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作者: 大愛男 時間: 2007-1-12 00:29 標題: 是不是沒有將來

我女朋友好喜歡我, 我地都幾年啦, 最近佢身邊好多朋友結婚, 令我去唸我地o既將來 ...

我家庭負擔好重, 點重唔方便講, 但真係唔可以俾到d 咩佢 ... 佢又唔會跟我同屋企人一齊住爛屋 ... 我又唔可以掉低屋企唔理... 我地係咪冇將來 ... ?

佢唔知我點唸, 話佢知都冇用, 一講就只有一個結論, 就係冇將來, 咁仲係埋一齊做咩 ...

其實, 佢同我都一齊唸過下呢個問題, 但當然冇好認真咁唸d 細節 ... 但最終佢意願係搬出來住, 覺得一齊挨應該冇咩問題 ... 但真係冇問題嗎, 佢唔會明, 只知呢家一齊好開心 ... 將來o既野冇人知...

我係咪唸得太多..? ... 好唔好俾佢知我唸法? 但一攤出來講, 我覺得就只有分開 ... 我唔介意單身, 但佢仲好需要我, 依賴我... 攤出來講我唸唔到有咩好處... 但近排真的成日唸將來, 我唔想拖住一個女仔咁耐 ...

作者: kkwong7606 時間: 2007-1-12 09:27

I believe you are really thinking too much. If she really love you, she should understand your problems, and share with you or work it out with you.

If you both still happy together why don't just keep going and enjoy it.

作者: allure 時間: 2007-1-12 11:44

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原帖由 kkwong7606 於 2007-1-12 09:27 AM 發表
I believe you are really thinking too much. If she really love you, she should understand your problems, and share with you or work it out with you.

If you both still ...

agree with kk...

besides, if you do tell her, it is a sign of showing her that you're seriously considering sharing the rest of your life with her... if she loves you, she'll be touched and i'm pretty sure... she'll work it out with you!!!

since you've not told her anything, what are you expecting from her??? you want her to come over to you and said.. you're her man and she'll follow you wherever you go??? come one... she's a girl after all...

don't think too much...
anyway... i guess u'r not that old and no need to rush for getting married la!!!

作者: kenny01 時間: 2007-1-12 15:38

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原帖由 大愛男 於 2007-1-12 12:29 AM 發表
我女朋友好喜歡我, 我地都幾年啦, 最近佢身邊好多朋友結婚, 令我去唸我地o既將來 ...

我家庭負擔好重, 點重唔方便講, 但真係唔可以俾到d 咩佢 ... 佢又唔會跟我同屋企人一齊住爛屋 ... 我又唔可以掉低屋企唔理 ...

可唔可以先答,點解開個大愛男account再問呢個問題先呀

作者: 小丫環 時間: 2007-1-12 20:41

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原帖由 大愛男 於 2007-1-12 00:29 發表
我女朋友好喜歡我, 我地都幾年啦, 最近佢身邊好多朋友結婚, 令我去唸我地o既將來 ...

我家庭負擔好重, 點重唔方便講, 但真係唔可以俾到d 咩佢 ... 佢又唔會跟我同屋企人一齊住爛屋 ... 我又唔可以掉低屋企唔理 ...

有壓力之下o既感情, 唔會有結果!!

作者: 大愛男 時間: 2007-1-12 20:44

you guys are right ... i may be thinking too much ... maybe just ask her to marry later la... u know, in the year of "pig", there are so many marriage event ...

作者: allure 時間: 2007-1-12 20:59

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原帖由 大愛男 於 2007-1-12 08:44 PM 發表
you guys are right ... i may be thinking too much ... maybe just ask her to marry later la... u know, in the year of "pig", there are so many marriage event ...

please bear in mind... marriage isn't something that people do and u do....
it is a decision that u make for 2 persons' lives...

作者: kawdya 時間: 2007-1-12 21:08

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原帖由 大愛男 於 2007-1-12 12:29 AM 發表
我女朋友好喜歡我, 我地都幾年啦, 最近佢身邊好多朋友結婚, 令我去唸我地o既將來 ...
我家庭負擔好重, 點重唔方便講, 但真係唔可以俾到d 咩佢 ... 佢又唔會跟我同屋企人一齊住爛屋 ... 我又唔可以掉低屋企唔理 ...

你唔想拖住佢係件好事，如果覺得大家一齊會沒將來，想分開甘就越快越好拖得越耐只會加深對方對你嘅恨意。但系你同樣好自私，你無將自己想法同佢講，甘樣對佢亦唔公平，兩個人係埋一齊一定要讓對方知道自己嘅想法，單方面去付出係無辦法長久。畢竟中國人嘅生活唔同外國人，沒可能掉低個屋企唔理。同時你都唔好比自己太大壓力，平民百姓嘅生活就係甘，一個家庭要靠兩個人去維持，除非你收入好高，如果唔係就要兩個人一齊捱世界，不過世事難料，可能你同佢結婚之後會更加努力工作，好快會過上好日子咯。祝你好運！！！

作者: wyt 時間: 2007-1-12 21:48

Don't thinking too much, at least she's still love you.

作者: 大愛男 時間: 2007-1-14 20:50

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原帖由 kawdya 於 2007-1-12 09:08 PM 發表

你唔想拖住佢係件好事，如果覺得大家一齊會沒將來，想分開甘就越快越好拖得越耐只會加深對方對你嘅恨意。但系你同樣好自私，你無將自己想法同佢講，甘樣對佢亦唔公平，兩個人係埋一齊一定要讓對方知道自 ...

你講得好好 ... 但我唸好日子, 有排都未輪到我 ... ... 呢件事上我係自私, 冇俾佢知我唸法. 但我知佢知我點唸後一定會好唔開心, 我唔想咁o者 ... 我仲搵緊機會同佢坦白 ... 佢一定要知我唸法先得!

作者: kawdya 時間: 2007-1-14 22:48

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原帖由 大愛男 於 2007-1-14 08:50 PM 發表

你講得好好 ... 但我唸好日子, 有排都未輪到我 ... ... 呢件事上我係自私, 冇俾佢知我唸法. 但我知佢知我點唸後一定會好唔開心, 我唔想咁o者 ... 我仲搵緊機會同佢坦白 ... 佢一定要知我唸法先得!

送你一個字——快，勇敢D踏出你嘅第一步。結果大家未必開心，一定要做到無愧於心。

作者: kkwong7606 時間: 2007-1-15 13:16

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原帖由 大愛男 於 2007-1-14 08:50 PM 發表

你講得好好 ... 但我唸好日子, 有排都未輪到我 ... ... 呢件事上我係自私, 冇俾佢知我唸法. 但我知佢知我點唸後一定會好唔開心, 我唔想咁o者 ... 我仲搵緊機會同佢坦白 ... 佢一定要知我唸法先得!

Talk with her and share your thinking.

And marriage is NOT the only choice, lot more things can be done

作者: jason436 時間: 2007-1-25 15:50

我来给你顶一下,我顶顶顶!!

作者: luoyang 時間: 2007-1-25 20:29

I believe you are really thinking too much. If she really love you, she should understand your problems, and share with you or work it out with you

作者: 金屬狂人-Ⅱ 時間: 2007-1-25 21:07

試吓同你女友討論吓啦...無謂將所有的壓力攬上身喇...
其實2個人喺埋一齊，除咗開心事一齊分享之外，有難題2個人一齊去分擔都係一種溝通方法...

作者: LEIF 時間: 2007-2-21 15:51

我唸如果你女朋友真係愛你，，，甘她無會行開。。。

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