I married my wife for 8 years. We got a common female friend. In last 6 months, I had a very close relationship with her. Finally, we kissed each other last night. We understood we love each other. She knew that I won’t leave my wife. But she just cannot bear to have such kind of affair with me. I felt I was so stupid. May be I should only keep my love in the bottom of my heart and keep our relationship in just very close friend. Sad….

I am going to hold back. I don’t want to hurt anyone. Just carry one more regrets in my life. Should be the best choice, isn’t it?

not about "唔敢博一舖" !!!

I am quite sure that she won't tell my wife.

But don't want to see her suffer in our relationship

She is not a kind of woman who can carry an affair with a married man.

[ 本帖最後由 fatboy33 於 2007-9-18 00:57 編輯 ]

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原帖由 toyman 於 2007-9-18 04:46 發表
我有一個多年同居女友, 幾年前識到另一個女仔, 佢知我有女朋友,
後來大家都發生關系而且係一齊, 當時日子一時好開心一時好難過,
我同女友分開左, 諗住做個清楚解決, 點知分開一段時間後, 舊女友屋企有事加上有病 ...

Toyman, thanks for your sharing.

I had lunch with her today in a park. I cannot stopped myself keep staring at her smiling face. We are kind of agreed to maintain our relationship like what you did with your ex new gf "拍拉圖式戀愛"

That's it. The end of story... But just cannot get rid of all kinds of emotion I had right now. Fine, just let them be there for long and live without soul for a while. Things will getting better soon. I knew how to manage it.

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原帖由 R-ng 於 2007-9-18 09:46 發表
To: toyman & fatboy33

你所講既野我好有同感, 你話
"到而家我都唔明白乜野人應該愛上或者不應愛上,
就對如乜野人應該意外死或者唔應該意外死。 "

我相信你唔係唔明白 你意思係好難判斷愛 ...

"當然一切後果你要承擔得起先得啦〞

That's made me much clear about what should I do. Thanks

My wife is a really really good wife, I don't think I can find someone better then her. I mean as a wife but not a lover. Also there is a long story behind us and something is missing in our marriage. Which I don't have and cannot get it in our relationship. I am keep working it out with my wife. but very very slow in progress.

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原帖由 tailawyau 於 2007-9-18 13:51 發表
唉, 好老土咁講句
做人, 順其自然啦
邊度有得諗咁多計咁多丫

學 R-ng 兄講
有時相信一下自己感覺又何妨呢

講真, 你一生有過幾多女人
但有幾多你真係講得上愛丫

兄弟, good luck

順其自然, I will take that suggestion. thanks a lot.

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原帖由 maomao1hk 於 2007-9-18 14:28 發表
To: fatboy33

我都係過來人, 已婚亦曾經試過同已分居既同事有過一段情. 我地有發生過關係, 相方都係enjoy既. 當時大家都好投入...但係唔係好多女人會可以長時間同別人分享佢既另一半.  關係維持左一年多, 由於 ...

yep, you pass situation is the most ideal case. you are lucky man.

not matter what I do, there are regretting. to me, just to avoid having too much regrets.

thanks.

brother, I updated the post in here

http://forum.timway.com/f/thread-130586-1-1.html