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§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 04:33     ¼ÐÃD: ¬ù·|BG

Any C-hing have experience dating a bg? and how long did it last? was it just for money?
§@ªÌ: def_lo    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 10:30

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Any C-hing have experience dating a bg? and how long did it last? was it just for money?
I'd advise just treat it as a dating with an ordinary girl.
What are you expecting when dating an ordinary girl?
How long will the dating with an ordinary girl last?
Will you pay an ordinary girl any money for the dating?

If, from the very beginning, you treat the BG as an ordinary girl and do whatever you will be do when dating with an ordinary girl, you'll definitely know what and how to do during a dating with BG.
§@ªÌ: kkleung    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 15:24     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 1# ªº©«¤l

1)Use a 'space phone card',i.e. the kind that you can buy from 71 or ok;
2)Food,drinks,hotel room...etc.,entertainment cost on your accout,no money lending whatsoever.

If the situation gets bad,flush your phone card down the toilet and forget her.
Hope this helps.
§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 17:02

Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?

For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look for money??? She works at a vegi +HJ SN.

Good advise thanks C-hing.
§@ªÌ: kotaroisaka    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 17:13

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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?

For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ...
Which vegi + HJ sauna, by the way?
§@ªÌ: gowentgone    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 17:30

nothing special , just dinner and ML afterward if the mood came
§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 18:37

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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?

For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ...
What is your expectation from her?

Get your answer first before you leap.   
§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 18:38

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1)Use a 'space phone card',i.e. the kind that you can buy from 71 or ok;
2)Food,drinks,hotel room...etc.,entertainment cost on your accout,no money lending whatsoever.

If the situation gets bad,fl ...
Very flexible!      
§@ªÌ: bbttorrent    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 19:10

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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?

For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ...
Not necessary for money, you should be able to tell - if you're not obsessed.  I definitely used a 'dedicated' #, in case relationship is getting too close or sour.  I would pay her one way or another, after ML.  Just that to let her know don't get too involved with the relationship.  Otherwise, I agree to treat her as the way you would treat your friend, or girl friend.
§@ªÌ: def_lo    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-22 23:01

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Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?

For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ...
Well, then treat it as a dinner gathering with a friend.
Will you give your friend any money for having dinner with you?
Of course, if you will have sex with her after the dinner, then it may be a bit different.
At that time you need to judge if your relationship with her will be influenced when money is being involved.
If you want to develop further with her then never ever let money intrude into the relationship.
Of course, like other c-hing said, if you don't want to develop further, perhaps money can give both of you the feeling that it is just a buy-sell relationship.
§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-23 00:49

If its just dinner and I am paying. How do I offer to pay her for her time? waht should I say?$1000?? She may be not contact me again if i offer to pay her.

If we ML later and I pay for everything such as hotel......, how much should I pay her? $2000??

I dont want not to tell which SN. I will report after next week.
§@ªÌ: def_lo    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-23 11:36

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If its just dinner and I am paying. How do I offer to pay her for her time? waht should I say?$1000?? She may be not contact me again if i offer to pay her.

If we ML later and I pay for everything  ...
Do you really want to pay her for the time she spends with you for dinner?

For the girl's perspective:
Why do you give me money for having dinner with you?
Do you treat me as a hooker?

From your perspective:
What's the reason for you to pay her for the time she spends with you for the dinner?
Do you treat her as hooker if you pay her for compensating the time she spends with you for dinner?
If you treat her just as a hooker, why do you pay her for the time she spends with you for the dinner?  
Why don't you pay her for having a good fxxk??!!
§@ªÌ: skipper99    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-23 21:03     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 11# ªº©«¤l

ha bro,  just remember there aren't no free lunch and free ride in this world.  you should make up your mind upfront if it is a "buy and sell" or  a "girl friend".  trust me i've been there
§@ªÌ: def_lo    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-23 23:13

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ha bro,  just remember there aren't no free lunch and free ride in this world.  you should make up your mind upfront if it is a "buy and sell" or  a "girl friend".  trust me i've been there
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§@ªÌ: BigY    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-23 23:46

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§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-24 00:28

Thank you brothers. You guys are the experts and make me look fxxkin dumb. I heard from other c-hings story about spy camera and then they want money from you otherwise they would post it on You Tube.

I will goto to dinner with her and won't pay her for her time. May be ML later. no money involve.

Report later.......

