Hi, 我在 03 年綱上識了一個女仔,她是一個很迷人的女仔,
之後我哋就開始拍拖,,但我從來都唔知佢,屋企地址同電話,
就只有佢手提電話,但好景不常,佢以經4個多月冇揾我啦.

我每次打俾佢, 佢都唔接電話,直至今年一月佢用SMS 話
我知佢有男朋友,叫我唔駛揾佢,我真的難以接受,
感到好似給她欺騙了4 年感情,我己經打了好幾千個電話,
她都冇聽...我真的沒有辦法了,我的心很痛,如果佢取消電話,
我就真的完了...

4 年啦,點可以用幾個字就算..,然一個電話都唔接!!
我試個用佢電話号碼去問,但網路商唔肯講佢屋企
電話号碼,我想問大家我重有咩方法呢??

best regards

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-12 22:15 發表
Hi, 我在 03 年綱上識了一個女仔,她是一個很迷人的女仔,
之後我哋就開始拍拖,,但我從來都唔知佢,屋企地址同電話,
就只有佢手提電話,但好景不常,佢以經4個多月冇揾我啦.

我每次打俾佢, 佢都唔接電 ...

同人拍左四年拖都剩係知道人地個手提電話號碼h:

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-12 22:15 發表
Hi, 我在 03 年綱上識了一個女仔,她是一個很迷人的女仔,
之後我哋就開始拍拖,,但我從來都唔知佢,屋企地址同電話,
就只有佢手提電話,但好景不常,佢以經4個多月冇揾我啦.

我每次打俾佢, 佢都唔接電 ...

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同人拍左四年拖都剩係知道人地個手提電話號碼

呢件事都幾離奇

Hi, 我都知,我太就佢啦...每次問佢,佢都推三推四..
每次我都算數了事,結果換來今日的局面...

bye

請問個女係大陸定hk呢  ???????
如果係大陸  我估佢唔係正當人家囉.......
我睇你都唔係好大年幾.....
大把機會啦

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-13 00:13 發表
Hi, 我都知,我太就佢啦...每次問佢,佢都推三推四..
每次我都算數了事,結果換來今日的局面...

bye

會唔會佢其實已為人婦呢

Hi, 佢係外國長大回來的abc, 大家都30幾啦!!

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-13 11:27 發表
Hi, 佢係外國長大回來的abc, 大家都30幾啦!!

that's rare case... 我d Xbc朋友仔都唔係咁self-protective架喎...
or... she has never treated you as her "boyfriend" but just a "regular sp"???

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-13 11:27 發表
Hi, 佢係外國長大回來的abc, 大家都30幾啦!!

乜ABC唔可以結左婚咩

4 年 都 唔 知 對 方 一 點 基 本 野 ， 你 自 己 已 經 要 負 一 部 份 責 任 。

佢 態 度 非 常 明 顯 ， 不 如 找 過 另 一 個 ， 冇 謂 浪 費 時 間 。

don't waste your time furthermore.
Thus will only create yourself much more unhappiness.
4 years of marriage might gone into a waste let alone, u only know her by mobile number.
you are 30+ man. You should know what to do.
It doesn't matter whether she's ABC or CBC or whatever.
Her body language and attitude already reflects that all these time, you are only a part-time ( sorry for being blunt cos i couldn't find a suitable word ).

Hi all

其實我哋4年都好少見面,一般
都3個月先一次,因為佢係專業
人仕,而我因要照顧(癌症)家母,已經2年冇
做工啦..

我都有問佢有冇介意,佢答冇!
由於佢屋企好有錢,而我只是一
個普通打工仔, 當時我可以同佢一齊
我以經感到非常幸運,那管以後的事ar..

直至2個月前家母的離去,
我傷心過後,我以為可以重新投入工作,
和她有一個新的開始,
點知係換來另一個傷心開始...

Best regards

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-13 16:41 發表
Hi all

其實我哋4年都好少見面,一般
都3個月先一次,因為佢係專業
人仕,而我因要照顧(癌症)家母,已經2年冇
做工啦..

我都有問佢有冇介意,佢答冇!
由於佢屋企好有錢,而我只是一
個普通打工仔, 當 ...

sorry to hear that your mom has passed away...

Hi, Renzo

非常好的分析,真的多謝 ar..
我會用多一點時間,去忘記佢 !

不過佢用這個方法,來分手真的很殘忍...

