Another Common Love Story

Dear friend, just think for her and u'll understand why she chose this.

You are engaged, u cannot give her any long term promise. No matter how good u ar in compare with that guy, u cannot give 586 a future.All 586 can do, if she stay with u, is to enjoy the present and forget the future.

But that's not so for this guy, in her imagination there could be a "warm, happy family" that almost ALL mainland girls are still hoping for.甚麼永遠的避風港，溫馨的二人世界。。。

Furthermore, inside most mainland ladies they would think this warm family can be created by themselves: bear a baby and mother & child can make a warm family -- forget the husband, they ar just food coupons. U cannot give her a baby even if u ar willing to: he is illegal unless u marry her.

Also, my experience is that mainland girls don't like to say concretely that she is leaving u. They would do many things to make u leave them, but seldom directly fr their initiative.

This is the SMS my SH gf sent me:
我不要聽什麼思念的話。能不能永遠跟哥哥在一起，哥哥不能給我答案就趕快把我甩了吧！我太煎熬受不了了。

I answered her:
哪為什麼你又不把我甩了？

She didn't reply. Today she sent me msn just like nothing happened. This is that.