colorbhk 2008-6-11 22:05
[quote]原帖由 [i]glucerna[/i] 於 2008-6-11 21:56 發表
多謝你抬舉...C兄..
人夾人緣啦,我就覺得"郎心如鐵"比較多........:saujai::saujai: [/quote]
各有前因莫羨人, 内外一切有爲法，悉皆依因而産生:reading::reading::reading::reading:
YPM 2008-6-11 22:09
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pgod25 2008-6-11 23:06
Very good report, thank you!
coke818 2008-6-12 00:54
這便是緣份，若不是她剛踫到你，故事又如何發展下去呢？無論如何，你們倆是有情有義，雖然是各走各路，但午夜夢迴，你或她是真心掛念對方的！
mobydick 2008-6-12 08:26
Every C-hing,
This is the most touching report I ever read at here. Totally are stories in stories..every day stories in China. I am very happy to be friends..if we have chance..We are talking in same language. Glad to be member at here.^^
denny2000 2008-6-12 09:45
[quote]原帖由 [i]glucerna[/i] 於 2008-6-11 21:56 發表
多謝你抬舉...C兄..
人夾人緣啦,我就覺得"郎心如鐵"比較多........:saujai::saujai: [/quote]
The most ideal mindset will be
1) 交流时：同情她，爱护它。
2）她要钱时：郎心如鐵
But I could seldom follow this rule..:Q
icheng609 2008-6-12 10:08
[quote]原帖由 [i]Haidada[/i] 於 2008-6-11 18:23 發表
做的很好师兄。。
我第一饭盒跟了我六年后。。我给了她十来万回家跟人合作开饭店。。找了男朋友结婚。。但我没去喝喜酒。。我去的话。。流眼泪 ... [/quote]
I salute you, 大海哥............... 果真 "大海無量"!
icheng609 2008-6-12 10:12
[quote]原帖由 [i]glucerna[/i] 於 2008-6-11 21:56 發表
多謝你抬舉...C兄..
人夾人緣啦,我就覺得"郎心如鐵"比較多........:saujai::saujai: [/quote]
世事無絕對對錯 ---- 無論 "郎心如鉄" 或是 "憐香惜玉"， 在不同的客觀條件下， 都有其可取性！ 巴打們， 隨緣吧！
denny2000 2008-6-12 10:21
[quote]原帖由 [i]glucerna[/i] 於 2008-6-11 21:56 發表
多謝你抬舉...C兄..
人夾人緣啦,我就覺得"郎心如鐵"比較多........:saujai::saujai: [/quote]
The most ideal mindset will be
1) 交流时：同情她，爱护它。
2）她要钱时：郎心如鐵
But I could seldom follow this rule..:Q
wkchi 2008-6-12 10:38
可以用因果去睇這故事:beer:
eric36 2008-6-12 11:07
鳩一硬結果一定死鳩硬!!
denny2000 2008-6-12 14:53
[quote]原帖由 [i]eric36[/i] 於 2008-6-12 11:07 發表
鳩一硬結果一定死鳩硬!! [/quote]
so your rod never gets hard or you die everytime??
TaiChiSword 2008-6-12 20:11
[quote]原帖由 [i]KMY89[/i] 於 2008-6-9 02:39 發表
問題是和他們會有什麼話題呢？ :wondering:
Kmy 只看西片和外國劇集，上次在常平永恒買的一套 Charles Wilson's war 沒有中文字幕，個女伴三分鐘後就訓到流口水 ... Kmy 曾嘗試了解他們的文化，但真的很難，他 ... [/quote]
I suppose we cannot really generalise in this way, as there are some professional ladies who know and read a lot. Try the other thread in this forum, for example the 141 topic under this Guide 夜遊風月 , you will find some brothers here reallly appreciate some girls in the 141 or USB business who have the breath of taste and knowledge a lot of HK girls cannot even comprehend. For that Univ. prof. it could well be the case. But then, if you look at HK, anything is possible, right ? a 28-year old kid who happens to know the right person in the government /political party will now earn in a month more than a cleaner can make in a year ! Nothing is going to surprise us anymore !!
Haidada 2008-6-13 02:49
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-12 10:08 發表
I salute you, 大海哥............... 果真 "大海無量"! [/quote]
But I think I own her a lot...
Her Mother always urged her to go home and get married...usual for people in the countryside...and she just refused and kept staying with me..not for money...I did not give her much money....
And of course she had to go home finally..at 24...a little money for her cannot compensate a small fraction of her priceless youth whenever I think of her..I feel...
:L
icheng609 2008-6-13 09:15
[quote]原帖由 [i]Haidada[/i] 於 2008-6-13 02:49 發表
But I think I own her a lot...
Her Mother always urged her to go home and get married...usual for people in the countryside...and she just refused and kept staying with me..not for money...I ... [/quote]
Do you still have contact with her as good friends...? I think there is no problem and it will be good to keep up the good relationship though the affair is terminated.
7-siu 2008-6-13 10:07
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But I think it is no good to both the girl and our friend if still keep the contact.
icheng609 2008-6-13 10:16
[quote]原帖由 [i]7-siu[/i] 於 2008-6-13 10:07 發表
But I think it is no good to both the girl and our friend if still keep the contact. [/quote]
乜連你都唔同意 "再見亦是朋友" 這句話咩？？
7-siu 2008-6-13 10:19
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My No: 2 is a good example, she married and keep contact with me., which is 1 of the reasons she divorced.
colorbhk 2008-6-13 10:26
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 10:16 發表
乜連你都唔同意 "再見亦是朋友" 這句話咩？？ [/quote]
唔好俾囡囡覺得有機會返轉頭, 否則佢可能冇咁緊張段婚姻.