Would you date BG as your steady GF (long term gf)?
§@ªÌ: BigY    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-24 09:29     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 16# ªº©«¤l

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§@ªÌ: bbttorrent    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-24 23:36

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Thank you brothers. You guys are the experts and make me look fxxkin dumb. I heard from other c-hings story about spy camera and then they want money from you otherwise they would post it on You Tube. ...
As other chings said, just dinner is already a treat, and that shouldn't be any commitment, just relationship developing stage; or to develop a closer relationship to make it more joyful when ML.  In this case, I would later buy little gifts, or pay her more tips if you plan to re-visit her work place.  Tendering notes is too auspicious, neither of you would feel good.

Keep your mind open la!

Good luck!

p.s. do let us know your report.   Tkx in advance.
§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-25 17:51

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Exactly.   One have to "pay" it back in the coming future.   
§@ªÌ: BPL    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-25 18:24

Make it simple ...
Traet her as your friend
§@ªÌ: load    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-25 21:53

Another sinking boat!
§@ªÌ: ces    ®É¶¡: 2009-11-30 17:03

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Thank you brothers. You guys are the experts and make me look fxxkin dumb. I heard from other c-hings story about spy camera and then they want money from you otherwise they would post it on You Tube. ...
Not involving money is dangerous
§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-2 01:43

We agree to meet at Shamshuipo mtr to have dinner at Taipaidong. We walk a few minutes to the shop and she held my hand. We order food.........talked.......about things..........and we did do anything........but we went to knutford place to drink. She likes white wine so we opened a bottle and drink together. .......talked until 4am and she siad she doesn't want to go home......so we went to my place......openned another wine......talk more kisses kisses   ..........and she went home.

I am not going to talk about the food because c-hing only like to know what happened.

We didn't talk about ML. Just talked about things........I will meet her again next week.........

I remembered brother said to treat her like GF.
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§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-2 09:06

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We agree to meet at Shamshuipo mtr to have dinner at Taipaidong. We walk a few minutes to the shop and she held my hand. We order food.........talked.......about things..........and we did do anything ...
So sweet!    

Good luck to you!   
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§@ªÌ: kkleung    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-2 12:21     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 23# ªº©«¤l

Dont wanna be rude or mean or put you off here,but you have made a fatal mistake,c-hing.
Now she knows where you live.
Like Ces hing said:no money involvement is very dangerous.
Think abt how many men/dicks she has to treat everyday.
Back to life,back to reality my friend.
Good luck.
§@ªÌ: BigY    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-2 19:31

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§@ªÌ: aero169169    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-2 20:03

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§@ªÌ: civilian    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-3 00:26

I echo most ching's invaluable comments. If BG meets you outside their work, then its their personal time. If you have good feelings about her, then do and say things that make them feel they are respected like any girl. You would feel good too.
§@ªÌ: BigY    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-3 13:34     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 29# ªº©«¤l

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§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-4 11:02

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Dont wanna be rude or mean or put you off here,but you have made a fatal mistake,c-hing.
Now she knows where you live.
Like Ces hing said:no money involvement is very dangerous.
Think abt how many  ...
Agreed.  It is not a good idea to bring BG back to his home.   
§@ªÌ: bbttorrent    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-4 23:40

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Dont wanna be rude or mean or put you off here,but you have made a fatal mistake,c-hing.
Now she knows where you live.
Like Ces hing said:no money involvement is very dangerous.
Think abt how many  ...
I would rather say beware...  if you think about # of dicks, I guess you would probably never stray....
§@ªÌ: manyiusubaru    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-6 01:36

ok... c hing;  be honest to yourself, do u love her ? or just want to have fun ?
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§@ªÌ: bbttorrent    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-11 22:12

Seems not much development these days.  C hing, how the story goes?
§@ªÌ: sxhk    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-12 03:36

For me, whenever a BG said she kind of likes me.... I ran away.... I didn't want to get involve in any relationship until last week....
I found a nice BG in Shanghai, nothing happened that night, and I am not sure anything will happen later.  But it is a funny feeling, OMG.
§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-12 09:39

Being a human being, it is extremely difficult to get rid of "temptation".   
§@ªÌ: extensive123    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-12 09:45

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§@ªÌ: kkleung    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-12 11:58     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 39# ªº©«¤l

May I suggest a few things:
1)Never let her know any details about yourself apart from your last name,use a fake/artistic one,such as Peter,John,Kwok-Keung,Kwok-wah...etc;
2)Never let your dick(desire) takes over your head;Keep in mind that all BGs are 'professional women';
3)Know your way home,the one who is waiting for you at home is the one you should cherish.

