根據《Sex Tips for Girls》一書作家Flic Everett的看法，現有感情若真是難以維繫，光是從第三者身上找尋慰藉，恐怕只會衍生出更多問題。你得好好想想，自己為什麼會陷入如此這般的境地？這是一個沒有標準答案的難題，所以如果你真是已經陷入其中、不是一時可以脫身，又或者根本不打算改變現狀、因為你求的只是一時刺激，那麼以下這些偷情守則你可得牢記。不管你找尋慰藉是因為什麼動機，無論你的感情究竟是出了什麼問題，既然決定發展地下情，就得罩子放亮，以免一個不小心……
除了挑選床品和技巧一流的對象，對方的嘴巴牢不牢靠，也是一個篩選標準。你要選擇的對象，應該是那種會把秘密帶進棺材裡的那一型。 Jane Wenham-Jones，是《Perfect Alibis—How to Have an Affair and Get Away with It》一書作者，同時也是力倡“外遇恐怖平衡”的兩性作家。她的書開宗明義的闡釋偷情之必要與應該遵守的法則原理。 “你和對方的關係像是坐翹翹板，為求絕對平衡，雙方都應握有彼此把柄，如此一來，誰都不敢輕易豁出去。”這樣的製衡目的是為了督促雙方都遵守遊戲規則，確保兩者最大利益。
it's a good article. pity if no one replies.
maybe, we're addicted to fast-food culture, not familir to long ones.
well, your options are constructive.
but, you're very lucky if you can meet a guy who fits three categories.
what if you really do, can you withdraw yourself?
have a look of #5 from your article ...
defraud marriage results in suspicion and scare.
compromise is the key in marriage.
when you really cannot stand the marriage anymore ...
devoice is the only solution.
of coz, people sometimes rather keep the marriage "in legal speaking" ..
but in fact, partically two individual bodies, that's an exception.
husbands and wives ...
try to step back, think he or she will be the one who support and accompany you for the rest of your lives.
afterall, what you dislike might not be really bother you that much.
why should we chop our arm in order to offset the itchy mosquito bite !!!
my sincere appology if i misinterpret your point of view.
作者: fatboy33 時間: 2007-9-18 09:04
good article. I am much sure what I should do now. 作者: Nacol001 時間: 2007-9-26 21:54 標題: 回復 #1 princess_f 的帖子
Dear Princess,
Would you stipulate the main theme again. In a precisely way.