我盒飯離開深圳, 去跟親戚做房地產, 我都keep住俾個message佢, 叫佢俾
心機做, 唔好林住做唔好就返深圳.
人就係咁衰, 唔到絕路唔會想辦法解決問題:L:L:L
icheng609 2008-6-13 10:27
[quote]原帖由 [i]7-siu[/i] 於 2008-6-13 10:19 發表
My No: 2 is a good example, she married and keep contact with me., which is 1 of the reasons she divorced. [/quote]
1. 證明她的 ex 沒有包容之心， quality 甚低！
2. 她的命运令到她最后跟随你， 你才是她的喬木！
icheng609 2008-6-13 10:30
回復 #69 colorbhk 的帖子
不過我始終相信发展和保持友情是可能的............. 雖然你和她的另一半会感到難以接受！
Haidada 2008-6-13 11:57
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 09:15 發表
Do you still have contact with her as good friends...? I think there is no problem and it will be good to keep up the good relationship though the affair is terminated. [/quote]
Yes, for the first half year or so and then one time when we were talking on the phone a man's voice was heard..and I could feel something wrongfrom the Mm's voice...
I did not call for a while and later MM changed her phone number...
It is good for me not to interfere with her anymore...and wish her good luck..and hope not to hear from her again...becos if she called again..something bad must have happeded...:L
icheng609 2008-6-13 14:07
[quote]原帖由 [i]Haidada[/i] 於 2008-6-13 11:57 發表
Yes, for the first half year or so and then one time when we were talking on the phone a man's voice was heard..and I could feel something wrongfrom the Mm's voice...
I did not call for a whil ... [/quote]
基於成长和背景不同， 加上文化差異， 這也很難怪.....!
唉！ 若果可以豁達一 D， 眼光放遠一 D 和心胸擴大一 D， 世界豈不更美好？？？！！！
jjchan218 2008-6-13 14:26
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 06:07 發表
基於成长和背景不同， 市傶攭?....!
唉！ 若果可以豁達一 D， 眼光放遠一 D 和心胸擴大一 D， 世界豈不更美好？？？！！！ [/quote]
若自已是當是人，做男人又怎會咁大方對老婆有第3者無動於中呢？
icheng609 2008-6-13 14:31
[quote]原帖由 [i]jjchan218[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:26 發表
若自已是當是人，做男人又怎會咁大方對老婆有第3者無動於中呢？ [/quote]
若果我是當事人， 明白到 "第三者" 是歷史、 是過去式， 我是可以接受的！
試問誰沒有歷史和過去呢？
若果另一半是這樣大方、 豁達和磊落， 高兴還來不及呢！
Haidada 2008-6-13 14:35
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:31 發表
若果我是當事人， 明白到 "第三者" 是歷史、 是過去式， 我是可以接受的！
試問誰沒有歷史和過去呢？
若果另一半是這樣大方、 豁達和磊落， 高兴還來不及呢！ [/quote]
Can understand MM's situation..
Actually I would not be happy if I hear my lunch box talk to another man..
And I would ask who she just talked to...:Leven if I know there is nothing between them...
colorbhk 2008-6-13 14:37
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:31 發表
若果我是當事人， 明白到 "第三者" 是歷史、 是過去式， 我是可以接受的！
試問誰沒有歷史和過去呢？
若果另一半是這樣大方、 豁達和磊落， 高兴還來不及呢！ [/quote]
問題係"若果我是當事人,歷史可能重未完", 咁又點睇呢 :dizzy::dizzy::dizzy:
icheng609 2008-6-13 14:46
[quote]原帖由 [i]colorbhk[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:37 發表
問題係"若果我是當事人,歷史可能重未完", 咁又點睇呢 :dizzy::dizzy::dizzy: [/quote]
咁就 Cafe de Coral ! 我相信了斷一定要做， 無論如何！
colorbhk 2008-6-13 14:48
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:46 發表
咁就 Cafe de Coral ! 我相信了斷一定要做， 無論如何！ [/quote]
送多杯涷飲 "BIG COKE WITH LEMON" :beer: :afraid::afraid::afraid:
icheng609 2008-6-13 14:50
Having "Big Coke with Lemon" at Cafe de Coral................ What will the result be?
colorbhk 2008-6-13 14:54
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:50 發表
Having "Big Coke with Lemon" at Cafe de Coral................ What will the result be? [/quote]
銅鑼灣新浦點 - delay no mall :'(:'(:'(
icheng609 2008-6-13 14:57
[quote]原帖由 [i]colorbhk[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:54 發表
銅鑼灣新浦點 - delay no mall :'(:'(:'( [/quote]
講真架 ----- 真係有呢間 mall..........? 蛙蛙真係活在井底了！
colorbhk 2008-6-13 15:00
[quote]原帖由 [i]icheng609[/i] 於 2008-6-13 14:57 發表
講真架 ----- 真係有呢間 mall..........? 蛙蛙真係活在井底了！ [/quote]
你响大陸多嘛 :P:P
蛙蛙只是做了哥倫布, 上大陸搵新大陸 :givemefive::givemefive::givemefive:
icheng609 2008-6-13 15:04
[quote]原帖由 [i]colorbhk[/i] 於 2008-6-13 15:00 發表
你响大陸多嘛 :P:P
蛙蛙只是做了哥倫布, 上大陸搵新大陸 :givemefive::givemefive::givemefive: [/quote]
好彩唔係麥哲倫.................... 返唔到屋企！