ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-14 18:47
[quote]原帖由 [i]geof[/i] 於 2010-2-13 19:07 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9905623&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Ching, is the website of "FilipinoKisses" needed to pay the fee in order to get contact with girls? Is there any other methods to obtain the contact details without fee? Thanks for your assistance in ... [/quote]
FilipinoKisses 係要俾錢先聯絡到謘I不過你可以喺啲個人資料度好巧妙咁寫你嘅聯絡資料嘅,有少少難度謘I
如果唔得嘅,就上 Tagged 啦!呢個網都有好多賓賓,亦可以 send messenge 俾對方。
geof 2010-2-15 12:20
Thanks. Ching. I will add my contact details accordingly. Hope pretty lady will add my msn la. By the way, do you pay the fee to the website?
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-15 15:28
[quote]原帖由 [i]geof[/i] 於 2010-2-15 12:20 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9920623&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Thanks. Ching. I will add my contact details accordingly. Hope pretty lady will add my msn la. By the way, do you pay the fee to the website? [/quote]
我都曾經俾過錢謘I
亦都聯絡過幾個賓賓,不過到最後都係無再俾錢落去,原因係佢地太煩同太黏身喇!
怕俾自己女友發現,所以記住千其唔好俾啲賓賓食住你!
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-18 12:27
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But I had 3P once with a girl friend she brought to stay overnight in my apartment.
In those days, I met them mostly in pubs and discos. Then I joined their Sunday parties and got to know more ... [/quote] Wow Ching, you made us very envy! I just got a new one few weeks ago (ate her on the third date, could have been the 2nd date but I purposely delayed it becase I need to go to work, I can tell she was very eagar) and I wish can have a 3P someday like you!
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-18 12:37
[quote]原帖由 [i]geof[/i] 於 2010-2-15 12:20 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9920623&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Thanks. Ching. I will add my contact details accordingly. Hope pretty lady will add my msn la. By the way, do you pay the fee to the website? [/quote]Beware Ching![color=red][b] Most of the ads (90%) are fake/scam using pic from magazine etc[/b][/color]. Only the "pork chops " are real. I once paid too and cancel it immediately after one month, that's how I found out! My advice is never go to the paying website, it is far more "friendly"., personal and interactive to meet on causal environment eg. park , supermarket, 7-11, etc. And you know instantly if there is any mutual interest. Like Michael Ching said getting the phone no. is a must/promising start. Of course You need to speak reasonably good English, this could be the limitation for some.
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-18 12:43
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-15 15:28 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9921714&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
我都曾經俾過錢謘I
亦都聯絡過幾個賓賓,不過到最後都係無再俾錢落去,原因係佢地太煩同太黏身喇!
怕俾自己女友發現,所以記住千其唔好俾啲賓賓食住你! [/quote]Entirely agree with you Michael, "佢地太煩同太黏身", they are very passionate both in and out of bed! Make sure you can manage your time and the very frequent SMS! It is very difficult if you already have a regular GF going steady.
Oh also they will ask to borrow money for sure, it is Ok but just give small amount each time, never a big sum (>500). If they keep asking you for many times in a short period, it's time to change "stable", Ching!
[[i] 本帖最後由 ^^^cal^^^ 於 2010-2-18 12:47 編輯 [/i]]
soccerfans 2010-2-18 19:37
[quote]原帖由 [i]^^^cal^^^[/i] 於 2010-2-18 12:37 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9953555&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Beware Ching! Most of the ads (90%) are fake/scam using pic from magazine etc. Only the "pork chops " are real. I once paid too and cancel it immediately after one month, that's how I found out! My ad ... [/quote]
I share with you that meeting them face to face in parks, supermarket etc is a better way to know Filipina C9s than from paysites. I had experience in this. If they are not available, they will introduce their friends to you. They treasure to have local Chinese friends.
pokk 2010-2-22 00:37
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-18 19:37 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9957060&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
I share with you that meeting them face to face in parks, supermarket etc is a better way to know Filipina C9s than from paysites. I had experience in this. If they are not available, they will ... [/quote]
Ching~ mind to share more expreience on how to know Filipina in supermarket??
is just strange to go and ask them for their phone number....
soccerfans 2010-2-22 10:09
[quote]原帖由 [i]pokk[/i] 於 2010-2-22 00:37 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9993541&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Ching~ mind to share more expreience on how to know Filipina in supermarket??
is just strange to go and ask them for their phone number.... [/quote]
First, you need to be able to communicate in spoken English.
