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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2007-11-22 17:50 發表
Oxfam Trailwalker 2007, 東壩頭

Dear Kathy, as a lovely lady, how do you explain my story?
Last year, I went to the mainland for a businness trip.  I met a lady who worked in the mainland branch of our company.  She was 37 at that time (born in 1970) but still in a good shape.  We met in a formal occassion and I treated her as a regular friend.  You know, I served her during the dinner, as a gentleman, nothing special.   
Last month, my company, as well as the mainland branch, had a sort of meeting for strategic planning. The venue was in a Country Club in Guangzhou.   In this occasion, I met her again.  After the welcome dinner, she invited me to have a walk.  I promised, also, because, as a gentleman, it is courtesy.  There was a lake at the center of the Country Club.  From the banquet hall to the lake, the environment was dark so she held my arm.  I did not notice any strange.  After we had arrived the lakeshore, I suggested siting down for a rest.  Then something happened!  She leaned her head on my shoulder.  Well, I didn't know how to response.  Time seemed stopped.  Biologically my instinct urged me to "start the action" but my brain told me that I must stop because there might be too many potential complexes, e.g. I didn't know her background so as the consequences.  After a couple of minutes, I decided to retract and I suggested going back hotel.  She said she had some good tea, why not going to her room for a chat.  I refused because I had already made the decision.  
After I had gone back to Hong Kong, we communicated through email.  I know more about her background.  She is married but have no kids.  She said she feels life boring and my appearance made her life colorful.  She liked me when she saw me at the first sight!  I also tell her about my situation.  I have a regular GF.  She says that's OK.  We are adults.  She will not affect the relationship between my GF and I.  I will go to the mainland branch next month.  I wonder whether there will have something happened.

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原帖由 kathywonder 於 2008-2-21 10:03 發表



Sorry for my lated reply, and a....thks your words first of all and think it's not kinda story like, (I mean what you told.) but fact's really happened on you.  One thing I do appreciate, at  ...

Dear Kathy, you are really a lovely lady as you can organize your life so well.  You are even able to bring your ex-mom-in-law and your future-mom-in-law together having a nice meal.  
Thank you for your advice.  I understand what you say and I agree with you.  
For my case, I did meet her several times before.  But just once a year.  Your question “Why u but not others?” may have two answers: 1/ In terms of ranking, I was one of the top rank officers in the meeting, so I think I successfully drew her attentions.  2/ I think I am physically attractive to her.  I always have shining smile on my face.  My figure is still in very good shape: 38-28-37; 5’10” and 145lb.  I have dense hair on my head.  I even have no “fish-tailed” wrinkles when I smile.  
Although I am senior to her, we have no influences to each other.  We even cannot be considered as colleagues.  My office has no collaborations with hers.  So, even we start, it will not have any complexes, at least in terms of work, because we are in two different cities.
Frankly speaking, she did give me a good feeling.  Nevertheless, it is not sufficient for me to start such a relationship with her although my masculine instinct urges me to seek for romantic adventure.

[ 本帖最後由 sl886 於 2008-2-22 02:38 編輯 ]