終於可以再喺呢度留言.  Thks, 細摩版主. 唔該哂!!

尋日係情人節, 有啲乜嘢慶祝......其實我唔係需要一啲好 fancy, 好 elegant 嘅禮物, (尋晚都係同埋仔仔, 羊咩一齊出街食飯.)  嘻......去太平......館囉!!  羊咩同仔仔檻住我織俾佢嘅頸巾; 我收到乜嘢禮物??  遲 d 話俾你哋知.....

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-15 01:59 發表
終於可以再喺呢度留言.  Thks, 細摩版主. 唔該哂!!

尋日係情人節, 有啲乜嘢慶祝......其實我唔係需要一啲好 fancy, 好 elegant 嘅禮物, (尋晚都係同埋仔仔, 羊咩一齊出街食飯.) ...

我係 last minute 先搵倒 D 時間買左樣實用既野俾老婆

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原帖由 mmr.ren 於 2008-2-15 10:04 發表


我係 last minute 先搵倒 D 時間買左樣實用既野俾老婆

唉!! 你真係........ 咁大意....

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-15 02:10 發表



唉!! 你真係........ 咁大意....

我諗左好耐架喇... 要真係有用又要鍾意, 諗唔倒都唔奇

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原帖由 mmr.ren 於 2008-2-15 10:13 發表


我諗左好耐架喇... 要真係有用又要鍾意, 諗唔倒都唔奇

唉!! 10 個男人着咗7, 8 個都係咁.......

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-15 02:14 發表



唉!! 10 個男人着咗7, 8 個都係咁.......

諗過過種都好重要嘛...

日日諗住佢想要咩, 所以想唔愛佢都幾難, 時時刻刻都諗, 日日都掛

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2007-11-22 17:50 發表
Oxfam Trailwalker 2007, 東壩頭

Dear Kathy, as a lovely lady, how do you explain my story?
Last year, I went to the mainland for a businness trip.  I met a lady who worked in the mainland branch of our company.  She was 37 at that time (born in 1970) but still in a good shape.  We met in a formal occassion and I treated her as a regular friend.  You know, I served her during the dinner, as a gentleman, nothing special.   
Last month, my company, as well as the mainland branch, had a sort of meeting for strategic planning. The venue was in a Country Club in Guangzhou.   In this occasion, I met her again.  After the welcome dinner, she invited me to have a walk.  I promised, also, because, as a gentleman, it is courtesy.  There was a lake at the center of the Country Club.  From the banquet hall to the lake, the environment was dark so she held my arm.  I did not notice any strange.  After we had arrived the lakeshore, I suggested siting down for a rest.  Then something happened!  She leaned her head on my shoulder.  Well, I didn't know how to response.  Time seemed stopped.  Biologically my instinct urged me to "start the action" but my brain told me that I must stop because there might be too many potential complexes, e.g. I didn't know her background so as the consequences.  After a couple of minutes, I decided to retract and I suggested going back hotel.  She said she had some good tea, why not going to her room for a chat.  I refused because I had already made the decision.  
After I had gone back to Hong Kong, we communicated through email.  I know more about her background.  She is married but have no kids.  She said she feels life boring and my appearance made her life colorful.  She liked me when she saw me at the first sight!  I also tell her about my situation.  I have a regular GF.  She says that's OK.  We are adults.  She will not affect the relationship between my GF and I.  I will go to the mainland branch next month.  I wonder whether there will have something happened.

[ 本帖最後由 sl886 於 2008-2-16 10:29 編輯 ]

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原帖由 sl886 於 2008-2-16 18:28 發表


Dear Kathy, as a lovely lady, how do you explain my story?
Last year, I went to the mainland for a businness trip.  I met a lady who worked in the mainland branch of our company.  She was 37 a ...

