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原帖由 doraemon7 於 2012-8-5 02:33 發表 
many comments here were so fake and we were requested to be a saint in those places.
It is a sweeping/over-generalised, if not totally unjustified, statement of yours to say they are 'fake'. There are quite some comments on bgs in certain threads, e.g. this very one, which tend to agree broadly 大致地 but you apparently do not subscribe to, but it is ungentlemanly to say they are fake just because they differ from your views. You have the perfect freedom to voice yours, including critical comments on bgs (and I always say, as long as they do not cause substantial harm to them), just as others do (their approving comments). And don't forget that bgs are not machines, but humans whose condition and performance can become unsteady at times. It would be perfectly understandable if you expressed your disappointment, but not accuse others of 'faking' comments, which is
unsporting in forum participation.
Plus, there are also diverse comments, good and bad, in
other threads, which can easily be seen if you bother to read them. Both sides have their space to say what they want to say. The conventional wisdom is:
Agree to differ.
No one has ever told you to be a saint. You have been advised to be more tactful by me, and to be more respectful to the subject of your criticism by others, on one occasion. On that occasion I chose not to stop what you had to say, as I thought advice would be enough, whether you would take it or not.
My role as forum moderator is to
moderate the forum, to ensure that different views are given a fair chance of expression here, to seek balance (e.g. by eliciting views from the other side if those on one side seem unduly overwhelming).
It is then up to the individual member/reader to make his own judgement, but not accuse others of faking, unless you have concrete proof.
If you keep saying they are fake comments, this amounts to saying I am not doing my job, which I resent.
As a forum member at the same time, I have my right to express my own views like you all. But I make sure that
mine won't be domineering in the least, and quite often, I refrain/abstain from giving views.
I hope you do understand what I say.
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