Last year, I went to the mainland for a businness trip. I met a lady who worked in the mainland branch of our company. She was 37 at that time (born in 1970) but still in a good shape. We met in a formal occassion and I treated her as a regular friend. You know, I served her during the dinner, as a gentleman, nothing special.
Last month, my company, as well as the mainland branch, had a sort of meeting for strategic planning. The venue was a Country Club in Guangzhou. In this occasion, I met her again. After the welcome dinner, she invited me to have a walk. I promised, also, because, as a gentleman, it is courtesy. There was a lake at the center of the Country Club. From the banquet hall to the lake, the environment was dark so she held my arm. I did not notice anything strange. After we had arrived the lakeshore, I suggested siting down for a rest. Then something happened! She leaned her head on my shoulder. Well, I didn't know how to response. Time seemed stopped. Biologically my instinct urged me to "start the action" but my brain told me that I must stop because there might be too many potential complexes, e.g. I didn't know her background so as the consequences. After a couple of minutes, I decided to retract and I suggested going back hotel. She said she had some good tea, why not going to her room for a chat. I refused because I had already made the decision.
After I had gone back to Hong Kong, we communicated through email. I know more about her background. She is married but have no kids. She said she feels life boring and my appearance made her life colorful. She liked me when she saw me at the first sight! I also tell her about my situation. I have a regular GF. She says that's OK. Both she and I are adults. She will not affect the relationship between my GF and I.
Next month I will go to the mainland branch again. She will be there. What will happen? What will she do? More importantly, what shalll I do? Let see.
[ 本帖最後由 sl886 於 2008-2-16 10:25 編輯 ]