Second, you should be able to master the key elements of 「搭訕學」, i.e. ways to open the conversational dialogue with strangers.
Third, when you meet Filipinas or in fact any other women of your liking in a supermarket, MTR station or any other places, you speak with them or ask them questions that suit the circumstances. e.g. asking for time, direction etc.
Lastly, keep the conversation going until you have got her mobile number. The rest is all up to you.
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pokk 2010-2-23 00:07
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-22 10:09 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9996749&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
First, you need to be able to communicate in spoken English.
Second, you should be able to master the key elements of 「搭訕學」, i.e. ways to open the conversational dialogue with strangers.
Th ... [/quote]
woo~ seems u know alot wor ching~ mind to share a bit more about 搭訕學?
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-23 08:31
[quote]原帖由 [i]^^^cal^^^[/i] 於 2010-2-18 12:43 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9953606&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Entirely agree with you Michael, "佢地太煩同太黏身", they are very passionate both in and out of bed! Make sure you can manage your time and the very frequent SMS! It is very difficult if you already ... [/quote]
唔駛擔心!我同幾位賓賓都好嚟好去嘅!所以都可以控制到。
錢嗰方面,通常都係喺開波之前傾掂數,上限都係 $500,再多就唔駛諗。
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-23 08:55
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-22 10:09 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=9996749&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
First, you need to be able to communicate in spoken English.
Second, you should be able to master the key elements of 「搭訕學」, i.e. ways to open the conversational dialogue with strangers.
Th ... [/quote]
哈哈!師兄,你都有啲辦法喎!識得用問時間同問路嘅方法嚟打開場白!:verygood:
不過我就比較簡單,可能之前喺過外國讀書嘅關係,所以就直接過去 say hi,雖然亦都有失敗過,但係成功率都算高,加上大部份賓賓都好 nice,只要你有禮貌,講多少少讚美嘅說話,同重點係想同佢做朋友嘅話 (唔好提有關 sex 嘅嘢),要攞電話真係唔難!
以上成功與否,就要睇第一步,就係閣下嘅膽量打唔打開到開場白。
soccerfans 2010-2-23 09:47
[quote]原帖由 [i]pokk[/i] 於 2010-2-23 00:07 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10004377&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
woo~ seems u know alot wor ching~ mind to share a bit more about 搭訕學? [/quote]
I came across 「搭訕學」many years ago in a Taiwan 救國網站called休閒小棧[url=http://www.crazys.net]www.crazys.net[/url]. There were many nicely written articles teaching the elements of 「搭訕學」and how to 搭訕 women in different situations. I suggest you search for these articles to study them yourself.
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soccerfans 2010-2-23 09:51
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-23 08:55 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10007387&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
哈哈!師兄,你都有啲辦法喎!識得用問時間同問路嘅方法嚟打開場白!:verygood:
不過我就比較簡單,可能之前喺過外國讀書嘅關係,所以就直接過去 say hi,雖然亦都有失敗過,但 ... [/quote]
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^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-23 10:55
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-23 08:31 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10007262&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
唔駛擔心!我同幾位賓賓都好嚟好去嘅!所以都可以控制到。
錢嗰方面,通常都係喺開波之前傾掂數,上限都係 $500,再多就唔駛諗。 [/quote]
I think we share very similar experience, ching! This will be a very good guide for other bros. I normally "cut loss" if the total amount adds up to 1 or 2 thousands -which means the girl wants money from u more than a happy time together - Do u agree?
Another experience is buying small inexpensive gifts for them, better than give them money, they love it because u r treating them as an "equal" person (they have a "helper" complex working in HKG, but you can't blame them. They get screamed at all the time at work!) So u r right by saying that treating them nicely would go a long way!
[size=2][i]PS. I will share a "killer" treat with u, PM me if u like. Cheers![/i][/size]
tylerdurden 2010-2-23 11:58
請問各位師兄你們第一次同賓妹約出嚟見面會去邊??
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-23 14:38
[quote]原帖由 [i]^^^cal^^^[/i] 於 2010-2-23 10:55 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10008178&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
I think we share very similar experience, ching! This will be a very good guide for other bros. I normally "cut loss" if the total amount adds up to 1 or 2 thousands -which means the girl wants mone ... [/quote]
我相信喺最初嘅約會裡面,啲賓賓係想搞嘢多過想要錢,畢竟佢地都忍左好耐,好需要下。但係過左兩三次約會之後,同你熟絡左,就會問你攞錢,不過佢地唔會當呢啲錢係肉金,通常會用其他嘅藉口嚟做理由,所以我係 agree 嘅!