My personal opinion.
KK
§@ªÌ: sxhk    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-12 14:59

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May I suggest a few things:
1)Never let her know any details about yourself apart from your last name,use a fake/artistic one,such as Peter,John,Kwok-Keung,Kwok-wah...etc;
2)Never let your dick(desi ...
Thank you, man.  1 and 2 are goodpoints.  Point 3 is a bit tricky for me. The one I love keeps a distantfrom me (like 10+ time zones away). The one that is waiting for me hurt mebadly in the past and I don't think I could get back to the relationship. Sothere you go. I am constantly looking for some fun but afraid to get into anyserious relationship again.
I don't wantto hurt anyone, nor to be hurt. So I constantly run away from gals who saidthey like me¡K

§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2009-12-13 09:50

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May I suggest a few things:
1)Never let her know any details about yourself apart from your last name,use a fake/artistic one,such as Peter,John,Kwok-Keung,Kwok-wah...etc;
2)Never let your dick(desi ...
kk hing,
These are good points for dealing with "professional women",
especially useful to the c-hing who has married, with a sweet
family.
  


§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-14 02:02

ching,

Sorry for not updating with progress. I've been busy with her because she took two weeks living with me. It was like married life, she was like a maid during the day and sex worker at night. She BJ and ML everynight. she didn't ask for money nor she accepted any money when i offered to her.
May be will see her again...........................she resumed working.
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§@ªÌ: Manso    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-14 11:08

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Well, then treat it as a dinner gathering with a friend.
Will you give your friend any money for having dinner with you?
Of course, if you will have sex with her after the dinner, then it may be ...
Agree!  For dinner no need to pay her no matter you treat her as friend or BG.  Of course you need to pay the rest after dinning.

If you ML with her after dinner or during her working hours, I suggest you to pay at the first time unless she refused to accept.  All BGs are working for money & money is their incentive.
§@ªÌ: aero169169    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-14 11:31

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Agree!  For dinner no need to pay her no matter you treat her as friend or BG.  Of course you need to pay the rest after dinning.

If you ML with her after dinner or during her working hours, I  ...
Manso C-hing,

Totally agree with you ! You seem to be very experienced in this.

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§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-20 23:49

She cain called me today. We chat a bit and then she said she miss me. She want to see me when she is not working during weekdays. I asked if she can give up her bg job and work in sales or office work. She said she need to money to support her living expenses.
C-Hing, any advise? end the relationship? I am not experienced in dating a bg??
§@ªÌ: Manso    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-23 14:56

Hotel60 CHing,

You better ask the girl what she is expected.  Money or love!

I have twice such experience for sharing, one sucessful & one failure.  Both girls claimed the reason to be USB is due to difficulty of finding a proper job in HK. The sucessful one (now became my very good friend) listen to my advice, gave up her USB career a year ago & went to study tour escort (I support the study & examination fees).  After obtaining the tour escort license, she is now working in a tourist company earning very low & unstable income (around $4-6k per month on average).  You can imagine how bad/tough the conditions comparing to the average income of a not so "hot" usb (around $1XXXXX - 2XXXX).  Despite this, she told me she is very happy at present & don't want to go back to the olden days.

The uncessful case (the one I am still sunken), after hearing my advice had tried several attempts to find a proper job.  After learning the average salary is 5K to 6K, she abandon the thought & now still working as USB.

My other advice is - don't step in and pull out your leg if you havn't start yet!  Good Luck La!
§@ªÌ: ¥Õ¿ß¨à    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-23 15:03

My 'lunch box' many many years ago:
she speculated in the stock market and earned two flats in s uccesion, and went once to Australia to run a 'fingerpress centre'.
Now retired and enjoying life by speculating in the stock and property markets.
§@ªÌ: BPL    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-23 17:36

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May I suggest a few things:
1)Never let her know any details about yourself apart from your last name,use a fake/artistic one,such as Peter,John,Kwok-Keung,Kwok-wah...etc;
2)Never let your dick(desi ...
Agree with kkleung ...
We must know the way to go home ... Although everything is so attractive outside  ^-^
§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-23 19:11

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Hotel60 CHing,

You better ask the girl what she is expected.  Money or love!

