hotel60 2009-11-22 04:33
約會BG
Any C-hing have experience dating a bg? and how long did it last? was it just for money?
def_lo 2009-11-22 10:30
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Any C-hing have experience dating a bg? and how long did it last? was it just for money? [/quote]
I'd advise just treat it as a dating with an ordinary girl.
What are you expecting when dating an ordinary girl?
How long will the dating with an ordinary girl last?
Will you pay an ordinary girl any money for the dating?
If, from the very beginning, you treat the BG as an ordinary girl and do whatever you will be do when dating with an ordinary girl, you'll definitely know what and how to do during a dating with BG.
kkleung 2009-11-22 15:24
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1)Use a 'space phone card',i.e. the kind that you can buy from 71 or ok;
2)Food,drinks,hotel room...etc.,entertainment cost on your accout,no money lending whatsoever.
If the situation gets bad,flush your phone card down the toilet and forget her.
Hope this helps.:handshake
hotel60 2009-11-22 17:02
Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?
For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look for money??? She works at a vegi +HJ SN.
Good advise thanks C-hing.
kotaroisaka 2009-11-22 17:13
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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?
For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ... [/quote]
Which vegi + HJ sauna, by the way?
gowentgone 2009-11-22 17:30
nothing special , just dinner and ML afterward if the mood came :$
boot_boot 2009-11-22 18:37
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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?
For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ... [/quote]
What is your expectation from her?
Get your answer first before you leap. :handshake
boot_boot 2009-11-22 18:38
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1)Use a 'space phone card',i.e. the kind that you can buy from 71 or ok;
2)Food,drinks,hotel room...etc.,entertainment cost on your accout,no money lending whatsoever.
If the situation gets bad,fl ... [/quote]
Very flexible! :P :lol
bbttorrent 2009-11-22 19:10
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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?
For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ... [/quote]
Not necessary for money, you should be able to tell - if you're not obsessed. I definitely used a 'dedicated' #, in case relationship is getting too close or sour. I would pay her one way or another, after ML. Just that to let her know don't get too involved with the relationship. Otherwise, I agree to treat her as the way you would treat your friend, or girl friend.
def_lo 2009-11-22 23:01
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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?
For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ... [/quote]
Well, then treat it as a dinner gathering with a friend.
Will you give your friend any money for having dinner with you?
Of course, if you will have sex with her after the dinner, then it may be a bit different.
At that time you need to judge if your relationship with her will be influenced when money is being involved.
If you want to develop further with her then never ever let money intrude into the relationship.
Of course, like other c-hing said, if you don't want to develop further, perhaps money can give both of you the feeling that it is just a buy-sell relationship.
hotel60 2009-11-23 00:49
If its just dinner and I am paying. How do I offer to pay her for her time? waht should I say?$1000?? She may be not contact me again if i offer to pay her.
If we ML later and I pay for everything such as hotel......, how much should I pay her? $2000??
I dont want not to tell which SN. I will report after next week.
def_lo 2009-11-23 11:36
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If its just dinner and I am paying. How do I offer to pay her for her time? waht should I say?$1000?? She may be not contact me again if i offer to pay her.
If we ML later and I pay for everything ... [/quote]
Do you really want to pay her for the time she spends with you for dinner?
For the girl's perspective:
Why do you give me money for having dinner with you?
Do you treat me as a hooker?
From your perspective:
What's the reason for you to pay her for the time she spends with you for the dinner?
Do you treat her as hooker if you pay her for compensating the time she spends with you for dinner?
If you treat her just as a hooker, why do you pay her for the time she spends with you for the dinner?
Why don't you pay her for having a good fxxk??!!
skipper99 2009-11-23 21:03
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ha bro, just remember there aren't no free lunch and free ride in this world. you should make up your mind upfront if it is a "buy and sell" or a "girl friend". trust me i've been there
def_lo 2009-11-23 23:13
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ha bro, just remember there aren't no free lunch and free ride in this world. you should make up your mind upfront if it is a "buy and sell" or a "girl friend". trust me i've been there [/quote]
一句講晒，幾時都有真正免費午餐嘅，出得黎行，遲早都要還！
BigY 2009-11-23 23:46
當你經常搵同一位BG,到了大家相熟,自然會一出去食飯, 我試過幾個
hotel60 2009-11-24 00:28
Thank you brothers. You guys are the experts and make me look fxxkin dumb. I heard from other c-hings story about spy camera and then they want money from you otherwise they would post it on You Tube.
I will goto to dinner with her and won't pay her for her time. May be ML later. no money involve.
Report later.......
Would you date BG as your steady GF (long term gf)?
