If she is your wife, then tough luck. If she is your sex partner, then WTF, just have fun and move on.

That means you have no material concern on this woman. And the wording of "affecting the rest of your life" really don't have any meaning......

For the one that is being affected : he either likes it or sucks it up (maybe he likes SM). It is his problem, not yours. For me, if I am a pure observer, I could care less and rather dig out another pussy I can get laid for free, then find another one.....

Bitch here bitch there, as long as it is not your bitch

Bro, too many un necessary acronym...just to play along.

- Not reading any Andreas thread as not much ROI for my intention in a sex forum.

- Scoring a squaw mean different things to different people. If scoring means marry, then it is out of this forum's function. A more realistic line : you two need to work out marriage. If scoring mean loving or secret lover - cut the love... loves comes and go. if one is keep it, that means he loves it the way it is. With a divorce rate all time high nowadays, people know how to do when it is time to do it.

-  鬼嫁 / 恐妻家 means only if she can control you. Or you love to be controlled. If they are not married, that means someone is being blackmail or being asked for ransom (wanna cry). Blackmailer wants something, either money or status. The most powerful blackmailing tool is a child, otherwise there is nothing to prevent him walking away, except himself because he likes it or she is a handle pussy for a quick fix, and he is keeping it that way.

You can go out and do a poll for those guy who has 5+ sex partner and see how the handle whatever the situation is. All they worry is not getting more pussy (in a nice way).

Look bro, no offense,  psychological topics is nice but something too dark and not funny may not sell too well here. Especially when it is not first person encounter......

P.S. No idea what you mean
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Just to wrap up, I still don't know anything you talked about.

If I am affected (to what? to bitch?) In many guys' life around here, if you are married, your wife, mother, mother in law, and even sister, cousins, friends and your daughter contribute to daily "interesting" topic, sometimes top down, sometimes peer pressure. So talking about being controlled/affected, it is always multi-dimensional. The husband and wife role play (or psychological activities) you referred to can be terms as "we respect our marriage" or "just part of our daily routine when you grow up".

I am old, have seen things, I bet a high chance I saw what you saw in real life people around me, and also saw the end game of it. If it is not your wife, screw it.