其實講真啲賓賓真係幾 so 架!又食又 "瀝"!可以解決自己嘅性需要,又有錢收,去邊度搵丫!
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-23 14:42
[quote]原帖由 [i]tylerdurden[/i] 於 2010-2-23 11:58 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10008622&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
請問各位師兄你們第一次同賓妹約出嚟見面會去邊?? [/quote]
喺我嚟講,同每位賓賓第一次約會嘅地方就係時鐘酒店。
soccerfans 2010-2-23 15:23
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-23 14:42 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10009707&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
喺我嚟講,同每位賓賓第一次約會嘅地方就係時鐘酒店。 [/quote]
:verygood: :verygood: :verygood: :verygood: :verygood:
tylerdurden 2010-2-23 15:59
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-23 14:42 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10009707&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
喺我嚟講,同每位賓賓第一次約會嘅地方就係時鐘酒店。 [/quote]
點解可以咁西利架:funk::funk:
師兄一定好靚仔/把口好掂:funk::funk:
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-23 16:33
[quote]原帖由 [i]pokk[/i] 於 2010-2-23 00:07 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10004377&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
woo~ seems u know alot wor ching~ mind to share a bit more about 搭訕學? [/quote]
Pls share with us ching, I cannot find it from the website that u mentioned, thx.
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-23 16:48
[quote]原帖由 [i]tylerdurden[/i] 於 2010-2-23 15:59 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10010363&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
點解可以咁西利架:funk::funk:
師兄一定好靚仔/把口好掂:funk::funk: [/quote]
點解可以咁犀利?係因為喺約會之前以經傾左一段時間,玩左幾次 phone sex,所以大家一出嚟見面就已經有共識,就係去開房。
以前都有試過以清潔屋企為藉口 (我一個人住) 叫個賓賓上嚟做 part-time (未同佢玩過 phone sex 不過有講過咸濕嘢),佢一路吸塵,我就一路喺後面頂佢,初初佢都無乜反應,後尾我又頂又磨,佢先 feel 到,不過佢無嬲,亦無走開,仲喺度笑,話我 naughty!之後我就又攬又摸又頂,搞到佢合埋眼一路話 no 一路扭 pat pat,不知幾 high,仲有啲呻吟聲添!到咁上下,佢就伸手去後面摸我條嘢,跟住就入正題啦!雖然而家諗返起係好正,不過好危險,因為俾佢知我住邊,好彩佢無諗過同我一齊,只係為左性需要,所以經過呢次之後,唔會再叫賓賓上我屋企,唔係次次都咁好彩!
喺賓賓嘅眼中我都算靚仔嘅!佢地話我有啲似一個菲國嘅男歌星喎!:L
把口掂唔掂係睇你多唔多講讚美說話嘅啫!大膽啲踏出第一步!
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-23 16:58
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-23 16:48 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10010800&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
點解可以咁犀利?係因為喺約會之前以經傾左一段時間,玩左幾次 phone sex,所以大家一出嚟見面就已經有共識,就係去開房。
以前都有試過以清潔屋企為藉口 (我一個人住) 叫個賓賓上嚟做 part- ... [/quote]
Wow ching , u r awesome! Our experience is quite similar! They do like phone sex, may be they have been living on it for many years while working alone overseas!!!