BigY 2009-11-24 09:29
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BG 都是普通人, 一樣可以做朋友, 你可以和他們食飯行街, 不需要另外給錢她們, 當要和她ML , 我勸妳最好要PAY MONEY , 否則大家關係會好混亂, 最後會不歡而散,
bbttorrent 2009-11-24 23:36
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Thank you brothers. You guys are the experts and make me look fxxkin dumb. I heard from other c-hings story about spy camera and then they want money from you otherwise they would post it on You Tube. ... [/quote]
As other chings said, just dinner is already a treat, and that shouldn't be any commitment, just relationship developing stage; or to develop a closer relationship to make it more joyful when ML. In this case, I would later buy little gifts, or pay her more tips if you plan to re-visit her work place. Tendering notes is too auspicious, neither of you would feel good.
Keep your mind open la!
Good luck!
p.s. do let us know your report. Tkx in advance.
boot_boot 2009-11-25 17:51
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一句講晒，幾時都有真正免費午餐嘅，出得黎行，遲早都要還！ [/quote]
Exactly. One have to "pay" it back in the coming future. :P
BPL 2009-11-25 18:24
Make it simple ...
Traet her as your friend
load 2009-11-25 21:53
Another sinking boat!
ces 2009-11-30 17:03
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Thank you brothers. You guys are the experts and make me look fxxkin dumb. I heard from other c-hings story about spy camera and then they want money from you otherwise they would post it on You Tube. ... [/quote]
Not involving money is dangerous
hotel60 2009-12-2 01:43
We agree to meet at Shamshuipo mtr to have dinner at Taipaidong. We walk a few minutes to the shop and she held my hand. We order food.........talked.......about things..........and we did do anything........but we went to knutford place to drink. She likes white wine so we opened a bottle and drink together. .......talked until 4am and she siad she doesn't want to go home......so we went to my place......openned another wine......talk more kisses kisses ..........and she went home.
I am not going to talk about the food because c-hing only like to know what happened.
We didn't talk about ML. Just talked about things........I will meet her again next week.........
I remembered brother said to treat her like GF.
yellowhite 2009-12-2 01:49
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so 溝女feel喎... 祝你好運 [img]http://xocat.com/f/images/smilies/default/titter.gif[/img]
boot_boot 2009-12-2 09:06
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We agree to meet at Shamshuipo mtr to have dinner at Taipaidong. We walk a few minutes to the shop and she held my hand. We order food.........talked.......about things..........and we did do anything ... [/quote]
So sweet! :kiss: :kiss:
Good luck to you! :handshake :handshake
b_lo601 2009-12-2 11:32
正如各位大大所講, 當佢係一個普通女性朋友囉... 比錢請食飯, 飲野呢D係做男人既風度啦~~~
最近我同過一個BG去食飯... 第一次既時候, 我買左一細紮花接佢放工, 食完飯, 揸車同佢遊左港九一陣, 佢已經好開心.. 最後晌佢屋企樓下聽佢講左好多私人野, 傾左成兩個鐘先分開... 有時BG同你出去, 都係想搵人傾下計, 出到黎, 佢只係女人一個, 千祈唔好存心攞著數...
kkleung 2009-12-2 12:21
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Dont wanna be rude or mean or put you off here,but you have made a fatal mistake,c-hing.
Now she knows where you live.
Like Ces hing said:no money involvement is very dangerous.
Think abt how many men/dicks she has to treat everyday.
Back to life,back to reality my friend.
Good luck.
BigY 2009-12-2 19:31
我重用埋MSM . 交談
aero169169 2009-12-2 20:03
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我重用埋MSM . 交談 [/quote]
Do you mean MSN or SMS? :lol
civilian 2009-12-3 00:26
I echo most ching's invaluable comments. If BG meets you outside their work, then its their personal time. If you have good feelings about her, then do and say things that make them feel they are respected like any girl. You would feel good too.
BigY 2009-12-3 13:34
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是MSN.THANKS C-HING
paul+wong 2009-12-4 08:58
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好耐冇番嚟！ 唉，會登臨絕頂、一看眾山小。 小心！
boot_boot 2009-12-4 11:02
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Dont wanna be rude or mean or put you off here,but you have made a fatal mistake,c-hing.
Now she knows where you live.
Like Ces hing said:no money involvement is very dangerous.
Think abt how many ... [/quote]
Agreed. It is not a good idea to bring BG back to his home. :afraid: :afraid:
bbttorrent 2009-12-4 23:40
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Dont wanna be rude or mean or put you off here,but you have made a fatal mistake,c-hing.
Now she knows where you live.
Like Ces hing said:no money involvement is very dangerous.
Think abt how many ... [/quote]
I would rather say beware... if you think about # of dicks, I guess you would probably never stray....
manyiusubaru 2009-12-6 01:36
ok... c hing; be honest to yourself, do u love her ? or just want to have fun ?