I have twice such experience for sharing, one sucessful & one failure.  Both girls claimed the reason to be USB is du ...
Manso Hing,
Thanks for telling your experiences.  
It really depends on one's own expectation,
and it's extremely difficult to choose one way in between.  
In other words, there is no 100% perfection.   

§@ªÌ: Manso    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-24 10:52

Fully agree!  Thanks for the reply.
§@ªÌ: flexcondom    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-29 04:13

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§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2010-1-30 15:45

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of cause need $$$, no free lunch you know!!!
Agreed.   
To decide what your expectation is,
try to achieve your target and have fun.   
§@ªÌ: flexcondom    ®É¶¡: 2010-2-24 02:30

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§@ªÌ: SCWT    ®É¶¡: 2010-2-24 11:00

dating bg should be fun as i never tried before, but also a dangerous situation if see ppl you know on outside...
i like ching flexcondom saying take them to his home , must be an exciting and fun thing to do ...
§@ªÌ: flexcondom    ®É¶¡: 2010-2-24 22:24     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 58# ªº©«¤l

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§@ªÌ: yellowhite    ®É¶¡: 2010-2-24 23:02

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§@ªÌ: robby    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-15 21:34

Problem is if your BG friend is beautiful (Bernice Liu type), then it is easy to fall into sinking ship.And seem to lead a normal life, very hard to not think about going further.
§@ªÌ: fresh6969    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 07:03

Thanks to the advice of brothers here, I recovered from my sinking ship. Last year, I met a bg who worked in a high class place. She is very beautiful, a bit like Joey Yung but with very nice body (33C, 22 33) and about 5 ft 6 tall, around 25 years old. After visiting her once and getting a nice hj, always think about her. So I visit her twice a week and within a month, we met outside in hotel to do hj. The sessions got very intimate, and we started kissing. Then I started to lick her cunt and the juice was so nice. Then we have sex without a condom. She was providig a great girl friend experience. Eventually, our sessions ended up in her flat (very nicely decorated!) - but I still paid her for each session. She never refused. Then we started dating, dinners, movies etc... It got a a point where I wanted to leave my wife and start a new life with her. BUT, i did the maths. I would lose many millions $$$ if i divorced. Also, at the same time, I watch a movie and a guy married a whore. His friends keep laughing at him "He married a whore!!" It suddenly hit me- could she be doing thi with other men? How many dicks has she sucked? Eventually, I pulled my head from the cloud and realise what i was doing! I am glad of that movie and Excel! Thinking of it now, I am glad i never left my wife. The problem with a bg are: 1 - they have a background - could they have been abused? are they well educated? 2 - most are associated with triad. would you want to have dinner with her friends/triads? 3 - will sex mean anything to her? Even the last time i saw her, her sex was still very fake, face moaning .... Lucky, i folllowed advice of brothers - never give her my full name, and also my rechargeable SIM card is now in the dustbin somewhere.



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§@ªÌ: derrick328    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 09:12

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2 - most are associated with triad.
this is an overgeneralisation.
§@ªÌ: smanjoeho    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 10:57

i also hv this experience.....
about 5 or 6 yrs ago
i hv meet that bg at one of TST sn....she face not too beauty,body figure is ok about 5'6  about 27yrs old..
she is my cup of tea...and the most important thing is ....local bg...
i strated my sinking ship..i meet her 2 times a weeks...and after few month we dated at hotel for ML and i hv paid her 1k for 1q....she knew my hobby...so she always wears black c and high heel ML with me....i feel so happy for many time ML with her....
for now she leave me..coz i can't afford to paid for her ......
in conclude.....bg only love your $$$ not u

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§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 11:15

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Thanks to the advice of brothers here, I recovered from my sinking ship. Last year, I met a bg who worked in a high class place. She is very beautiful, a bit like Joey Yung but with very nice body (33 ...
At the end, one has to be back to reality.     
§@ªÌ: seven_cheung    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 12:42     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 67# ªº©«¤l

But also have a new guys boarding on the sinking ship everyday.......like me
§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 13:40

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But also have a new guys boarding on the sinking ship everyday.......like me
Retreat whenever you would face with danger/difficulty.  
§@ªÌ: fresh6969    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 21:49

No kidding she looked like this.
I sometimes want to go back to the sauna to visit her but scared she might 'mark' me to her triad friends, which i sure she has.
§@ªÌ: fresh6969    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 21:51

But the feeling was good at that time, so I always keep the good memories. Chings, becareful before you sink too deep.
And check your blood afterwards to get the ok you didnt catch any diseases. Licking cunt is very exciting at the time but
thinking now, it is so dangerous.
§@ªÌ: DaiLiu    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 22:34     ¼ÐÃD: ¦^´_ 62# ªº©«¤l

Thank you for sharing your experience.  Sounds like you had a good experience and managed to get out before bad things happen.

