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原帖由 cefiro 於 2007-2-15 05:38 發表
Hi Renzo

我真的要放手?? 我好唔舍得ar...>.<
我只想同佢,維持電話聯絡,
的關係就夠啦...

I know this moment is a hard time for you, but trust me, keeping a telephone relation won't cure your pain. It will just turn the short term pain into a long one. You know, once you see her as your lover, and you call to find that she will only comminicate with you like a friend, you feel extremely bad becoz her attitude wil just remind you that your relationship with her has ended. Those days won't come back. This poor situtation which will only keep you in the black hole forever.

In any case, I don't think she wants to maintain the telephone relationship if she decide to stay with her currently bf.

Unless you see any possibility of her coming to you again, don't stay there! Get over it! When you meet another girl in the future, this new gf will lessen ur pain and eventually you will be able to 放低 this ex-gf

Also, when you accumulate more love experiences, or if you make closer observation to how a love realtionship end, these are very common cases, you will be okay (因為呢個世界有好多人倍我)

Good luck!

[ 本帖最後由 Erin 於 2007-2-16 08:48 編輯 ]

yea, I agree with Renzo.....Eason's 富士山下
I suggust this phrase 要擁有必先懂失去怎接受

Happy New Year to All!!

Hi Cefiro,

Don't think too much at this moment. We can survive without fully understand and perform those ten points mentioned by Watson's. Just do whatever will help you do good in the future. Each person has his own way to get through a love trama. No need to care what the others say.

By the way, I strongly recommend you to read 絕頂愛情 and 大膽愛情 by 倪震, it is a good book. You know, professional writers convince love matters far better than we do.