YOFAMA 2009-12-10 01:16
唔好抱著食free餐，尊重d，一般都ok架。
人地都係打番工乍，放工就係普通人架啦
魔鈴娘 2009-12-11 10:09
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一句講晒，幾時都有真正免費午餐嘅，出得黎行，遲早都要還！ [/quote]
咦~ 好大感觸咁喎~~ ;P;P
我覺得出來食餐飯, gentlemen o的, 咪做埋果個囉, 另外再俾錢感覺真係有o的怪~
之後如果有下文, 我原則係係公司發生o既, 一定俾到足, 如果係私人地方, 就隨心啦~:bow:
bbttorrent 2009-12-11 22:12
Seems not much development these days. C hing, how the story goes?
sxhk 2009-12-12 03:36
For me, whenever a BG said she kind of likes me.... I ran away.... I didn't want to get involve in any relationship until last week....
I found a nice BG in Shanghai, nothing happened that night, and I am not sure anything will happen later. But it is a funny feeling, OMG. :oh::oh::oh:
boot_boot 2009-12-12 09:39
Being a human being, it is extremely difficult to get rid of "temptation". :oh: :oh:
extensive123 2009-12-12 09:45
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kkleung 2009-12-12 11:58
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May I suggest a few things:
1)Never let her know any details about yourself apart from your last name,use a fake/artistic one,such as Peter,John,Kwok-Keung,Kwok-wah...etc;
2)Never let your dick(desire) takes over your head;Keep in mind that all BGs are 'professional women';
3)Know your way home,the one who is waiting for you at home is the one you should cherish.
My personal opinion.:handshake
KK
sxhk 2009-12-12 14:59
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May I suggest a few things:
1)Never let her know any details about yourself apart from your last name,use a fake/artistic one,such as Peter,John,Kwok-Keung,Kwok-wah...etc;
2)Never let your dick(desi ... [/quote]
[font=Arial][size=12pt]Thank you, man. 1 and 2 are goodpoints. Point 3 is a bit tricky for me. The one I love keeps a distantfrom me (like 10+ time zones away). The one that is waiting for me hurt mebadly in the past and I don't think I could get back to the relationship. Sothere you go. I am constantly looking for some fun but afraid to get into anyserious relationship again.
I don't wantto hurt anyone, nor to be hurt. So I constantly run away from gals who saidthey like me…[/size][/font]
boot_boot 2009-12-13 09:50
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May I suggest a few things:
1)Never let her know any details about yourself apart from your last name,use a fake/artistic one,such as Peter,John,Kwok-Keung,Kwok-wah...etc;
2)Never let your dick(desi ... [/quote]
[size=4]kk hing,[/size]
[size=4]These are good points for dealing with "professional women",[/size]
[size=4]especially useful to the c-hing who has married, with a sweet[/size]
[size=4]family.[/size]
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hotel60 2010-1-14 02:02
ching,
Sorry for not updating with progress. I've been busy with her because she took two weeks living with me. It was like married life, she was like a maid during the day and sex worker at night. She BJ and ML everynight. she didn't ask for money nor she accepted any money when i offered to her.
May be will see her again...........................she resumed working.
tonylo3721 2010-1-14 10:25
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Manso 2010-1-14 11:08
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Well, then treat it as a dinner gathering with a friend.
Will you give your friend any money for having dinner with you?
Of course, if you will have sex with her after the dinner, then it may be ... [/quote]
Agree! For dinner no need to pay her no matter you treat her as friend or BG. Of course you need to pay the rest after dinning.
If you ML with her after dinner or during her working hours, I suggest you to pay at the first time unless she refused to accept. All BGs are working for money & money is their incentive.:) :) :)
aero169169 2010-1-14 11:31
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Agree! For dinner no need to pay her no matter you treat her as friend or BG. Of course you need to pay the rest after dinning.
If you ML with her after dinner or during her working hours, I ... [/quote]
Manso C-hing,
Totally agree with you ! You seem to be very experienced in this. :lol :clap:
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hotel60 2010-1-20 23:49
She cain called me today. We chat a bit and then she said she miss me. She want to see me when she is not working during weekdays. I asked if she can give up her bg job and work in sales or office work. She said she need to money to support her living expenses.
C-Hing, any advise? end the relationship? I am not experienced in dating a bg??
Manso 2010-1-23 14:56
Hotel60 CHing,
You better ask the girl what she is expected. Money or love!
I have twice such experience for sharing, one sucessful & one failure. Both girls claimed the reason to be USB is due to difficulty of finding a proper job in HK. The sucessful one (now became my very good friend) listen to my advice, gave up her USB career a year ago & went to study tour escort (I support the study & examination fees). After obtaining the tour escort license, she is now working in a tourist company earning very low & unstable income (around $4-6k per month on average). You can imagine how bad/tough the conditions comparing to the average income of a not so "hot" usb (around $1XXXXX - 2XXXX). Despite this, she told me she is very happy at present & don't want to go back to the olden days.
The uncessful case (the one I am still sunken), after hearing my advice had tried several attempts to find a proper job. After learning the average salary is 5K to 6K, she abandon the thought & now still working as USB.
My other advice is - don't step in and pull out your leg if you havn't start yet! Good Luck La!