I am puzzled by your generalizations which I think are unfair.  1)  Doesn't everyone have a background?  Obviously BG don't come from middle/upper class social strata but why would you think that they are all abused somehow?  Don't forget, to many of them, this is just a job and this is their way of making money.  2)  I don't get how most are connected with triads.  I am sure most, if not all, saunas are associated somehow for protection and other reasons.  But the BGs themselves?  Seems a bit far fetched to me.  Not to mention that in this time and age, most of the BGs are doing this job voluntarily.  I am sure these things are true for some of the BGs but to broadly categorize and label all of them seems highly unfair to me.
§@ªÌ: fresh6969    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-17 23:59

I think you are right - some are quite normal and have no connections to the dark side. Some lead a normal life too - their parents think they work in a normal spa.
I hope my bg will find a happy life :-)  She deserves it.
§@ªÌ: chxxg123456    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-18 00:54

take her tele no.
§@ªÌ: hotel60    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-21 23:58

some very good advices.........but not all girls are connected to the triad. The only money they pay is the manager so they get more work.......
§@ªÌ: dayafterday    ®É¶¡: 2010-3-23 20:01     ¼ÐÃD: BG

THIS IS A NEVER ENDING STORY,LIFE IS SHORT,DO ANYTHING WE LIKE,BUT WE MUST HAVE A DEADLINE,
NOTHING IS RIGHT,NOTHING IS WRONG...............
§@ªÌ: toystory147    ®É¶¡: 2010-4-16 14:35

After reading those posts by chings with or without experience in dating with bg, I found it very interesting and exciting (especially cunt licking ). For chings who have family, this bg dating is very special and tempting cos they need to hide all their telephone and sms history from their wife and tell a lot of lies in order to arrange dating and the afterwards activities. Successful datings made chings to do that again and again provided that it doesn't cost too much.  Sometimes ching may meet good hearted bg who just want to make friend and make life more interesting but sometimes things go in the other way especially chings who are rich. They may face money lending problem from bg who may have a hundred reasons to do so.
For those chings who read this post and are now on the sinking ship, do enjoy what you are having but do make you mind clear and smart in order to protect yourself and your family (if any).
§@ªÌ: beegees    ®É¶¡: 2010-4-17 09:32

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§@ªÌ: derrick328    ®É¶¡: 2010-5-11 10:56

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They are purely seeking for money & stupid guy to look after & caring only

absolutely no love, no sense of caring of u at all
after they success
they will kick u ass out of the picture. : ...
Absolutely agreed. We need to find my background information for that particular BG that you like and probably get some information from their good friends who got a big mouth. Sometimes they will tell you something you won't get directly from the BG that you like. It will wake you up and clear your way of thought! As an old slang said 'To know her in and out, winning 100 times as you strike' Good luck
§@ªÌ: boot_boot    ®É¶¡: 2010-5-15 13:39

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They are purely seeking for money & stupid guy to look after & caring only

absolutely no love, no sense of caring of u at all
after they success
they will kick u ass out of the picture. : ...
Ask oneself and try to get the answer(s):
Why they love you?   

If one could not figure out the answer(s),
one would better withdraw or retreat as early as possible.   
§@ªÌ: fresh6969    ®É¶¡: 2010-6-3 02:34

Derrick. You has some experince to tell?
I still think of my bg so I visit last week. Give me black face and bad massage. No airplane - waste $600. They are for money so ching be careful.
§@ªÌ: fresh6969    ®É¶¡: 2010-6-5 16:20

Ching - I am sinking with a new BG! This one also nice, doesn't charge for making love. Only 3 weeks with her and sinking very fast. Is she real or is she fake? She has lots of money, own flat and car.
§@ªÌ: derrick328    ®É¶¡: 2010-6-6 00:23

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Did you try "wet kiss" with her.  Feel her feeling.
but wet kiss is still no strong indication of real love, at most only
liking you and accepting you.
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but wet kiss is still no strong indication of real love, at most only
liking you and accepting you.
Very true indeed!
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