引用:

原帖由 chungyong 於 2008-2-26 21:42 發表


Ya, knew this book and the author quite some time ago. Very pity, she was dead later because of the pressure is too big.

From wiki:

Chang's death

The book was the main source of fame for Iris Chang, who was well-respected in China for raising awareness of the Nanking Massacre in the Western world.[34] At the same time, Chang was receiving torrents of hate mail, especially from Japanese ultranationalists. She found threatening notes on her car and she believed her phone was tapped. She would respond overwhelmingly to any question of the validity of her work. Her own mother said the book "made Iris sad". Chang suffered from depression and was diagnosed with "brief reactive psychosis" in August 2004. She began taking medications to stabilize her mood. She wrote:

    I can never shake my belief that I was being recruited, and later persecuted, by forces more powerful than I could have imagined. Whether it was the CIA or some other organization I will never know. As long as I am alive, these forces will never stop hounding me.

Succumbing to her battle with depression, Chang took her own life in November 2004. After her suicide, a memorial service was held in China by Nanking Massacre survivors at the same time as her funeral in Los Altos, California, and the Memorial Hall of the Victims in the Nanjing Massacre, a memorial site in Nanjing built to commemorate the victims of the Nanking Massacre, added a wing dedicated to her in 2005. In the US, a Chinese garden in Norfolk, Virginia, which contains a memorial to Minnie Vautrin, added a memorial dedicated to Chang, including her as the latest victim of the Nanking Massacre.

Kama Sutra maybe?

Don't have those radiant smile.  Really like those.

YES!!! This keeps me going for the rest of the day!  A Big Thanks.  Love it!!

Nice to learn that you're okay.  I believe so.  Even if there's no more wild stories from your end, its still nice to start hearing from you again.  Like many people here who had grown bonds with you in this virtual environment,  I strongly support your being here, as you always had.

I believe everybody who has been around will know what "bitter truth" is about.  It is just the one with wisdom will know and more importantly, respect that there is a difference between everyone and therefore, not to impose his/her own standard onto others.  I thought sharing is the spirit here.  Wish I got it right.

Its pretty amazing to know someone who actually enjoy hurting people he is close to.  If psychotherapy is really not what you need.  Maybe, remember that what goes around comes around could be helpful.

引用:

原帖由 電腦奇俠 於 2008-3-10 12:40 發表
nam1220, did u threat kathy, and she is in panic now.

I wish she'll be okay.  Is it unsafe here?  How can such confidential info be leaked / located to an unknown person!  Would appreciate if anybody has any clue and share skills on how to protect our identity.

I would suggest taking the problem with him and ask open question such as to to his standard, could he have done better, is it just working more industriously or in need of a different perspective to understand the topic etc.  Work with him, lead him and do not tell him what to do.  To a normal child, school test is not a welcoming experience since we've been there,.  Hope this works.

Kathy check 下妳條 music thread, 我點o左隻歌比妳同妳 hubby.

唔知 o的 o的 是否 "情" 與 "慾" 之間的鬥爭

Nice to hear that you have made up your mind as your big day is approaching fast.