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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-15 05:38 發表
Hi Renzo
我真的要放手?? 我好唔舍得ar...>.<
我只想同佢,維持電話聯絡,
的關係就夠啦...
I know this moment is a hard time for you, but trust me, keeping a telephone relation won't cure your pain. It will just turn the short term pain into a long one. You know, once you see her as your lover, and you call to find that she will only comminicate with you like a friend, you feel extremely bad becoz her attitude wil just remind you that your relationship with her has ended. Those days won't come back. This poor situtation which will only keep you in the black hole forever.
In any case, I don't think she wants to maintain the telephone relationship if she decide to stay with her currently bf.
Unless you see any possibility of her coming to you again, don't stay there! Get over it! When you meet another girl in the future, this new gf will lessen ur pain and eventually you will be able to 放低 this ex-gf
Also, when you accumulate more love experiences, or if you make closer observation to how a love realtionship end, these are very common cases, you will be okay (因為呢個世界有好多人倍我)
Good luck!
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