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作者: verywet    時間: 2007-5-9 08:32     標題: 我真的沒有用嗎？

我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我已盡了力，自己平日返工都係食麵包。我對佢忠心一片，從來無去過滾，我只想好好地去愛一個女人，點解咁難？點解香港無女人真係可以有情飲水飽，行海灘，唱情歌，一定要買野買野買野才會滿足，天呀？What can I do? HELP!!!

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作者: Naive    時間: 2007-5-9 14:34

Your girl friend has no problem. She shows what she wants. The problem is that you find a wrong person. You need to find a person to live with your preferred life style. So don't complain with your girl friend. Why don't you broaden your choices to mainland China ? Girls in mainland China respect men more. If you insist on choosing Hong Kong girls. Then it is your choice and do not make any complain.

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作者: kenny01    時間: 2007-5-9 15:52

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原帖由 Naive 於 2007-5-9 14:34 發表
Your girl friend has no problem. She shows what she wants. The problem is that you find a wrong person. You need to find a person to live with your preferred life style. So don't complain with your ...

呢位哥仔....自己搵唔到,要返大陸搵,....就唔好"坤"人陪你啦....

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作者: 色即是空    時間: 2007-5-9 16:22

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 08:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

你問下你自己究竟鍾意佢D 乜先

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作者: Naive    時間: 2007-5-9 17:25

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原帖由 kenny01 於 2007-5-9 07:52 發表


呢位哥仔....自己搵唔到,要返大陸搵,....就唔好"坤"人陪你啦....

版主大哥，我在 HK 揾到一件， 後來在 "艱難大" 離婚，回港後直接去 祖國找 "心頭好"，心頭好"在我初回港 一年多沒有工作時仍肯跟我，算是咁哪。祖國 地大物博， 就是人多，"港胞在祖國仍有經濟优勢，選擇多，pretty face , younger and better physical body. 都是正經人家，大學、硕士 & 博士也有，談吐得体有禮，你修養少一些也看不起你 。版主大哥，衹是看見眾兄弟在港受無知港女氣，希望堤供多一些 Choices to 眾兄弟, 唔係"坤"人陪我呀 。有好嘢 一定要益兄弟

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作者: Naive    時間: 2007-5-9 17:52

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 00:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

最看不起這些女生，物質至上，自己沒本事但對愛她的人諸多要求，雖然沒本事也可以諸多要求。最重要是有人肯受。

物以類聚，和我交往的女生很有獨立性，你想請她吃一顿飯也難。

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作者: 大波妹    時間: 2007-5-10 00:29

哥哥, 你果位女朋友, 港女嚟喎, 一睇就知...唔好傻落去啦, 你俾佢咁洗法, 邊有錢淨?

係愛你, 係真心真意愛你, 係唔會捨得要你買嘢, 大家儲錢結婚架

信我啦...

我男朋友之前冇嘢做, 我同佢捱, 而家佢搵到嘢做, 我冇諗過要佢買啲咩俾我, 淨係想快啲儲到錢結婚開鋪頭咋

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作者: 不平凡人    時間: 2007-5-10 01:11

樓主...係你唔好彩姐....
hk其實都有好女仔...
你e+首要係諗下你同e+個gf有冇將來...

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作者: Erin    時間: 2007-5-10 10:15

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原帖由 不平凡人 於 2007-5-9 17:11 發表
樓主...係你唔好彩姐....
hk其實都有好女仔...
你e+首要係諗下你同e+個gf有冇將來...

I also agree the problem is whether you still love your gf and see a future. The problem is basically with the particular individual whom you are dating, and remember you are not dating all the girls from mainland verses all the girls from Hong Kong as a group.

[ 本帖最後由 Erin 於 2007-5-10 02:18 編輯 ]

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作者: fuckallday    時間: 2007-5-11 05:24

Have you raised this issue with your gf? Maybe she doesn't know your feeling. I have a friend who had similar situation as you with his wife, i.e. she only spent his money and kept her own salary. Thus, my friend had to pay for the mortgage, car payment, groceries, etc. Nonetheless, after they discussed the issue, his wife understands him more. Because of the extravagent style of my friend's spending (only goes for the best), she thought that he didn't mind to pay for everything. Therefore, you should talk to your gf to see whether she would change to suit you.

