如果有家室的話,滿足完你老婆唔肯offer但你又好想有o既感覺之後,記得返屋企,如果同老婆實在冇辦法再生活落去要離婚,請考慮出去正正經經溝一件,唔好諗住直接過底去囡囡o個邊,因為到時o係佢眼中,你已經冇咁有價值,你需要o既係一個天長地久又唔知你會出去偷食o既老婆,佢需要o既係以前o既你,一個耐唔耐見佢一晚或幾日,同佢飲飲食食,臨走擺低家用,又唔會阻住佢出去搵食o既"親愛的或老公".小弟認為夜場囡囡絕對唔值得你為佢犧牲一個家,到有一日你決定同老婆離婚同佢一齊時,你從佢得到o既,一定比從你老婆得到o既少一樣o野,就係忠貞o既愛情,佢身邊一定仲有機會出現無數藕斷絲連o既老相好,有o的可能真係關心佢想見一見佢,更多o既係貪刺激或方便想執多佢一劑,有錢有著數的話,我估九成囡囡落搭.點解咁肯定?我遲少少會証實俾bros知.


Par 3 gor,
I like this paragraph most.  In fact, even though I am thinking of breaking up with my wife, I still do not want to go to my girlfriend right away because of the reasons you mentioned.  You do not trust her (since she had been a working girl) and she would not trust you neither (since you met her at saunas, karaoke, etc).

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-1-25 03:59 發表
should we share this to our partners in hope that they will change for good  for use this as a guide alone in order to judge what kind of people our partners really are...

澳大利亚有位婚姻& ...

I think women should choose to use all of the above, but at different levels at different times. To add to the 4 points, women should also learn to be foolish/forgetful.   If they are so clear/observant/suspicious all the times, it will not be a happy marriage/relationship.

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-3-5 01:51 發表


in 2007, i just sunk, almost got drown, recover, re-sunk, re-got drown ......
basically, i am trying to post a lot of these kinds ofl sinking reports to remind and help myself in making decisi ...

par 3 gor, just treat it as an experience for your sinking/recovered/resinking.  

If it is a heartbreak (bcos you find out that she betrays you), then think about we also betray them (the girls) since I do not believe we are "vegetarian" when we sink. Having said that, of course, we all hope that our sinking partners are 100% loyal to us.

If it is $$, then think about buying a luxurious hi-fi, or a car, etc.  Most men have some habits of spending big $ and if you spend $$ on girls, you just spend less on your hi-fi or your car.  

The above is my true feeling (or convincing myself)  since I have gone thru. this in the last 3 years of sinking, and still keep on doing it foolishly...   I have gone thru. heartbreaks, sweetness, heartbreaks again,etc   $$$ spent/contributed...  no money to buy a car or hi-end hi=fi   However, whenever I feel alone, sad, regretful, i ask myself if the joy/sweetness/satisfaction that I had via sinking ship could not be gained via other means, then, it seems that I have no way not to sink ship.   

I know that I may experience more heartbreaks and $$ in sinking girl continuously. I hope i could stop one day..  Not the time yet but hope that I will.

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-4-7 13:22 發表
after reading all these, i think bros will understand why i can't live with her any longer, honestly, i can stand someone doing something for money, but i can't stand she is doing it for the future ...

Brother Par 3, sympathy as I also had some bad experiences (similar but different and my girl is becoming better).  Sad enough, the reality is that most working girls who do something for money (you know what I mean) are hollow in heart, want security and need someone to speak to.  

Hollow in heart
they had not got much education nor worked for a long time. Therefore, they do not have the depth of thinking or exposure to the outside worlds.  In fact, imagine when you were 20's, we might not be better than them...

Want security
most of us are either married or look for short-term commitment from them.  The girls of course know it and they want to get married before 25 (if not eariler).  They also know that their market value depreciate everyday and would like to get 2nd lover/3rd lover/etc now to marry them or at least take care of them when we leave them.  

someone to speak to
We (HK) people and them are DIFFERENT: we speak different languages, come from different worlds, have different culture and are very different in ages, and what we have are $ and care/love.  Those wolf dogs would easily steal these girls' heart.   

Simply speaking, imagine if you were a 20's year old young and handsome man, but bcos of $, you had to stay with a 40's old gwei mui..  Would you do the same thing as your girls now are doing?  


I am not saying you have to tolerate...I just want to say whoever you meet up in the future, they will do things similarly, only to a different extents/different ways.  May be I am unlucky... but most of my girls' girlfriends who are attached to HKers/non-Chinese bosses have 2nd/3rd lovers...    Sorry, saying too much as I am going thru. some other kinds of pain and my friends are also tackling some wolf-dog issues like you...