That was very nice of you. thank you

Hi, all

最慘係永遠不知道答案ar....


best regards

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-13 17:42 發表
Hi, all

最慘係永遠不知道答案ar....


best regards

雖 然 很 殘 忍

個 答 案 係 佢 跟 本 從 來 都 冇 對 你 認 真 過

又 可 必 傷 心

Why do you want to know the answer ? can you handle the truth ? can you deal by yourself when you know the truth ?
Many ppl always want to find the answer why this and that... why you break off with me ? why you have an affair with others behind my back ? why why why ?
Look around the world. Take today appledaily headline for example. That young girl jumping off her building.
I see it as a stupid way to 'end' a relationships. She couldn't handle the peer pressure as well as , maybe , The truth. She is lucky to escape death. How very lucky. She should buy mark6 tonight.
Anyway, normally truth will only dampen your confidents and your moral furthermore, as nasty things might said or do. Forget about it. Stick to your life as it's still going on. Btw, if you handle it then you know what to do.

Maybe i can share a quote from somewhere i've read:
1st stage in life , you don't know , you don't know
2nd stage in life, you know, you don't know
3rd stage in life, you know, you know
4th stage in life, you don't know, you know
see which stage you are in..
There's no such things as best way to end a relationship or 殘忍 way to end it.
The ultimate goal is to END~!!!
As for me, the best way is still 殘忍 way thus, it can shorten the period for healing.
Hey, maybe 殘忍 way is the be

ps:

i'm sorry to hear about your mom incident.
I'm hope her loved son will wake up from his castle in the air and start living soon.
cheers~~

算罷啦

Hi, Renzo

今晚我約了一位基督教朋友食Dinner,
佢不繼叫我返教會,說神會安排一切,
我初時都很抗拒,我心想如果真的有神,
上天怎會安排,我的命運咁不如意呢??

但奇跡真的出現了,我向他借了
他的電話,我說這半年來,我不段
用不同的電話去找她,,她都沒接
聽,今次我肯定都不例外,電話接
通了,2秒過後她真的接了這電話,
一把半年沒聽過的聲音,我
真的呆了....

她滿口英語,彷忽己忘記我們己往
是用廣東話溝通的,我相信她的新boyfriend 係一個
外國人或 abc ,我直接問佢,有冇愛過我,
佢很不耐煩,及想收線的離開...

我感受到她很害怕,她冇可耐可地答 ‘冇’ !
之後佢整個人 '哭' 起來 !!
再裝不出之前的冷酷無情..
這一刻我知道佢係真心,愛過我的,我很感動及難過...>.<
這晚由8:00p.m.一直哭到9:15 p.m,佢再冇講任何說話..
而我就只在旁加以安靜佢情緒....

best regards

Hi Renzo

thank you very much..

well well well.... a big twist in the tale.
First of all,  would like to congrats you on your bravery and at the same time, you found the truth to your liking.
holding on the phone for more than an hour just by listening her crying shows you have the patience, but does that moved her heart ? we shall see.
As on your analysis that she likes you.
hmmmmm....... i quote you :

我相信她的新boyfriend 係一個
外國人或 abc ,我直接問佢,有冇愛過我,
佢很不耐煩,及想收線的離開...

since she has a new bf .Note that it's a new bf. Obviously she has an empty calender inwhich she didn't even bothered to find you back ??? or even give a slight contact or msn or sms or icq or whatever ???
I doubt very so.............................

Regarding on the crying part.... i dunno and i'm not in particular good shoes to access these.
Cos she might treat you as ONLY a best friend. Someone to confine with, Someone who can talk and shares woes with. Someone who can show your inner feelings without wearing a mask.
This are the kinda of friends that you will break infront of.
Maybe you are the guy ???
But put this clear, soul mates are strictly soul mates.
Not in any chance of turing into a relationships.

my 2pcs of mind

Hi, Renzo

在這一刻,我不知如何自處??
佢同我講佢個 boyfriend係屋企人介紹,
係 BANK做分析officer年薪過百萬,己經開始o左半年,
真係門當戶對,而我就只是一個待業人仕,就算有得做都係幾仟蚊..
點同人比ar....而現在的我只想同佢,
維持電話聯絡的關係...

bye

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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-14 15:45 發表
Hi, Renzo

在這一刻,我不知如何自處??
佢同我講佢個 boyfriend係屋企人介紹,
係 BANK做分析officer年薪過百萬,己經開始o左半年,
真係門當戶對,而我就只是一個待業人仕,就算有得做都係幾仟蚊..
點同人比ar. ...

咁你有無順手問埋佢....響呢四年內呢個係第幾個boyfriend  呢

Hi,

佢真係對佢愛得太易,
而我就愛得太遲 !!