-4-8 10:15 編輯 [/i]]
Haidada 2008-4-8 10:22
$5000.- and go twice a week!:L
Well! $600- per night!
OK la!:blowme: [/quote]
Brother, he does not stay overnight mostly, so it is 600 per shot..NOT night..:lol
hongkonger 2008-4-8 10:30
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
As I have a wife and a son in Hong Kong, I always return to Hong Kong after seeing her (or sleeping with her).
[/quote]
可能無做愛, 純玩拍拉圖 ...... 千祈唔好答話係呀!!
denny2000 2008-4-8 10:39
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
seldom stay in her home in Shenzhen overnight. That may give her chance to 偷食[/quote]
brother, only if you are with her 24 hrs, they stiil have a chance to 偷食!
denny2000 2008-4-8 10:48
[quote]原帖由 [i]smbs06[/i] 於 2008-4-8 05:02 發表
$5,000/month = Time Share at best
Theoretically, there is a monthly stipend threshold for every girl above which you can almost guarantee they will not risk blowing. That figure does vary fr ... [/quote]
I agree with this brother's analysis. Since she is a semi-working girl, $5000 is not enough to privatize her. $5,000 is time-sharing price range...
Of course, even though you pay her a fortune, it does not mean that she is 100% loyal to you (either body and soul).
The question you should ask yourself is that: could you still love her and enjoy staying with her? have you talked with her face-to-face and tried to reach out a solution (e.g. say that you could continue only if she could commit 100% loyalty to you or otherwise ,you would leave.;P), etc.
I would say if the girl cares for you (and your $), she would say yes to you... Then, you could still cool down and decide if you would continue (and also test if you could continue with her). Observe her for a few weeks and if you are suspicous of anything/caught her out (e.g. sudden inspection), then just leave..
Of course, safety is a concern (both personal and $).
john_1 2008-4-8 10:52
[quote]原帖由 [i]strange[/i] 於 2008-4-7 13:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl. I am one of her customer.
I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living ... [/quote]
Thought you were just 天真. But now I thoink you are .....