樓主，你在香港有沒有老婆，或者女朋友呢？你期望佢同你的關係是怎樣？唔通你會娶佢做老婆咩？你自己都唔到咁專一，你又要人哋對咁專一，係未有ｄ過份呢？出嚟都係玩吓啫，可必咁認真呢？

sometimes when u r for real, they tend to feel u r short term solution and that make u disappointed.
sometimes when they r for real, u may end up feeling doubtful on whether they have something hiding behind u cuz u just feel impossible for them to settle on u.
i think the most important thing is that just know what u r expecting from a certain relationship, if things go wrong, all u need to do is knowing exactly when to let go, then recover and move on

既然已經見到晒，下定決心分手吧 !  這樣的事情，在香港也常有的，不要放在心裡啊 !

師兄既然可以沖上去質問她﹐ 那你跟她的關係應非比尋常。。但師兄提到她是按腳的。。
能否詳細點講一下你跟她的關系呢。。
骨場認識後熟了的客人﹖--應該不是。。還未有權去質問她。。
不講錢交往的朋友﹖。。可能還未有權去質問。。
有給家用的飯盒﹖。。應也不是。。飯盒就應該不再上班了。。
送了很多東西/錢給她。。感覺上是你條女。。﹖我想這有點像了。。

I agree with ur analysis.  Most likely 送了很多東西/錢給她。。感覺上是你條女。。﹖

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-6 17:59 發表
前天早上, 我打電話給深圳的女朋友, 她是做按腳的, 說我要過去找她,

她說要陪個同事去草埔租房子, 沒空陪我, 要到下午才可以, 我說好吧, 叫她下午有空才打電話找我吧.

那我就先上去, 打算去東門逛一逛, 等女 ...

你可能看錯了吧
你這樣發問就証明你心中也不能確認
如果你愛你女朋友, 就應該相信她的話, 對嗎?
就是妳女友前一晚真的去開房
也可能沒有做愛, 頂多是吹吹簫, 抽抽水已而
大熱天時、孤男寡女, 你又不在, 這個你也理解可以吧, 對嗎?

師兄, 你如果睇到呢到都唔發 , 咁你就唔使理其他師兄點講, 同條女玩落去
因為這會証明你好 on 9 , 請唔好話自己係香港人

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原帖由 khadafy 於 2008-4-6 19:20 發表
呢D野日日都發生無數次,
深圳女朋友,是用來調劑下就可以,
咪咁認真啦！
人地離鄉別井,是要搵錢旣.....
點會只是招呼一個人呀！...係咪！

呢的野經常發生架啦

咪咁認真啦！, my friend!

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原帖由 hongkonger 於 2008-4-7 16:31 發表


你可能看錯了吧
你這樣發問就証明你心中也不能確認
如果你愛你女朋友, 就應該相信她的話, 對嗎?
就是妳女友前一晚真的去開房
也可能沒有做愛, 頂多是吹吹簫, 抽抽水已而
大熱天時、孤男寡女, 你又不在,  ...

I like this answer - straight to the point :-)

The story doesn't make sense at all.  When he saw it already why so many questions?

Actually, she is a foot massge girl.  I am one of her customer.

I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living in Shenzhen. She is my 二奶.  I go to Shenzhen to see her twice a week.

As I have a wife and a son in Hong Kong, I always return to Hong Kong after seeing her (or sleeping with her).
I seldom stay in her home in Shenzhen overnight. That may give her chance to 偷食.

I am so fortunate that I saw her with another man last Friday. I have stopped giving her money and stopped relationship with her.

[ 本帖最後由 strange 於 2008-4-7 21:30 編輯 ]

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-6 17:59 發表
前天早上, 我打電話給深圳的女朋友, 她是做按腳的, 說我要過去找她, ...

Forget her la!

case No. N+1..............

深圳女朋友,是用來調劑下就可以,香港討論區J@uI4S"iB,~
咪咁認真啦

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-7 13:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl.  I am one of her customer.

I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living  ...

你太快同佢對質啦, 你慢慢問佢多o的睇吓佢點問你嘛   So you know much more. $5000 per month, too much

I also give her 5000 dollars a month ............... I go to Shenzhen to see her twice a week.

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$5000.- and go twice a week!
Well! $600- per night!
OK la!

[ 本帖最後由 hkoldguy2004 於 2008-4-8 02:36 編輯 ]

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl.  I am one of her customer.

I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living  ...

$5,000/month = Time Share at best

Theoretically, there is a monthly stipend threshold for every girl above which you can almost guarantee they will not risk blowing. That figure does vary from girl to girl but for sure it's not 5,000.

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl.  I am one of her customer.

I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living  ...

bro, u can have many shoots with gals in SZ for $5k

I would consider my personal safety if I were you, especially the time you met her!!

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl.  I am one of her customer.

I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living  ...

我認為呢條女一定會為你的離開, 傷心得流下一公升的眼淚
畢竟人非草木, 誰能對 RMB5000- 不留情感呢?

版主, 我提議 block 了這位  strange  師兄的 account
佢俾咁多禮物個囡囡, 仲加每個月 RMB5000-
嘩! 佢想我地以後食 咩?
嚴重影響我地的愛國心情


ps. 我只係講下


[ 本帖最後由 hongkonger 於 2008-4-8 10:15 編輯 ]

$5000.- and go twice a week!
Well! $600- per night!
OK la! [/quote]

Brother, he does not stay overnight mostly, so it is 600 per shot..NOT night..

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
As I have a wife and a son in Hong Kong, I always return to Hong Kong after seeing her (or sleeping with her).

可能無做愛, 純玩拍拉圖 ...... 千祈唔好答話係呀!!

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-7 21:21 發表
seldom stay in her home in Shenzhen overnight. That may give her chance to 偷食

brother, only if you are with her 24 hrs, they stiil have a chance to 偷食!

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原帖由 smbs06 於 2008-4-8 05:02 發表


$5,000/month = Time Share at best

Theoretically, there is a monthly stipend threshold for every girl above which you can almost guarantee they will not risk blowing. That figure does vary fr ...

I agree with this brother's analysis.  Since she is a semi-working girl, $5000 is not enough to privatize her.   $5,000 is time-sharing price range...  

Of course, even though you pay her a fortune, it does not mean that she is 100% loyal to you (either body and soul).  

The question you should ask yourself is that: could you still love her and enjoy staying with her?   have you talked with her face-to-face and tried to reach out a solution (e.g. say that you could continue only if she could commit 100% loyalty to you or otherwise ,you would leave.),  etc.  

I would say if the girl cares for you (and your $), she would say yes to you...  Then, you could still cool down and decide if you would continue (and also test if you could continue with her). Observe her for a few weeks and if you are suspicous of anything/caught her out (e.g. sudden inspection), then just leave..     

Of course, safety is a concern (both personal and $).

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原帖由 strange 於 2008-4-7 13:21 發表
Actually, she is a foot massge girl.  I am one of her customer.

I bought her many things, clothes, mobile phone, boots, jeans etc. I also give her 5000 dollars a month to contribute her living  ...

Thought you were just 天真. But now I thoink you are .....