This is the first time I join this discussion thread.  Today I have spent about 2 hours reading the threads of yours and feel that you are really a very special lady (given you are a pretty, married and divoced with a child, able to enjoy almost everything happens to you all the time).  The major reason that I like keep on reading your thread is you are always positive about life.  

One more thing that I feel closer to you is you went to school in Canada.  I was there too (York U, grad in 1996).  

Just keep on writing and you have our supports all the way.

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咁你隨時識佢啦.....衣家佢少寫心路歷程喇, 風格係不文占果面了

No.  I've seen her picture and I don't know her.  If I knew her in Canada, I would have chased her like hell.  

Hi Kathy.
I think it is completely normal that you think of someone else (some role in your sex fantasy) when you are having sex with the existing bf.  I do that once in a while - think about some colleagues in office when making love with my wife.  I would last longer, thrust stronger and eject more.  Many people do the same.
BTW, did you come and had a great orgasm this time ?