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-4-8 10:43 發表
"20's year old young and handsome man, but bcos of $, you had to stay with a 40's old gwei mui"--

Understand what you mean generally, actually in my case yes, but Par 3 is a young and handsome guy ...

Oops, apology to par 3...   

then it is silghtly different...  if Par 3 is not married neither, then the girl should have more affiliation with Par 3 gor...

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-4-9 16:00 發表

the difference between wolf dog and i? she would never cry for me, or even input a little bit of heart into our relationship, still remember the nite when i was very sick, she just didn't border to say something in order to pretend that she cares, she simply ignored me and slept. should i admire her honesty

then, it was a very bad case.. I think she should at least take care of you when u were unwell and pretend to cre for you by making some gesture (buy you a gift, etc)..  

Even better, she should learn to love you (which does not affect her commitment to wolf dogs) and at the end of the day, she will enjoy "the job-being with you" better.  Most of us hate to work sometimes but we need to tell ourselves to love it and enjoy it.  

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-7 01:28 發表
當一個囡囡嘅網名由幸福女孩改做可愛女人時

i agree with other brothers' comments.  She has turned into single and available.  Strange enough, why did she say "可愛女人" not "可愛女孩"?  Any advice/comment?

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-16 16:28 發表


四川囡囡 -是NO。 1 - 我第一個飯盒就是四川。。一起六七年。。的確是溫柔。皮膚白滑。。身材美好。。。現在一個我很喜歡的MM也是四川﹐﹐但她對我是一般。。
東北囡囡 - 曾認識一個媽咪跟一個MM。
河南囡囡 - 的確是比較有心機。。一個在一起不長的MM。。(未成飯盒)。。發生的事情最多。。我沒有信心。。
湖南囡囡 - 都說湘女多情。。但我卻未遇到稍長久的。。我反覺得湖南MM比較現實。。
江蘇囡囡 - 現在的飯盒就是江蘇的。。她就很純的。。以前沒碰到其他江蘇女孩。。不知她們一般是怎樣。。
...

yours and Par 3 analysis are very detailed.

河南囡囡 -  is it 機心instead of 心機?

how about 湖北？many K. and sauna girls in DG are from this province...

Par 3, I do not know you but want to give you my support and know a bit more some of your thoughts..

永遠都有退路的話,我真係頂唔順.當我收倒一o的好可笑o既耳熟能詳o既短信時,我就知道係時候放手啦.因為唔知形容佢實在太不懂珍惜:  
Did she betray you when you were not around? What does it mean by getting some foolish/common SMS?

抑或已經走上不歸路,返唔倒轉頭重新過未下海o既正常生活好
Do you want her to go back to the time when she worked for 1,000+ dollars a month?  It may be difficult for anyone, in particular to working girls.

呢一次真係沉得好甘,傷得好應.所以我短期內都唔會再相信會有同佢係有將來o既囡囡.
Sorry to hear that. Hope you could get well soon (the heart)

如果同佢都唔work,真係冇人值得我去嘗試做戇九事啦.:
But love is a foolish thing.. You may love another girl who does not meet your spec.  It is all about timing, fate, and environment..

所以講到尾.我冇後悔為佢所做o既一切努力,
Good to hear that. We should not regret what we have done, but regret what we have NOT done when there is a chance, as long as the hurting and $$ are not too huring or too big...

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 17:34 發表
what is her purpose and what is in her mind by sending me this? this is the first time she sent me something after the official break up. i have a thought in my mind, it may be cruel to both of us, ...

when you say she is hurting you.. do you mean that she is with other men or she still works as K/sna girl behind you?

Spending madness: I think it is difficult to stop this as this is woman's nature. Look at girls in HK, they may be wilder...

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 18:04 發表
簡單地講.最主要o既問題係我只要求佢全心全意愛我.但佢做唔到.我唔想反轉豬肚,所以我唔想唱衰佢.真係知道成件事o既可能都係得兩三個.請bros見諒,衷心地多謝精神上o既支持

No problem.. Just want to show support..

全心全意愛我.. I think it is hard to achieve this..  Some girls are looking for a lot of love from more than one partners, possibly bcos of $ or security.  That's why I envy those brothers here who, not only have one, but more girls devoted to him...  

[ 本帖最後由 denny2000 於 2008-5-17 12:29 編輯 ]

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-16 18:10 發表


Met a lot of 湖北MM, they usually are beautiful and with fair skin. I actually know one MM from Hu Bei quite nice..but do not quite understand them....

ya, I hav got similar experience and feel.

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-16 18:22 發表
你係唔係含沙射影緊7少

,唔係含沙射影 only, I am referring to him as the ultimate master of kau girl killer..

