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原帖由 kenny1234 於 2007-7-8 21:41 發表
大丈夫,一人做事一人當,就算她真係離開你又怎樣?
其實,點解你唔想下,離開你佢可能生活更美好,更幸福呢?你咁想會唔會好過d呢?
愛一個人也要尊重對方的決定,不是單方面講你會改就要比機會你的,
我不是 ...
Hai..... To be honest, the situation is tough.
To brother CF4, first I want to ask you two questions:
(1) Ask yourself (from the deep deep bottom of heart), do you still love your wife and cannot lost her anymore? How about your wife? same?
(2) Part of agree with Kenny1234, the decision is made by your wife. It's her decision but as I said people always have choice. You have and your wife also has. Does your wife leaving you is the reason you want to quit gambling? If yes, then think positivly, all you do is to PROVE that you are serious and damn serious about the quiting. About the pressure thing of your wife, no one can help. only she can help by herself.
Really at this stage, I have nothing to say and I can see that you already start action.(IT"S REALLY GOOD!!!) My friend, keep it up. No matter what the result is. You tried damn hard and should feel no regret at all.
For the worse case, if your wife decided to leave (Just saying, eveything is possible). Then, you should regret and hate gambling because it breaks your family. At the same time, you should be pround of yourself that at least you tried hard for the relationship and start action to quit gambling.
The topest level of LOVE - is willing to be hurt. (INSIDE LOVE, there is no fear).
I can see how much your wife loves you even though her heart has been hurt a lot. NOW, IT"S TIME FOR YOU TO HEAL HER HEART. CHEER UP MAN!!!