civilian 2010-3-8 00:27
same mistake again
The previous thread was locked. Here is an update.
The (gold fish) girl, mentioned in my earlier post, suddenly ask me out for dinner after disappearing for a while. she did not ask for money initially but I gave her good money every time anyway. for a few months now she always come out to meet me whenever I want to see her (about 2-3 times a month). to me, this is an honor because i never have such attractive girl treat me like that.
then recently she wants to borrow money. I lent right a way, no question ask, because i like her a lot. then i started to give her bigger monies even she does not ask. All my guy friends say I should stop right a way especially I have never had sex with her. Standing at a cross road, I will have to make a decision soon.
brownwhite 2010-3-8 01:22
hey man, are u so fucking rich?
u are sinking to the deepest of the ocean!
even yr fd cannot stop u, how can a guy in a forum to help u?
THINK ABOUT YR PARENTS! DID U GIVE THAT AMOUNT OF MONEY TO THEM?
YR MONEY CAN BE SPEND IN A BETTER WAY, SHE IS JUST A GIRL WHO LIKES YR MONEY NOT U
GOOD LUCK
tcod 2010-3-9 00:38
老兄絕對係女人口中既 "好男人"!:applause:
大把錢嘥係唔同d!
佩服佩服!
civilian 2010-4-7 00:32
A lot has happened since my last post. As suggested by C Hings, I tried to stop seeing her for a while and kept on meeting other gals in NC. But no one else got me interested. Then she contacted me again. Initially sharing with me "indirectly and casually" about her small financial problems. I lent her money but in smaller and smaller amounts trying to control the damage. Yes I kept asking to trade but she kept refusing saying she does not do that (gold fish). After some time finally, she asked if i want to trade for 6-figures....and I did it out of curiosity.
Honestly, the trade was not 100% enjoyable as it really felt like a trade and she left right a way to meet friends afterward. I still miss her since then but this relationship sounds too business. Right now, the future will be 2 extreme case: I either give up now or indulge further. I don't know.
gamer2003 2010-4-7 00:50
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If you can afford it why don't you go further ahead? At least you won't regret when you look back after some years. Money spent can be earned again anyway.
civilian 2010-4-7 06:54
correction: 5-figure not 6