It's all about open communication mate....99% of all sorts of problems are due to lack of open communication....when engaging in intimacy ...try to be abit flirty and womanish..and tell him ..that u dun quite like butt fark lor.....but during normal intercourse ...try squeeze ur vag...so that he will feel it more...
I like feet very much too..i love footjob....but i wont suck freshly painted toes....yuck...i be like sucking the chemicals in....tell him ...not to suck fresh ones...no good for health...if ur gona suck...suck em days later...neways...i dun like sucking feet... but i like lookin at em, massage em and smell em..especially the toes and heels..
hes very lucky to have a wife like u.....im envy