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-23 17:07
[quote]原帖由 [i]^^^cal^^^[/i] 於 2010-2-23 16:58 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10010872&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Wow ching , u r awesome! Our experience is quite similar! They do like phone sex, may be they have been living on it for many years while working alone overseas!!! [/quote]
係呀!我識一個已經嚟左香港成 10 年喇!我問過佢喺呢 10 年都無同男人行埋,直至遇到我同我玩 phone sex!不過佢住得好偏僻,佢放假又好少出街,所以仲未食到佢。
tylerdurden 2010-2-23 17:22
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-23 16:48 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10010800&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
點解可以咁犀利?係因為喺約會之前以經傾左一段時間,玩左幾次 phone sex,所以大家一出嚟見面就已經有共識,就係去開房。
以前都有試過以清潔屋企為藉口 (我一個人住) 叫個賓賓上嚟做 part- ... [/quote]
哦原來係咁:lol,睇嚟我要開始改變我既思路
soccerfans 2010-2-24 10:39
[quote]原帖由 [i]^^^cal^^^[/i] 於 2010-2-23 16:33 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10010654&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Pls share with us ching, I cannot find it from the website that u mentioned, thx. [/quote]
[size=3][b]OK Cal, let me help all brothers here.[/b][/size]
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[size=3][b]前言
其實我搭訕的經驗並不算多,只不多幾百人而已。我身邊的朋友台灣傳奇、香港扣女王都是搭訕專家。特別是香港扣女王,每天都會要幾個電話,幾年累積有數千之多。他遇過向同一個女人搭訕兩次的經驗,因為忘了已要過電話。他最怕的是收到短訊署名”在路上偶遇者”,因為每個女的都是偶遇的。不過我的好朋友們都忙于救國,不願提筆,只好由功力較淺的小弟來探討這個話題。不到之處還請各位大大見諒。
理論篇
何謂搭訕?搭訕即捱上去交談。問路、問時、要電話、閒聊等在廣義上來說都是搭訕。然而,在本文中所探討的搭訕並不是指廣義的搭訕,而是指以認識女孩為目的,以種種藉口與其搭話,以期獲得更進一步人際關係的的搭訕。搭訕在日常生活中誰都不可避免,幾乎每個人都有搭訕的經驗。比如每個人都有向陌生人問路的經驗。即使再內向的男孩子,遇到漂亮的女孩子,都敢去問路。前提條件只是看當時的狀況符不符合問路的條件而已。但是,若以問路為藉口,與女孩套近,這時敢過去搭訕的男孩子就沒有那麼多了。為什麼同樣是問路這一件事,在實行的過程中會讓人有兩種截然不同的反應呢?筆者以為這是心理壓力所導致。在真正的問路時,如果對方的回答不禮貌,那只會讓我們覺得生氣,認為對方沒有修養。在搭訕的問路時,如果對方的回答不禮貌,卻會使我們的自尊心受到傷害。因此,為了保護自己不受傷害,或者不能承受傷害,就使人鼓不起勇氣去踏出這一步,心理壓力就自然產生了。
此外,有些人個性豪爽,輕易的能與人搭話。當他們面對不甚在意的女孩時,往往能談笑風生,施展魅力將其迷倒,順手要到電話。而面對條件甚好、自己非常中意的女孩,卻又會止步。這到底是什麼原因呢?筆者以為這也是心理壓力所導致。對于不甚在意的女孩子,即使被拒絕也不覺得什麼,但若是被自己很喜歡的女孩拒絕,就很受傷害。為了保護自己不受傷害,就止步不前,不敢搭訕。
列舉以上這兩個例子就是要大家了解心理壓力的重要性。因為心理壓力決定了你是否敢跨出搭訕的第一步,如果你不敢開口,那談什麼技巧都是白費。為了跨出搭訕的第一步,我們在此一定要了解為什麼會產生心理壓力,以及心理壓力會帶來什麼影嚮。筆者認為產生心理壓力的內在原因是害怕失敗。當人遇到失敗時,心裡往往會產生各種沮喪、失望、挫折、焦慮的情緒。因此,為了避免面對失敗,心理壓力便產生了。而產生心理壓力後,卻又會使人無法發揮正常水平,直接影嚮更失敗。
