好多鞋都係用魔術貼, 咁用鞋帶咪少左o羅

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原帖由 kit122660 於 2007-1-8 10:30 PM 發表


agree, most kids do not know how to tie their shoes; but, they do know many other thngs which most of us do not know e.g. playing piano.  

i think it is just because of the focus of the pare ...

agree! It is all about the parents will. Both my daughters can speak in english but I cannot. They can dance but I cannot.

冇錯! 有好多野要 let go. 做父母只要教佢地方法同結果就夠, 過程一定要佢地去領悟的. 就好似今日教個大女踩單車, 先教佢mug野係 gyroscopic effect, 然後再教佢如何平衡, 再整走兩個輔助輪, 玩左一個鐘就會玩兩個輪o既單車. 玩完之後佢仲同我講平衡的心得 -- 沒有速度就平衡唔到 (gyroscope o既原理).

今次回國, 離開左短短三個月, 我覺得個女大左好多.

個細女講:爸爸多左好多白頭髮呀 ! 照照鏡真係成頭都白曬.

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原帖由 ※京子※ 於 2007-1-9 01:22 PM 發表


講得好..

好似我貢..亞仔就黎七歲..
佢除左綁鞋帶未識之外..
乜都曉..拔..我唔係屋企..
佢就樣樣自己做..
我一係屋企就嗌到我頭暈.
鬧又鬧過..

我都唔知典算

唔好鬧, 唔好緊張, 有時大人好多理所當然o既野, 細路係唔會明的, 如果用"教"不如用啟發同領會會好d. 佢地一明白左點做, 做的會比我地更好. 做家長千萬不要拿自己的孩子跟別人比, 佢地聽起來會不高興而且會有反效果. 就好似我唔鍾意個女同我講誰朋友的車比我家的車大比較舒服(七人車). 我總是不回答佢呢投訴, 等佢大個d就知佢而家坐緊o既好定 "現代" 好.

朋友教的:
1. 千萬不要在他們面前讚別的孩子而貶低他們 (激漲法是行不通的)
2. 在不危及佢情況之下比佢參與 (滿足了他們的好奇心就不會打擾, 甚至可以幫忙)
3. 佢要發問是盡量用心去聽同解答 (佢以後會模仿你聽佢咁, 答佢是給他資料)

我自己有時都做唔到, 但我一直嘗試去做. 而個大女反過來教我要 let go, give her a chance--她說不怕掉在地上.

有耐性的父母就有有耐性的小孩; 有智慧的父母, 小孩也笨不到那裡去.

大人唔引導d細路去做生活上的技能, 仲比咁多玩具佢地傷腦筋, 佢地會得閒學果d有用o既野嗎 ?

我地細個時, 要大人買玩具真係難過登天, 好多時玩o既野都係自己設計自己造的, 如:橡筋槍, 波子機, 燈籠, 面具, 風箏, 玻璃線....

THATS RIGHT



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