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作者: caemac    時間: 2007-5-11 22:19

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 08:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

努力以赴!

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作者: 舞神    時間: 2007-5-12 10:33

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 08:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

算我講得難聽 d ,係您自己 on 9 .
真正愛情係要互相付出及體諒.

"窮" 字同 "富" 係無定義,係睇您自己滿唔滿足
,您月入二萬幾其實都叫唔錯,係佢唔足姐,就算
您月入二十,佢咪又係一Ｑ 樣多多要求,名牌變名錶 , 歐洲變太空 , 新車變遊艇,幾百蚊一餐變幾千蚊一餐, 幾時可以完呀 !

忠心係用來形容 d  9 , 您係" 人" 離 嫁 !  

淨係有情飲水飽係唔得嫁,您自己日日返工都要食麵包,資本注意社會,物質係必須要嫁,量力而為就ok.

天呀？
您條 on 9 仔 醒未呀 ?
唔好再問 What can I do?

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作者: G-turn    時間: 2007-5-12 12:43

港女 No Way!!

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作者: verywet    時間: 2007-5-13 06:32

Thank you 各位大佬的勸言,其實我自己也心中有數,因為我女朋友以前很多人追,又有醫生又律師又有錢仔,我都唔知點解最後會選我,所以覺得負了佢.

其實我也是長年累月大陸香港往來工作,識過很多好"正"年輕大陸妹,佢地好主動敢愛敢恨,中意你就送上門都無問題.不過,我一想到女朋友放棄咁多比我有料d男人唔跟,我就即時懸崖勒馬,心無邪念了.

現在我只是想,我是不是負了佢,如果我唔同佢一齊,佢真的可以搵個有錢人嫁,我就索性去大陸搵個阿四來服侍下我,大家都舒服.

不過,都幾年了,我愈來愈懶,唔想去想唔想去面對,過得一日就係一日,由天去決定吧.我知我再唔發達佢都會走,算了,算了,算了

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作者: hkgodzilla    時間: 2007-5-13 11:42

She is not your cup of tea.


Find another one....

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作者: 不平凡人    時間: 2007-5-13 13:05

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-12 22:32 發表
Thank you 各位大佬的勸言,其實我自己也心中有數,因為我女朋友以前很多人追,又有醫生又律師又有錢仔,我都唔知點解最後會選我,所以覺得負了佢.

其實我也是長年累月大陸香港往來工作,識過很多好"正"年 ...

佢快樂而你又快樂既話..點解唔放手???

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作者: kenny01    時間: 2007-5-13 15:58

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-13 06:32 發表
Thank you 各位大佬的勸言,其實我自己也心中有數,因為我女朋友以前很多人追,又有醫生又律師又有錢仔,我都唔知點解最後會選我,所以覺得負了佢.

其實我也是長年累月大陸香港往來工作,識過很多好"正"年 ...

我覺得佢係愛你既....

你講既經驗我都有個過
活響資本主意既影響下
又有幾多做得到無所求

總之....你只要做自己唔會後悔既事
去或留都唔係太大問題

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作者: 金屬狂人-Ⅱ    時間: 2007-5-13 21:34

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-13 06:32 發表
Thank you 各位大佬的勸言,其實我自己也心中有數,因為我女朋友以前很多人追,又有醫生又律師又有錢仔,我都唔知點解最後會選我,所以覺得負了佢.

其實我也是長年累月大陸香港往來工作,識過很多好"正"年 ...

祝樓主早日解脫

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作者: fuckallday    時間: 2007-5-14 05:40

If there were so many people dated your gf b4, you should ask yourself why she picks u. Maybe the complaints that sje fires at you are just a way to encourage you to work harder? I still think you should talk openly with you rather than having to guess and letting a spike to grow in your heart.

