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原帖由 doubleOO 於 2013-5-14 11:47 發表
Sorry guy, I think you have ask yourself if you like to have a long term relationship with this young chic or not, If you do well I would say good luck because as you realized yourself, physically you ...

agree with Double OO ...  if she is ok on short term relationship, then just enjoy the moment with her...  the only worry is that she will like to turn it into a permanent one and you will have trouble gettin gaway from the relationship.

double 00.. remind me of the clubbing day in Singapore.

九又有痕,又吾舍得放棄, 明知自己玩得不久, 儘地去一誧, 吾洗以后心掛掛, 玩得几內就几內, 想多都無謂.

Denny, 我不記得有冇跟你去clubbing. sorry....

it has been some days. i didn't return her wechat texts for a week. gone for ever...? .is this the rational choice? i bought her a russian diamond, needed to repair a bit. now it is ready, i am struggling whether i should mail her, leave the gift at the counter, without seeing her, or really, mark her for massage and talk with her face to face and give her the gift....

when i talked to the manager @ the foot massage place, i had a strong feeling that nearly all the managers there knew my story (romance) with the lady. she did seem to "share" with all her friends. i feel so very exposed, as if all ppl there know what has been happening////

i should leave

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原帖由 messykitkit 於 2013-5-20 03:22 發表
it has been some days. i didn't return her wechat texts for a week. gone for ever...? .is this the rational choice? i bought her a russian diamond, needed to repair a bit. now it is ready, i am strugg ...

Well, sharing is expected. At least it means that she's a friendly person and got lots of friends in the massage workshop / others willing to care her.

Be frank...... what is in your heart? Leave? Or stay?

If you think that you're leaving, just save your ring for the coming ones. It means nothing at all to give her the ring and run away. Especailly, if, only if, she really likes / loves you. That will hurt her a lot. If she doesn't like you / just like your money, that will give wrong impression to her.

However, if you are going to stay, that will be completely another story. You should give it to her by hand and discuss. However, of cos, manage your risk wisely. Sinking is a must, but you should know how deep you can dive (how much shit you can afford). There's always a chance that the girl cheats you. Just if what do you believe.

If you just leave the ring and walk away, you might as well flew it in the garbage instead. It will be a total waste of time and money, she won't appreciated since she is not after your money in the first place, Face her and stay with her for one or two or may be longer, who knows.

我都同意得快活时多快活一下。。。

thanks so much for your advice in times of confusion.