我現正考慮是否生BB,請問大家一般要考慮D MUD?同要有什麼準備?

先睇下兩公婆既經濟可唔可以負擔得起養個細路
再黎睇下住緊間屋夠唔夠地方住
又睇下生左出黎之後由邊個去照顧
屋企附近係咪有好既適合既環境比細路讀書
其實都有好多,不過我認為想生就生啦...做咩諗咁多喎
有d野係事前準備,不過有d野諗得太多,會令到你唔敢生架
順其自然啦...船到橋頭自然直.

十分多謝

我真係一路計劃一路唔敢生

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原帖由 Cyril_Magician 於 2007-11-7 10:54 AM 發表
十分多謝

我真係一路計劃一路唔敢生

有好多人,後生時冇諗過生,到想生既時候又因為某d原因冇得生
女人一生最幸福既事係生過BB, 雖然我曾經生得好痛苦
不過我仍然開心我生過BB,睇見仔仔健康活潑,睇住佢成長,
呢種開心同幸福既感覺真係有錢都買唔到,
而家我老喇,想生多個都好似好多限制
不過你生得佢,就唔好有一個錯既觀念,要佢將來點去報答你or養你
係你要帶佢黎到呢個世界,唔係佢欠左你,所以你生得佢出,
就應該付出無私既愛,比佢你能力範圍內最好既野,唔好求回報
...呢個係我個人既諗法,你可以唔認同我既.
祝你快d有BB,同埋有一個幸福健康既家庭.

Hello Cyril,

I agree 100% with 貓宇川.  You will have to see if you can really afford to have a kid. Also, you need to see who can help you to look after your BB if you and your husband is looking for alone time.  Some time you just want to have some alone time with your husband.  
Also, remember to share responsibilities with your husbnd as well.  No matter what he is busy for, he will still need to help you for looking after the baby.
Having a kid is a big responsibility.  I have 2 girls my self and I love every minute that I have with them.  When you have a bad day, looking at them by the end of the night is something that is really good
Good luck to you la.  Hope you have a very cute BB.

Thank you very much to you all.



I will seriously discuss this with my another half.