messenger 2007-3-22 13:44
重視家庭，但又會去偷食
[size=2][color=Green]大家怎樣看:
重視自己的家庭，亦妥善照顧妻兒，但又會出外去偷食的男人呢? :wondering:
偷食是指用金錢購買性愛服務 [/color][/size]
我會覺得...
人的確有很多個面，亦可分很多partitions
視乎怎樣可以妥善去處理
我正是很重視自己的家庭
亦能妥善照顧妻兒的男人
但的確亦有去偷食
可能會被人責罵口不對心
根本已傷害了家人! :L
[[i] 本帖最後由 messenger 於 2007-3-22 14:51 編輯 [/i]]
細摩 2007-3-22 14:02
[quote]原帖由 [i]messenger[/i] 於 2007-3-22 13:44 發表
大家怎樣看:
重視自己的家庭，亦妥善照顧妻兒，但又會出外去偷食的男人呢? :wondering:
偷食是指用金錢購買性愛服務 [/quote]
你先發表自己的意見吧！！
偷食不單止用金錢，也可以用時間或其他因素而換來一刻歡愉．
messenger 2007-3-22 14:54
回復 #2 細摩 的帖子
已加上了我的感受
「偷食不單止用金錢，也可以用時間或其他因素而換來一刻歡愉．」
我明白婚外情可未必是女性，可能是打機? 賭博?....
我的意思是: 在這裡指用金錢買的性愛 :)
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bgfantasy 2007-3-23 08:57
回復 #3 messenger 的帖子
messenger, seems you've been puzzled by this issue for quite a long time.
i agree with you, "人的確有很多個面，亦可分很多partitions.
視乎怎樣可以妥善去處理". however, ask yourself what's your priority?
messenger 2007-3-23 17:05
[quote]原帖由 [i]bgfantasy[/i] 於 2007-3-23 08:57 發表
messenger, seems you've been puzzled by this issue for quite a long time.
i agree with you, "人的確有很多個面，亦可分很多partitions.
視乎怎樣可以妥善去處理". however, ask yourself wh ... [/quote]
Actually...I haven't been puzzled now.
Thanks! :)
hcco 2007-3-23 23:52
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messenger 2007-3-24 12:42
[quote]原帖由 [i]hcco[/i] 於 2007-3-23 23:52 發表
這就是一生的插曲,精彩的一生總要有一點點的點啜,安排得宜,有何不妥. [/quote]
如歷史....也有野史 :D
spirit88 2007-4-6 15:00
人有太多的欲望和需要，好多事情也在所難免。還系呢一句：狗肉穿腸過，佛祖心中留。
為了家庭不要玩感情！
jjbb88 2007-4-9 06:46
i have been puzzle for long time too.. i love my family, but on the other hand cannot control my desire?? i have been thinking to stop but after a while i go again..
aiasam 2007-4-9 11:09
hi , this is so nice topic,
I want to have so sex,, But i have a famirly..
How can I handly???
spirit88 2007-4-9 16:19
[quote]原帖由 [i]jjbb88[/i] 於 2007-4-9 06:46 發表
i have been puzzle for long time too.. i love my family, but on the other hand cannot control my desire?? i have been thinking to stop but after a while i go again.. [/quote]
me too!:blowme::givemefive:
march29 2007-4-9 22:49
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mayyx5 2007-4-10 10:24
偷食不單止用金錢，也可以用時間或其他因素而換來一刻歡愉．
march29 2007-4-10 18:28
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keibeast 2007-4-12 06:52
會唔會係 1974年廢除左一夫多妻制的後果. 整到d男人要偷.
kkwong7606 2007-4-12 13:36
[quote]原帖由 [i]keibeast[/i] 於 2007-4-12 06:52 發表
會唔會係 1974年廢除左一夫多妻制的後果. 整到d男人要偷. [/quote]
應該唔關係。你冇聽過：妻不如妾，妾不如偷，偷不如偷不到。;P;P;P
ayamatsuura 2007-4-12 17:30
李白都教: (人生得意须尽欢,莫使金樽空对月)
bgfantasy 2007-4-12 17:39
well, let's think deeply. we both contradict.
human being, or men, have emotions. you have sex emotion, and you go and find a woman to fuck. you're saying don't put too much emotion onto these girls. however, you have emotion to go fucking but have no emotion on the girls you fuck, then how can you become hard on? if you're hard enough to fuck, which means something from the girls attract you, and you're gonna remember it for some time. then it might change to.......a greater emotion, or a longer term of emotion......damn, it's complicated.
i think, there are two ways to retain your family but also go out to fuck:
1. get hurt. hurt by some girls, being cheated with a lot of money, making you feel regret.