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作者: Erin    時間: 2007-5-14 07:31

well, if you decide to stay with her in the long run, you should discuss this issue with her. Keeping this "secret" to yourself will is like the accumulation of unsatisfactory feelings towards her, and this is not healthy

[ 本帖最後由 Erin 於 2007-5-13 23:32 編輯 ]

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作者: Promise    時間: 2007-5-15 10:01

Sorry to say she has no heart. It is a waste of time & money to go along with someone who has no heart to you. Pls be cautious. I had some bad
experience.

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作者: 細摩    時間: 2007-5-15 12:24

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 08:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

路係自己揀...今日你都有得揀, 何必自怨.

有人想揀都無得揀.

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作者: kenny01    時間: 2007-5-15 12:55

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原帖由 細摩 於 2007-5-15 12:24 發表

有人想揀都無得揀(

請勿經常性單打....本人

(自動對號入座)

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作者: HoneyBeani    時間: 2007-5-16 12:16

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-13 08:32 發表
Thank you 各位大佬的勸言,其實我自己也心中有數,因為我女朋友以前很多人追,又有醫生又律師又有錢仔,我都唔知點解最後會選我,所以覺得負了佢.

其實我也是長年累月大陸香港往來工作,識過很多好"正"年 ...

I think first of all, you need to adjust ur attitude. Coz if u think you are not good enought for her, no matter what she said, you will face it from the negative side.

You must love yourself, to be proud of yourself, get your self esteem right before you can love some1 else. if you 2 wasnt start from the common ground, there wont be any common goal, the relationship will lead you to no where.

Remember YOU are the center, YOU must be happy, YOU need to enjoy beening part of the relationship. YOU can lost anything but never lost YOURSELF

She pick you from the rest of the world means YOU must have something that she love. Rather then wasting time doubting yourself, why not go for something to improve yourself and show every1 including youslef that you can be a better YOU?

Ofcoz unless you dont want to be with her anymore, then there is only 1 reason, other then that, is excuses.


my 2 cents and good luck

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作者: 鋼    時間: 2007-5-20 12:01

二萬幾人工以經高過好多人, 點可叫做無用

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作者: 貓v    時間: 2007-5-20 21:04

hk唔係個個女仔都係咁的
問題係, 你初相識佢時, 佢已經係咁? 定係慢慢要求對你越來越高?
如果係前者, 佢本性係咁, 你都冇辦法, 睇下你自己愛佢d咩?
如果係後者, 你要諗下咩原因令佢價值觀改變

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作者: gdddds    時間: 2007-5-24 08:49

樓主...係你唔好彩姐....
hk其實都有好女仔...

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作者: hkwmi    時間: 2007-5-24 13:06

你梗唔係冇用啦, 香港地大把人都搵唔到2萬幾1個月呀...

一於飛0左佢啦, 留返 d 錢0黎投資好過啦 ....

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作者: rhey1234    時間: 2007-5-29 15:26

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作者: zhutougou    時間: 2007-6-1 01:11

是该好好沟通一下了,尊重各自决定,如果可以放手

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作者: march29    時間: 2007-6-2 19:17

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作者: man哥哥    時間: 2007-6-7 14:25

會否覺得自己既月入可突破嗎？佢既欲望會減退嗎？自己幾多歲 ~~ 到花盡金錢時 ..... 佢已經泊了令外碼頭 ... 那自己呢 ....   藍籌股可長查但當變成三線股仔還可長查嗎？

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作者: Nobody169    時間: 2007-6-8 04:19

I believe she is now "Riding on a cow and looking for a horse" I am sorry to say this.

Actually your income is above average already, but it seems that she is a girl who looks for $$ very much.

In her brain, you are a cow, the rest of the guys are horses. The reason why she picked you up, is becasue she thinks you are very secure to hold. She can handle you easily. She had no confidence to ride on the horses eventhough they can really run very fast. But....sigh...one day she will leave. This is what I foreseen, man...