Sorry for my lated reply, and a....thks your words first of all and think it's not kinda story like, (I mean what you told.) but fact's really happened on you.  One thing I do appreciate, at least you know what ur position is, and never step to ur "Thin Red Danger Line", never goes wrong.  I don't think she's wanna play tricks on you, or even she's gonna crush on you possibly, but 'em...she's ur co-league but diffenent location.  The point I wanna tell is "Why u but not others??"  Just curious, and did you meet her several times before, and as a net friends I wanna ask, "You're her boss, or not!!??"  Or you both just the same level in work and got no influerance for each other.  Plus, she gotta husband, right??  As a common friend, I do don't mind people close to me, coz that's reacted as friendship like.  But if she, ur co-league did more than you expect for, so, you have to think 'bout being a lair since start up the relationship.  Know what, it seems piece of cake sayin' sort of words "That's ok, I won't being the person in the middle."  But when the times go far, won't she being ur nightmair??  I'm not gonna push you hear what I say, but it always happen, especially the women presently whose so aggressive, close to insane.  That's why Kathy wanna give you advice.  No matter what...hope hear ur good news soon, and remember.  It's hard to find someone u love, but you can lose it in a second.

Kathy!!

[ 本帖最後由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-21 20:56 編輯 ]

點解今日冇上嚟....唔....奶奶今日唔係幾舒服, 咁要同佢睇醫生. 對於奶奶, 我一直都有一份歉意的. 她起初真的唔想我同我ex-hus 離婚的. 所以...就算我ex-hus 點唔生性, 對住老爺,奶奶, 我一定盡好我的本份. 今日見到她, 她精神比之前好. 但老爺嘅離去, 加上我 ex-hus 嘅事, 令她蒼老了很多.  其實今日我仲帶埋"羊咩媽咪" (我未來奶奶)飲茶, 幸好佢倆個老人家傾得＋分投契, thks God!!

要過去的, 始終要過去, 怎樣活着, 並活得精彩, 活得開心, 才是最重要; 幸福......咪從這裡來呢!!

Kat

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-21 10:03 發表



Sorry for my lated reply, and a....thks your words first of all and think it's not kinda story like, (I mean what you told.) but fact's really happened on you.  One thing I do appreciate, at  ...

Dear Kathy, you are really a lovely lady as you can organize your life so well.  You are even able to bring your ex-mom-in-law and your future-mom-in-law together having a nice meal.  
Thank you for your advice.  I understand what you say and I agree with you.  
For my case, I did meet her several times before.  But just once a year.  Your question “Why u but not others?” may have two answers: 1/ In terms of ranking, I was one of the top rank officers in the meeting, so I think I successfully drew her attentions.  2/ I think I am physically attractive to her.  I always have shining smile on my face.  My figure is still in very good shape: 38-28-37; 5’10” and 145lb.  I have dense hair on my head.  I even have no “fish-tailed” wrinkles when I smile.  
Although I am senior to her, we have no influences to each other.  We even cannot be considered as colleagues.  My office has no collaborations with hers.  So, even we start, it will not have any complexes, at least in terms of work, because we are in two different cities.
Frankly speaking, she did give me a good feeling.  Nevertheless, it is not sufficient for me to start such a relationship with her although my masculine instinct urges me to seek for romantic adventure.

[ 本帖最後由 sl886 於 2008-2-22 02:38 編輯 ]

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-21 10:18 發表
點解今日冇上嚟....唔....奶奶今日唔係幾舒服, 咁要同佢睇醫生. 對於奶奶, 我一直都有一份歉意的. 她起初真的唔想我同我ex-hus 離婚的. 所以...就算我ex-hus 點唔生性, 對住老爺,奶奶, 我一定盡好我的本份. ...

let it be

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原帖由 mmr.ren 於 2008-2-22 11:00 發表


let it be

或者係我唔忍心留低奶奶一個o卦!!

