I met a girl who already has bf, but recently I realize that my feelings to her, should I tell her that I love her and start to chase her or only be frds until there is a chance come to me.....
Everybody, please help!!!

GO GO LETS GO !!!
what are you waiting for ?!
It s your own life !

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原帖由 teletubbiesdon 於 2007-8-25 19:45 發表
I met a girl who already has bf, but recently I realize that my feelings to her, should I tell her that I love her and start to chase her or only be frds until there is a chance come to me.....
Ev ...

你試下掉轉諗, 如果你係個女仔o既男朋友.

你所謂feel咪係見一個中一個...

做第三者冇好結果架 ... 朋友 !

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原帖由 teletubbiesdon 於 2007-8-25 11:45 發表
I met a girl who already has bf, but recently I realize that my feelings to her, should I tell her that I love her and start to chase her or only be frds until there is a chance come to me.....
Ev ...

你是對她有好感、喜歡、還是愛？

如果只是頭兩者，你就無謂滿足自己，破壞她的正常生活；

如果你是愛她，更應該讓她幸福，不要令她為難吧。

暫時做下朋友先囉，對她講了又如何？是你最想要的答覆嗎？

反而退後一步讓你清醒呀，朋友！

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原帖由 細龜 於 2007-9-3 23:17 發表



你是對她有好感、喜歡、還是愛？

如果只是頭兩者，你就無謂滿足自己，破壞她的正常生活；

如果你是愛她，更應該讓她幸福，不要令她為難吧。

暫時做下朋友先囉，對她講了又如何？是你最想要的答覆嗎 ...

good!!!! 真係答得非常之好!!!!

你可以試下追下。但就唔好諗住得。

go ahead for a try

GO ahead and see how she respond.  Otherwise, you will never know the result and never get a chance.

to love someone set her free ......

i don't understand why you want to tell her and chase her after you "realise" your feeling. you're not a hunter.

besides, why you ask such question sin? you scare of losing her, even just be friends, or you don't think she will leave her bf and turn to you?

i think after you asked the question, you should have the answer.

1. you have spent more time with her and found some of her good points. of coz, you're happy with her accompany, the you THINK you love her. love is something not from "realise"

2. you don't have confidence. simply that girl is very stable with her bf. atleast you don't see the girl "realise" she loves you.

tresure her and backing her up no matter what happens. she will realise such a good guy is with her all the way. then .............

You need to find out if she has the same feeling towards you first. If yes, then it is just a fair game that you should compete with the other guy. If not, then forget it. In any event, you two can always be friends.

you must tell her about your feelings ,lets fight !!!

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原帖由 teletubbiesdon 於 2007-8-25 19:45 發表
I met a girl who already has bf, but recently I realize that my feelings to her, should I tell her that I love her and start to chase her or only be frds until there is a chance come to me.....
Ev ...

just let her know that you have feeling for her . and she make her choice. so simple !

問問你自己: "到她人老豬黃時,我還愛她嗎?"