2. don't go out playing.
:reading:
cy197837 2007-4-12 17:58
very good very good very good
oldkent 2007-4-12 21:53
[quote]原帖由 [i]messenger[/i] 於 2007-3-22 13:44 發表
大家怎樣看:
重視自己的家庭，亦妥善照顧妻兒，但又會出外去偷食的男人呢? :wondering:
偷食是指用金錢購買性愛服務
我會覺得...
人的確有很多個面，亦可分很多partitions
視乎怎樣可以妥善去處理 ... [/quote]
★~ 曖昧關係 ~★
曖昧是，比好朋友再親一點，但比情人遠一點。
曖昧是彼此有感覺，然而，這種感覺不足以叫你們切切實實的發展一段正式的關係。
曖昧是明白人生有太多的無奈，現實有太多的限制。你知道沒有可能，但又捨不得放
手。
曖昧是有進一步的衝動，卻沒有進一步的勇氣。
曖昧是一方永遠不說，另一方就永遠裝作不懂。於是一方永遠沈默，一方永遠裝傻。
曖昧是，她不是你的情人，但她似乎比你的情人更關心你和了解你。
曖昧是，天冷時，感冒時有一個會在晚上傳訊息特意提你服藥，叫你多穿點、蓋好被早
點睡的普通朋友。
曖昧是，半夜你睡不著，卻可以放心打電話給他聊天的普通朋友。
曖昧是，當你遇到問題解決不了的時候，你找不到你的女朋友，或者不能問女朋友的，
你第一個便會想起她。
曖昧是，每當她提及她的另一半時，你會萬箭穿心，但你也希望他幸福。
曖昧是，你明明知道問他你的愛情的問題會令他擔心、甚至會令他難過，但你除了他卻
不大知道要問誰。
曖昧是，甜津津又同時酸溜溜的。往往從未開始，已叫人不安，患得患失。
曖昧是，常常掙扎彼此關係。你怕透明化之後，你既得不到一個情人，卻又失去了一個
知心好友。
曖昧是，見不到她時，你會掛念她。見到的時候，又會覺得還好。
曖昧是，兩個人都會互相猜度。她是不是已經暗示了甚麼？我是不是自作多情。
★~ 曖昧關係 ~★
這種關係存在友情之間，是一種很特別的朋友，是一種默契的朋友，不近也不遠，不多
情也不無情 .... 就這樣持續曖昧！
yandong 2007-4-13 19:22
情有可原yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
tang.fx80 2007-4-14 03:37
有了欲念便偷食！人之常情！理解！！！！！
usnameless 2007-4-14 06:32
[quote]原帖由 [i]kkwong7606[/i] 於 4/11/2007 09:36 PM 發表
應該唔關係。你冇聽過：妻不如妾，妾不如偷，偷不如偷不到。;P;P;P [/quote]
Sorry, 好似應該係: 妻不如妾、妾不如妓、妓不如偷，偷不如偷不到, 所以有人會姦...:L
ampm 2007-4-14 11:43
隻繫侑啲魜改寤嶌........
KS 2007-4-14 14:04
Once you started, you cannot stop and will be addict to it. Always want it!!
KS 2007-4-14 14:07
[quote]原帖由 [i]oldkent[/i] 於 2007-4-12 21:53 發表
★~ 曖昧關係 ~★
曖昧是，比好朋友再親一點，但比情人遠一點。
曖昧是彼此有感覺，然而，這種感覺不足以叫你們切切實實的發展一段正式的關係。
曖昧是明白人生有太多的無奈，現實有太多的限制。你 ... [/quote]
That's very sweet, but it only happen in people before 20s? The world is still simple and beautiful.
Nacol001 2007-4-15 20:52
曖昧, I mark it as a the affair between a man and a woman, and they have their spouse already. The feeling between the man and woman. Sometimes, you may escape some deep feeling to the one you interested in. It is not impossible, and in fact, there are many affair happen in nowadays.
I remember a movie named: " INTERLUDE". It is the story about a short feeling of a married musician to a girl. The feeling is not bad when they came together. The feeling last forever though they had parted in the environment.