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作者: rainhart    時間: 2007-6-9 19:08

每个人都有活在这个世界上的价值，你应该好好重新衡量一下你们的关系

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作者: woaicool    時間: 2007-6-15 13:47

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 08:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

find another one, it's easy and quick

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作者: kftsui    時間: 2007-6-15 14:20

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作者: 利記    時間: 2007-6-15 15:13

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 08:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

襯早飛佢啦

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作者: longchan    時間: 2007-6-15 23:18     標題: you should find your Miss Right

You ask yourself if she really love you or love material?
Can you afford her unlimited desires?
This is nothing right or wrong, just depends on if you think she worths or not.

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作者: gdseller    時間: 2007-6-22 14:36

佢鍾意你d 錢多過個人, 你自己諗清楚la

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作者: holunmoon    時間: 2007-6-24 01:28

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 08:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

Sorry man, I am much more concern "your gf" that if you two got married. Say you already have 20K per month. She wants to go to Europe, then I wonder she is not a person who knows how to plan for saving. (Don't think plan for save money to get marry). Just base on this point, sorry I think your gf is a little bit too much.

However, I also wonder you should bring it out to discuss with your gf first. To be honest, if you still have a little feeling about her. Then, you should make an act to talk to her. If she still like the old way, then i think you should make up your mind then.

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作者: 冒牌耶穌    時間: 2007-6-25 14:24

我覺得呀
你應該尊重你自己
你講來講去都係錢

月入都有二萬幾 = 窮 ???

你女友有無搵到二萬幾呀 ?! 萬幾有無呀 ?!
我無睇唔起人既意思

只係想講呀
你唔係無用,
只係無男人大丈夫氣慨!

[ 本帖最後由 冒牌耶穌 於 2007-6-25 14:27 編輯 ]

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作者: bimmer    時間: 2007-6-26 21:07

哈哈哈, 哥仔, 你都算好彩, 咁經典既極品都俾你撞到, 仲要俾你溝埋, 冇0野好講啦!!

我睇你只有一條路,就係"銀盡人亡", 如果唔想少年亡, 早走早著啦!!!
(只係個人意見, 如有冒犯, 請諒!!)

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作者: zc3161    時間: 2007-6-28 19:47     標題: 切

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作者: bimmer    時間: 2007-6-28 20:30

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原帖由 zc3161 於 2007-6-28 19:47 發表

師兄, 唔好意思, 唔係好明.........

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作者: yinkin    時間: 2007-7-9 19:59

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作者: bater123    時間: 2007-7-11 16:13

也许她看重你的钱而已，好好想想吧！

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作者: jacksonson    時間: 2007-7-11 20:02

good!   good!    good!

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作者: ltobsdgvt    時間: 2007-7-12 09:13

这样的女朋友不要也罢了,

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作者: ltobsdgvt    時間: 2007-7-12 09:15

我们内地有句话,是这样说的,"如果一个女人想和你过日子的,她会拼命帮你省钱,但如果一个女人拼命花你钱的,那么基本上她不想和你过日子"

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作者: ltobsdgvt    時間: 2007-7-12 09:15

兄弟,考虑清楚,找老婆是一辈子的事哦

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作者: Rubens    時間: 2007-7-12 20:05

Brother, how it is now?

Have you already fired her?

Remember, don't block her road to richness.

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作者: lls9981    時間: 2007-7-14 18:32     標題: hoho

very googd!thanks

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作者: dhl-c9lover    時間: 2007-7-15 00:43

分手吧.....

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作者: 細龜    時間: 2007-7-15 21:58

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原帖由 verywet 於 2007-5-9 00:32 發表
我女朋友成日話我無用，話我窮。其實我月入都有二萬幾，但就無法成日送名牌比佢，又最多只可以請佢去日本旅行。佢成日話要去歐洲，又要我買新車，出親街都要食幾百蚊一餐，老麥大記就從來唔願去。我覺得好累了，我 ...

累就放手吧啦

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作者: 大棒    時間: 2007-7-24 10:45

放手也行，否则 那么你就一定要 努力啦

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