[ 本帖最後由 denny2000 於 2008-5-17 12:28 編輯 ]

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-17 10:38 發表
"最主要o既問題係我只要求佢全心全意愛我"

這就是我們一直在追求的嘛。。
女女也不是一樣在追求全心全意愛她的人嗎。。但要兩個人都全心全意愛著對方就真的太難了。。太多因素了。。這就是緣份罷。。

As a man, we want our girl 全心全意愛我 and do not even talk/meet other man.  At the same time, we want freedom to meet/kau other girls.  Is it fair? no, but it is our wish.

Even if 兩個人都全心全意愛著對方, how long could it last? 1 year, 2 years?   I doubt there is any couple who could love, 100% devoted to each other forever.  I may be persmisstic but I do not think it is possible.  

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-5-17 14:57 發表


I do agree with you..
now I have a lunch box quite devoted to me, at least I feel that way..But I am still playing around..

May be lunch box is also playing aound, altho I am quite sure she ...

Ya, as long as you feel comfortable and happy in general (there must be frustration, anger and disappointment with every relationship), enjoy every moment!!

In fact, when your LB devotes to you, it is not enjoyable sometimes. She will "supervise/monitor" you, she will get angry if you do not have time with her, etc.  Maintaining a balance when she devotes to you but also let you free once in a while will be perfect but there is no perfect world..

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-5-19 21:12 發表
話時話,fatal attraction口技真係無話可說.CC如果有佢一半的話我諗尋日真係會兩個人上咗大巴囉

Fatal attraction bj?  Where could I find this? I am getting more and more frustrated with this..  Most sna girls only know how to do it mechanically, and try to get you release with no skills and affection. I know it is a tough job but i am not getting much satisfaction from it versus the old days.  Is it my problem or the girls problems?

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原帖由 icheng609 於 2008-5-29 14:38 發表
我已準備好明天槍口對準的目標了........... 哈哈！

Are you going to HS for your red carpet treatment?

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原帖由 icheng609 於 2008-5-29 16:49 發表
Maybe next week for HS, but not tomorrow!

Anyway, your info won't be wasted.

No worry..  You have shown you are a good boy: hungry enough to go for it and responsible enough to write a report afterwards.

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-6-29 10:22 發表
可能人開始老啦,真係好想搵個好老婆.但有時太刻意想去搵o既時候會無奈地做好多戇九o野.因為成日都驚自己唔去嘗試一下最終會錯過o左.理智同感情之間o既抉擇,真矛盾

When the time comes, she will appear!  If the time will not come, do not force things through.   Sometimes, when you think of it too much, you may get your 2nd best (although no one knows who is the best!)..

Take care. enjoy the time when you are free. Once you get married, you are not free (at least not at heart)..

par 3 gor, i could feel your love on her.

一個人失眠孤伶伶抱著被子時不期然就會想到不知道那天晚上你是不是在客人的懷裡被呵護著... this is really killing. and that's why i sank deep with my lunchbox, until now and not sure how long...

I think it is not difficult to guess why the girl post as a victim..  Everyone wants to be seen as a victim to gain care/support.  Who will say in public she owed you a lot..  So, take it easy, at least on your private conversatin, she did admit that she had not treasured your love..

Enjoy life...

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-7-9 01:51 發表
畢竟jolin都係初出道,亦因為佢好好.所以不期然想make sure佢唔會被認出保護佢多少少.請bros用多少少想像力啦

Great pictures par 3 gor.

Did you and your previous LB type all the Chinese sms?  I really admire you.. I thought I typed a lot but compared to yours, mine is far behind in terms of quality and quantity.  

Girls (human beings) are all the same...  they would not treasure WHEN they had it, however, they will miss it and regret AFTER they lost it..

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-7-9 09:15 發表


no la, we communicate via email, i am wondering if sms format allows me to send so many words in one piece (my last email)
leaving today, need to disappear for a while again lu.

Still very impressed with your "heart" on the girl.. Enjoy the rest of the forest!!

I thought you used pinhole camera.. Right?  That's a good way to capture your own action but the action has to happen at your own place or at least a place you have time to set up the "thing"..

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原帖由 par3 於 2008-7-24 00:24 發表
寄件日期：2008年7月23日 14:35:04

我回到家里后我会好好的.认真的对待生活.不会再像以前的那种心态了.只要你答应我不会理我就好了.就当是安慰我也好.什么也好.好吗?现在除了你和我妹以外.我不会相信任何人.在外面交朋友是有防惫心的.真的好累.你们就不会.可以很放心的.

This sweet word, no matter it is true or not, is very sweet.   And you should be proud of it since you are someone that she trusts..

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原帖由 7-siu 於 2008-8-11 19:02 發表
你的報告一係全部都是字，一係全是圖！特式！

par 3 gor, on the last photo, why the girl is wearing uniform? are the pictures not in order?

bro denny2000
pls check out the file name, it is another day's action


OIC.  this is the 1st picture of the 2nd day..  any more pictures without clothes. hmmm?