那麼我們知道不敢搭訕的根源在于心理壓力後,該如何面對它,如何將它的影嚮力化到最小呢?佛教有一個理論“色即是空、空即是色”我們可以借用這個理論來討論解除心理壓力的方法。以最簡單的道理來說,同一個軀體,當他是美好的肉體時,你非常愛惜;當他是白骨時,你一屑不顧。 為什麼同樣的東西,你對待的態度卻天高地遠呢?因為你心理的態度不同。也就是說你心理感受影嚮自己的態度。也可以說心理壓力是自己強加在自己身上的。要突破這個心理壓力說簡單簡單,說困難困難。只要你能想通一件事,即“做任何事,它的行為模式是一樣的,但由于不同的外在條件,卻影嚮你的表現。如果你能不在乎外在條件,你即能突破障礙,正常發揮你的表現”。要突破這個障礙,只能靠自己,別人是無法幫助你的。心理壓力對人行為的影嚮是極大的。它由內心影嚮外在表現。幾乎所有人都受心理壓力影嚮,只有極少數的人能克服心理的壓力。而克服心理壓力的人,往往能以平常心發揮水平,嬴得尊敬。這種人在人類中是極少的,在各行業中往往都被稱為偉大。在籃球場上的被稱為偉大的球員就是邁克喬丹。喬丹在平常的時候投籃不見得特別神準,但在關鍵時刻往往能一球定因,決定比賽的勝負。真正的搭訕高手,在面對最在意的女孩時,也能空手入白刃,輕易的要到電話。
此外,我們要了解生活在這個世界上失敗是無法必免的。在人的一生中都要經歷過無數次的失敗。大多數的人在失敗後,一厥不振。唯有少數的一部份人能欣然面對失敗、承受失敗,並且屢敗屢戰,最後獲得成功。筆者以為要克服心理壓力,一定要能承受失敗,在無數次失敗之後,即能以平常心面對。當你在搭訕的過程中,無數次遭受拒絕,這時你已能承受被拒絕的挫折。因此當你面對一個新獵物時,你就能以平常心面對,輕易要到電話。若你能想通心理壓力這一點,那麼你即能輕易地邁出搭訕的第一步 。(筆者以為能突破心理壓力這一關,做任何事都會成功的)。
面對一個相貌普通的女孩你能隨口而出”Hi,你好“。 面對一個絕世美女你也能輕鬆面對。因為這句話的發聲方法是相同的。你並不受因對象的改變而影嚮你的發聲。搭訕最重要的關鍵就是扺抗壓力的心理素質,而不是和對方說什麼話。開口是最難的,說什麼話都無所謂。
訓練篇
搭訕的基本理論如上所述,但到底要如何去實踐它,使自己成為搭訕界的高手,在極品馬子出現時能輕易將其他擺平呢? 筆者以親身的例子與大家分享 。筆者要求自己,在每次做公車的時候,都要與坐在旁邊的人搭話(不論男人或女人),藉以訓練說出適當的第一句話。 試想若是你從不和陌生人搭話,當你遇見一位心怡的女孩時,你敢過去和她說話嗎? 這就和參加聯考卻不從做模擬題一樣,不可能考得高分的。如果你為了考試也做模擬題,那請你在平時也要訓練自己與人搭話。 那麼當她出現時,你就能輕易地遇出第一步,露出微笑說出“Hi,你好”。
雖然筆者能輕易與陌生人搭上話,但若你問筆者,面對真正的極品貨色時也能不受心理壓力影嚮,輕易邁上前嗎? 筆者老實回答,不能。 筆者還是會受心理壓力的影嚮,躊躇不前。 然而,筆者在一番心理鬥爭之後最終還是能提起勇氣邁向前去。 筆者說服自己的辦法是,1上述色即是空的理論,2回想搭訕的回報。
1筆者將搭訕與抄股票或者其他大交易連繫在一起。有些人在擁有十萬塊時是炒股專家,買進買出判斷十分正確。 但是身家若上升到一億時卻又不是那個樣。 由于金額過于龐大,若是被套牢可能會影嚮生計,因此無法正確的交易時機,導致最後賠得精光。 筆者在做生意的領域尚無機會發揮,但我知道搭訕這件事雖然和做生意不同,但本質上是一樣的。即技巧相同,但處理事務不同。 極品馬子就像重大交易,若我能以平常心與極品馬子搭訕,那麼我也能處理好對人生影嚮最大的商業交易。
2搭訕雖會被拒絕,但也有美好的回報。 在搭訕過後第一次約會就帶上床的例子太多了(參考拙作北京二砲、大二女生)。 一想到”Hi,你好“等于BJ,或打砲,立刻會鼓氣勇氣。[/b][/size]
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1沈陽妹大二,162,小可愛,(落單)
2北京妹,大四,180,類似模特身材(有奶),像貌極美,中文系(與朋友在一起被筆者擺平)
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soccerfans 2010-2-24 10:55
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-23 17:07 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10010949&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
係呀!我識一個已經嚟左香港成 10 年喇!我問過佢喺呢 10 年都無同男人行埋,直至遇到我同我玩 phone sex!不過佢住得好偏僻,佢放假又好少出街,所以仲未食到佢。 [/quote]
Dear Michael,
不好意思,在你地盆轉載搭訕學文章,請諒!