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-22 12:23 發表



或者係我唔忍心留低奶奶一個o卦!!

a sentimental and considerate lady,人間有情

Re:  a sentimental and considerate lady,人間有情


如果問, 點解重同前夫嘅家人絡, 我會覺得...我唔係要做一個"老死不相住來"嘅人.  佢係我前夫, 這個是不爭的事實.  但我巳經把這段關係下, and bury over it.  可以話...煙消雲散; 但老爺奶奶並不是.  佢哋老一輩的思想是改變不了的, 做後生的, 能夠可以做的, Kathy 一定做到.  Since my father-in law passed away, and I'm the only person responsible to keep the eyes on my 奶奶, (Of course including my 大伯's couples.)  有時, 諗返轉頭, 當仔仔出世, 成長, 老爺真的很用心去和這孫仔溝通, 可以話...這孩子令他晚年了卻一件心願.  今日我前夫打過電話嚟, but I wasn't at home and left no message.  我唔知佢發生甚麽事, 但這一刻...仔仔的反應, 令我知道...我唔會再諗起他.  仔仔巳經 100% 放下和他的 relationship; I think...it should be at time to end up!!  Perhaps, I'm kind of silly lady, right??

Good night, all!!

there is no clean cut, no matter what, she is your son's grandma, however, it does not mean that you have the responsibility to look after her, it's your own decision on how to set the boundary.

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原帖由 jackwine 於 2008-2-24 03:39 發表
there is no clean cut, no matter what, she is your son's grandma, however, it does not mean that you have the responsibility to look after her, it's your own decision on how to set the boundary.

By the way, why you call urself Jackwine, or maybe you're kinda wine lover like me.

Try Panfolds Yattana, my favor white wine.  As for the red, with no doubt Latour 1996, and Montrose 1990 (Parker rated 100.), and Gruaud Larose 1986.  Must try...

Kat

[ 本帖最後由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-24 10:55 編輯 ]

Oh!!  I also leave a thread at "遙遠的 Paradise"  , please go and leave me some lines.

Kat

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-24 10:51 發表



By the way, why you call urself Jackwine, or maybe you're kinda wine lover like me.

Try Panfolds Yattana, my favor white wine.  As for the red, with no doubt Latour 1996, and Montrose ...

penfolds, 28, 128  of 2004 are great

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-24 01:37 發表


Re:  a sentimental and considerate lady,人間有情


如果問, 點解重同前夫嘅家人絡, 我會覺得...我唔係要做一個"老死不相住來"嘅人.  佢係我前夫, 這個是不爭的事實.  但我巳經把 ...

well, i am fully agree with you, that is fate, when the relationship is over,it is over, but no need to be enemy..

like my in law, she always go back to see her parents-in law after divorce, and as a mature person, we know what we should do, and what we shouldnt do,前夫 is finished not means the relationship with their family is finished.

When I think harder, I also remember how bad he treat me, (who's he, just think 'bout.) With no respect, no care, no appreciatation at all...the total ignorant...so much immuaturity and arrogance, so selfish and self-centre like there was nobody in the world or everyone just evolving 'round him.  Father, I hate that.  Why my ex can't be the sweet, ....now, he's been away from me and now have to turn my new page.  He's just my part of my history......to be continued...

[ 本帖最後由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-24 23:47 編輯 ]

It wasn't a story, few years ago in Astoria, I met a couple whose name James and Sylvia.  For me, they're a lovely couple, very funny, engergetic, and ....quite violent sometimes...particularly when they got into an frequent arguement , or fights, they always ended up with some violence.....One time after their "violent fight", I couldn't help but asked 'em, have you both ever thought of getting divorce?" They both responced simultaneously .  "Oh!  Yes!! Many times!!  With a big smile on their faces."  Curiously about what happened every time?  I was intrigue, Then James said " Well , I was lazy and asked her to go make the papers, and lucky was lazy and asked me to go make the papers, and so we both are so lazy and no body ever go it happen....."

I was laughting and learnt that lazy couples won't get divorce!! That's something good about being lazy though.....

different people has different style to get together, but violence shouldn't be one of them...

let it be..... !!!! >.^