thanks eddich for the info...unfortunately, didn't realized how early hard rock cafe closes...missed ops.
Anyway, befriended a local and he took me to sanur and an area who lots of these activities are centralized. But it is usually catered to the locals...it's pretty nasty so didn't bother. Another area, more like motel/hotel/massage place. These houses are marked by house number+XXX so you can tell which one to check out and their know your purpose. Didn't bother...again, it seems to cater to local. Went to a Karaoke place not far from HRC. You can pick through fishbowl. Fun with the girls. Apparently, locals are not allow in here so my "guide" had to wait outside. Tax+tips+sleepover was about 900hkd.
Visited another bar in kuta...across from the place where the bomb went off a couple years ago. Lots of local and japanese women. Jump onto the dance floor and those interested will dance with you and the rest is history.
Met some jap ladies. Apparently Bali to them is like thailand to jap men. So, after a few drinks, and blah blah, ended at her place. Everything was mutual so no cost.
Beside all this Bali actually is a nice place to visit.