Soccerfans
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-24 11:27
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-24 10:39 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10018849&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
OK Cal, let me help all brothers here.
轉貼 conseco 手把手教搭訕------ 第一篇 如何跨出第一步
前言
其實我搭訕的經驗並不算多,只不多幾百人而已。我身邊的朋友台灣傳奇、香港扣女王都是搭訕專 ... [/quote]
Thank you c-hing! You are a great guy!
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-24 11:47
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-24 10:55 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10018931&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Dear Michael,
不好意思,在你地盆轉載搭訕學文章,請諒!
Soccerfans [/quote]
唔緊要師兄!多謝你貼嘅文章!
我都有個 friend 好鐘意同人講嘢,把口都幾得下。好似有一次咁,佢喺英國返香港,喺搭飛機途中,佢見個空姐幾靚,就撩佢傾計,點知傾開有條路,兩個仲要喺休息時間唔訓覺,一路傾,最後攞埋電話,我知佢地最近有出嚟食飯添,不過佢同我講只係做 friend,唔會做女朋友。:oh:
soccerfans 2010-2-24 13:17
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-24 11:47 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10019232&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
唔緊要師兄!多謝你貼嘅文章!
我都有個 friend 好鐘意同人講嘢,把口都幾得下。好似有一次咁,佢喺英國返香港,喺搭飛機途中,佢見個空姐幾靚,就撩佢傾計,點知傾開有條路,兩個仲要 ... [/quote]
我天天都在不同場合用所學啲搭訕學溝女溝C9,好似禽晚咁,係YMT地產店門前見兩个內地C9睇廣告,即刻上前搭訕問「找房嗎?」成功打開話盒,原來係表姊妹泥,表姊36表妹28,立即交換手機號,表妹揸單程証黎,過兩日去攞身份証,所以表妹想租間套房長住。後來都係表姊叻啲,主動問我要跟她做朋友嗎,即刻帶我返去賓館開餐。所以話姐,識搭訕點會餓死!
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-24 13:41
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-24 13:17 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10019813&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
我天天都在不同場合用所學啲搭訕學溝女溝C9,好似禽晚咁,係YMT地產店門前見兩个內地C9睇廣告,即刻上前搭訕問「找房嗎?」成功打開話盒,原來係表姊妹泥,表姊36表妹28,立即交換手機號,表妹揸 ... [/quote]
嘩!可以咁快開餐?唔係開放成咁呀?
我都好鐘意啲 C9,行街望佢地多過望後生女,可惜到而家都未識到啲 C9。:'(
係呢,個表姐得唔得架?講嚟聽下?
soccerfans 2010-2-24 14:18
表姐應該是自由淫過來揾食的,四川瀘州人,肥肥白白D杯36c9,服務一般,冇mud驚喜,勝在夠平,150快餐價。
剛打完電話,表姊催我過去食埋表妹。
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-24 14:54
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-24 14:18 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10020282&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
表姐應該是自由淫過來揾食的,四川瀘州人,肥肥白白D杯36c9,服務一般,冇mud驚喜,勝在夠平,150快餐價。
剛打完電話,表姊催我過去食埋表妹。 [/quote]
咁即係一樓一嚟?下次去起雙飛啦!
tylerdurden 2010-2-24 15:59
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-24 14:18 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10020282&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
表姐應該是自由淫過來揾食的,四川瀘州人,肥肥白白D杯36c9,服務一般,冇mud驚喜,勝在夠平,150快餐價。
剛打完電話,表姊催我過去食埋表妹。 [/quote]
師兄你真掂,人們失失慌落到嚟香港架步都未有就比你食左頭啖湯:lol:lol:lol
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-24 16:40
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-24 13:17 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10019813&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
我天天都在不同場合用所學啲搭訕學溝女溝C9,好似禽晚咁,係YMT地產店門前見兩个內地C9睇廣告,即刻上前搭訕問「找房嗎?」成功打開話盒,原來係表姊妹泥,表姊36表妹28,立即交換手機號,表妹揸 ... [/quote]
ching 好犀利呀!無得頂多
soccerfans 2010-2-24 17:13
[quote]原帖由 [i]ooooMichaeloooo[/i] 於 2010-2-24 14:54 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10020543&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
咁即係一樓一嚟?下次去起雙飛啦! [/quote]
Thanks for your 3P suggestion. They are not 141. They are now Free Walk freelancers. As from tomorrow afternoon, after obtaining HKID card, the younger cousin is a HK resident.