Nacol
foursea 2007-4-19 12:49
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wai233 2007-4-23 22:57
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kay2003ga 2007-4-28 10:13
压力太大，有时可以理解的
golden8315 2007-5-3 20:11
有边个男会无呀~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
fuckallday 2007-5-7 05:41
if you are just daydreaming, then won't hurt the family
if implementing, then once got caught, hard to explain to your wife that why you sought other girls' comfort. Worse if you got sex diseases....
bigbigking 2007-5-8 13:55
過過冷河嗟 咪發大黎講啦
偷食呢味野就好似屎渠甘 完全無又唔得 揭開黎睇又臭 最好不聞不理
caemac 2007-5-11 22:33
however, ask yourself what's your priority?
舞神 2007-5-12 09:47
如果您本事可以明食,
如果無的話就唔好諗咁多.
saintsaiya 2007-5-16 15:59
因為男人容易對可以輕鬆上床的對象感到膩
因此會想要到外面偷食
已經負擔了一個家庭
要叫他在外面負擔另一個女人
一般男人都不願意，也沒能力
所以偷食是最雙管齊下的方法
滿足男人可以跟不同女人上床又不用負責任:blowme:
messenger 2007-5-17 01:11
[quote]原帖由 [i]march29[/i] 於 2007-4-9 22:49 發表
Dear Messenger, I am puzzled for this issue too. It seems so many brother have the same feeling. I would propose the following, may be not collect. We had physical desire, as we are animal. so we w ... [/quote]
Yes bro march29!
我們只用身而不用心去玩
whisky 2007-5-17 15:45
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寂寞的人 2007-5-19 14:38
家里红旗永不倒,外边彩旗飘就飘,妻不如妾、妾不如妓、妓不如偷，偷不如偷不到,彼此彼此.
prothesisbrain 2007-6-11 16:25
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hotdragon 2007-6-16 17:03
[quote]原帖由 [i]messenger[/i] 於 2007-3-22 13:44 發表
大家怎樣看:
重視自己的家庭，亦妥善照顧妻兒，但又會出外去偷食的男人呢? :wondering:
偷食是指用金錢購買性愛服務
我會覺得...
人的確有很多個面，亦可分很多partitions
視乎怎樣可以妥善去處理 ... [/quote]
me too...
:saujai:
hotdragon 2007-6-16 17:04
[quote]原帖由 [i]messenger[/i] 於 2007-5-17 01:11 發表
Yes bro march29!
我們只用身而不用心去玩 [/quote]
很好的解釋...
家人會接受嗎???:L
ooppoo 2007-7-1 00:42
i agree with you
lgrlw007 2007-7-2 10:50
[quote]原帖由 [i]spirit88[/i] 於 2007-4-6 15:00 發表
人有太多的欲望和需要，好多事情也在所難免。還系呢一句：狗肉穿腸過，佛祖心中留。
為了家庭不要玩感情！ [/quote]
强烈支持你的看法
brasco 2007-7-5 02:11
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3a4b5c6c 2007-7-6 03:21
I agreed with all of your options.
Human is a kind of animals, just like others such as lion, tiger,....etc. Think and check that out, in male gene, always need to have sex with more than 1 female, it is our natural. No matter in human being or other animials.
It is okay to release yourself from time to time especially under high pressure in our living enviornment in HK. As long as play it safe and not to let your wife knows. Maybe they pretend not to know that acting in most of the families.
Be smart, going out to buy service, but not input much feeling on them; otherwise, it is easily broke your family.:givemefive:
driqpig 2007-7-7 18:44
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jacksonson 2007-7-11 20:04
good! good! good!
london 2007-7-16 09:24
[quote]原帖由 [i]foursea[/i] 於 2007-4-19 13:49 發表
其實出去偷食, 是為了滿足生理上的霈要,及心理上的征服心態.
只要不涉及感情, 保持理智,在男性角度完全沒有問題.
結婚多年的夫妻, 通常另一半都會扮不知道的, 其實大家都心裡有數, 放狗出街鬆一鬆, 懂得回家及知 ... [/quote]
But sometimes your wife would not simply accept this because she was not aware of your desire. So you need to consider what would happen if you are caught being naughty.
violetblue 2007-7-16 14:10
看了很灰， 原來男人大部份都一邊口口聲聲話愛妻子、
重視家庭， 一邊又要出去偷食。
那麼， 你們偷食的時候，
有覺得一絲絲內咎， 對不起老婆嗎？？
萬一太太發現你不忠，
同樣又出去偷食，
你們可以吞得下嗎？