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原帖由 hyperdeath 於 2007-1-23 11:31 發表
On the next morning, it is rainy and freezing.  My mind cannot stop thinking of her when I drive my way to work.  Then I receive a message from 586...

"昨晚你走了之後,我很失落,我离開了酒店, ...

   這個感覺是最難受的, 一個信息 告訴你結果. 以後大家便是不認識的陌路人.

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原帖由 tmc300 於 2007-1-23 05:22 PM 發表
Why don't you just enjoy having sex with 586 even though she is sleeping with another guy.  You are also sleeping with 7W.  So, don't try to think of exclusive relationship with 586.  Think of it a ...

Brother tmc300.  Nice try.  You want to see a ship sinks to the seafloor?

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原帖由 vupoint 於 2007-1-24 05:25 AM 發表
I like to sympathize for your feeling and at the same time to congratulate you on the awakening of your life. Sometimes loss is not lost but gain. Think positive......brother.

Thank you Brother vupoint.  I will take your advice.

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原帖由 烈火 於 2007-1-23 06:49 PM 發表



   這個感覺是最難受的, 一個信息 告訴你結果. 以後大家便是不認識的陌路人.

一個故事終結係另一個故事開始  

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原帖由 hyperdeath 於 2007-1-23 11:31 AM 發表
That night, I cry in front of 7w.  I don't know how much she knows.  But one thing I am sure from there on, my promises should be given to this woman in front of me.

You already have a fantastic woman: 7w. Count your blessings and treat her well.

p.s. does 7w know you sleep over at 586? What kind of excuse did you use for not going home at night? I am curious how 7w can tolerate it. She must be a incredibly smart/loving wife!

bro,  you take care.

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原帖由 dennisp 於 2007-1-24 12:00 PM 發表


You already have a fantastic woman: 7w. Count your blessings and treat her well.  

p.s. does 7w know you sleep over at 586? What kind of excuse did you use for not going home at night? I am cu ...

Thank you Brother dennisp.  7w is a good wife with wisdom.

For the excuse...If you desperately want to stay out for several nights, you can become very imaginative.  I use the simple ones which are related to work.  I think many brothers here can give you good examples which are better than mine.

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What are the odds for you and 7w having dinner in the same restaurant at the same time as 586 & her guy?  If you want to get over 586, the easiest way is to find other girls to play around.  You can't find anyone to substitute 586 but find other beautiful girls will help to get your mind off of 586.
Can you tell me what attracts you so much about 586 that makes you sink so deep?  Is it physical attraction or what?

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Originally posted by vupoint at 2007-1-24 05:25 AM
I like to sympathize for your feeling and at the same time to congratulate you on the awakening of your life. Sometimes loss is not lost but gain. Think positive......brother.

Yes! Losting is Learning, U meet a wrong person at wrong place and wrong time, keep going to find the right person! God Bless U

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Originally posted by hyperdeath at 2007-1-22 11:22 AM
One week before Christmas eve, 586 tells me she is going to have a tour with her female friends during Christmas.  Sure I do not think she is telling the truth but I choose not to question.

On C ...

Bro Hyperdeath, I have same experience with U, I really know your feeling and hurt.  I think that 586 love u, but she still think about herself, everyone is selfish!!! Let her go cause U get a faimily right now, U will have many chance to get these problems before U quit this game, Hope u would get well soon!!!!!!!!!!!!

I guess when the feeling hits, it does not matter where this girl comes from.  We will still sink.


Bro, you are right!

Dear friend, just think for her and u'll understand why she chose this.

You are engaged, u cannot give her any long term promise. No matter how good u ar in compare with that guy, u cannot give 586 a future.All 586 can do, if she stay with u, is to enjoy the present and forget the future.

But that's not so for this guy, in her imagination there could be a "warm, happy family" that almost ALL mainland girls are still hoping for.甚麼永遠的避風港，溫馨的二人世界。。。

Furthermore, inside most mainland ladies they would think this warm family can be created by themselves: bear a baby and mother & child can make a warm family -- forget the husband, they ar just food coupons. U cannot give her a baby even if u ar willing to: he is illegal unless u marry her.

Also, my experience is that mainland girls don't like to say concretely that she is leaving u. They would do many things to make u leave them, but seldom directly fr their initiative.

This is the SMS my SH gf sent me:
我不要聽什麼思念的話。能不能永遠跟哥哥在一起，哥哥不能給我答案就趕快把我甩了吧！我太煎熬受不了了。

I answered her:
哪為什麼你又不把我甩了？

She didn't reply. Today she sent me msn just like nothing happened. This is that.

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原帖由 onemanjourney 於 2007-1-30 14:28 發表
Dear friend, just think for her and u'll understand why she chose this.

You are engaged, u cannot give her any long term promise. No matter how good u ar in compare with that guy, u cannot give  ...

Brother OMJ, thank you for your sharing.  I agree the part you have said about the reality of marriage in China.  But yet, every woman is different, I am not sure if all women response the same in a given situation.  I think you have more knowledge in women than I do.

Afterall, it is a story about sinking.

BTW, I really want to thank all brothers for your comments and support.  It is hard (almost impossible) to say no more playing and sinking in the future, but I learn that 7w is really the "dockyard" for me.

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It's good that you didn't marry 7w, otherwise the situation will be so complicated. Be a man, do something to protect your baby at least.

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原帖由 tennisman 於 2007-1-31 12:38 發表
It's good that you didn't marry 7w, otherwise the situation will be so complicated. Be a man, do something to protect your baby at least.

Brother tennisman, I don't get what you mean.  Is now 7w having my baby and I plan to spend my life with her.  If you are referring to 586, then yes, I think I am doing what you are suggesting.

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