soccerfans 2010-2-24 17:23
[quote]原帖由 [i]tylerdurden[/i] 於 2010-2-24 15:59 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10021056&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
師兄你真掂,人們失失慌落到嚟香港架步都未有就比你食左頭啖湯:lol:lol:lol [/quote]
No. They were already accommodated in a guest house yesterday evening. I had operation with the elder cousin in the guest house room.
soccerfans 2010-2-24 17:26
[quote]原帖由 [i]^^^cal^^^[/i] 於 2010-2-24 16:40 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10021350&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
ching 好犀利呀!無得頂多 [/quote]
You can succed too if you learn and practise 搭訕學 by hard.
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-24 20:30
唔係一樓一又會咁易上嘅?唔通佢兩個打算做一樓一?可唔可以 pm 個電話俾我呀?
c9cmak 2010-2-24 23:07
喺賓賓嘅眼中我都算靚仔嘅!佢地話我有啲似一個菲國嘅男歌星
ho lan ho siu, thanks
c9cmak 2010-2-24 23:08
喺賓賓嘅眼中我都算靚仔嘅!佢地話我有啲似一個菲國嘅男歌星
siu lan sei all..... thanks
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-25 09:10
[quote]原帖由 [i]c9cmak[/i] 於 2010-2-24 23:07 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10024999&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
喺賓賓嘅眼中我都算靚仔嘅!佢地話我有啲似一個菲國嘅男歌星
ho lan ho siu, thanks [/quote]
你啲英文都幾爛下!:L
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-25 09:14
[quote]原帖由 [i]c9cmak[/i] 於 2010-2-24 23:08 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10025011&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
喺賓賓嘅眼中我都算靚仔嘅!佢地話我有啲似一個菲國嘅男歌星
siu lan sei all..... thanks [/quote]
唔識打中文嘅就唔該你打返啲正式嘅英文!:L
真係笑 X 死我!;P
Lee+Dick 2010-2-25 09:15
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-24 06:18 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10020282&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
表姐應該是自由淫過來揾食的,四川瀘州人,肥肥白白D杯36c9,服務一般,冇mud驚喜,勝在夠平,150快餐價。
剛打完電話,表姊催我過去食埋表妹。 [/quote]
方唔方便比的聯絡資料我呀?
唔該你,謝謝。
soccerfans 2010-2-25 09:57
[quote]原帖由 [i]Lee+Dick[/i] 於 2010-2-25 09:15 發表 [url=http://xocat.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10029202&ptid=324870][img]http://xocat.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
方唔方便比的聯絡資料我呀?
唔該你,謝謝。 [/quote]
I do not want to endanger them by exposing their contact details here.
jj_kiddie 2010-2-25 10:28
So good, ching. Waiting for your next paper.:clap:
Lee+Dick 2010-2-25 10:54
[quote]原帖由 [i]soccerfans[/i] 於 2010-2-25 01:57 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10029402&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
I do not want to endanger them by exposing their contact details here. [/quote]
Its OK.
Thanks anyway.
^^^cal^^^ 2010-2-25 16:56
[quote]原帖由 [i]c9cmak[/i] 於 2010-2-24 23:07 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10024999&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
喺賓賓嘅眼中我都算靚仔嘅!佢地話我有啲似一個菲國嘅男歌星
ho lan ho siu, thanks [/quote]
唔覺好笑噃! 我相信絕對有可能,各"草"入各眼,好出奇咩?
Michael ching 最近食嘅溫柔靚賓賓 :applause: 好正呀!
[[i] 本帖最後由 ^^^cal^^^ 於 2010-2-25 19:45 編輯 [/i]]
ooooMichaeloooo 2010-2-25 20:07
[quote]原帖由 [i]^^^cal^^^[/i] 於 2010-2-25 16:56 發表 [url=http://forum.timway.com/f/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=10032241&ptid=324870][img]http://forum.timway.com/f/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
唔覺好笑噃! 我相信絕對有可能,各"草"入各眼,好出奇咩?
Michael ching 最近食嘅溫柔靚賓賓 :applause: 好正呀! [/quote]
溝咗好耐豲漶I好有女友 feel!真係好溫柔謘I;P 最衰我有女友啦!唔係實揀佢!:loveliness:
rickywongwong 2010-2-25 21:18
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可唔可以 pm 個電話俾我呀?
我都好鐘意啲 C9