forget it, you know already the result..no need to check her la..

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原帖由 COMMIN 於 2008-5-14 14:10 發表
香港人實在太現實了.  一講到錢字就會左算右算.  難啊!

The main problem is not money, but trust. If you have trust on her, why bother checking her, just give the money according to your ability..
If you do not have trust on her, there is no need to check her at all..the result will be what you are expecting..
So in both cases, there is no need to check her, Brother...

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原帖由 COMMIN 於 2008-5-14 15:39 發表

其實有很多問題都很難解釋.  我相信她是因為愛她, 而不是真心去相信.
現在就是想找個私家偵探查過究竟, 使我心安.  但問題就是怕找到一些不良的私家偵探令她有危險.

"You trust her because you love her"..
You should have said you want to trust her because you love her..actaully you do not trust her..and there must have been a lot of things that made you not to trust her.
Let me tell you Brother, trust your feelings, feelings do not lie..but you lie to yourself..
Think you know her quite well already and there is no need to have someone else tell you she is not trustworthy..

I always say that money is the best parameter to check if the MM loves you or not. If she is only asking money all the time, with different excuses, for sure she does not love you...but only likes your money...
Forget her la..altho it is hard..because you love her...

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原帖由 COMMIN 於 2008-5-15 09:25 發表

"分手係唔需要證據，只需要籍口!"我絕對同意.  因為我在她最需要我的時候去離棄她, 我覺得很耐久, 所以想找人幫我拿個籍口來使自己安心.   我這種人簡直就是賤人.

Brother COMMIN,
Dont blame yourself, actually we all have gone thru this similar situation:
You want to keep her but you dont want to spend too much money,
You want to let go but you still like the MM,
you feel that she does not love you but you dont want to believe this,

I know it is difficult to just let the MM go, but please think that if a MM stays with you only for money, why bother wasting you time and money...

It is not the Mm who is cheating you, it is you cheating yourself. ..