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原帖由 daltera 於 2007-1-28 01:43 發表



Thanks to all the folks fr their support! Yes, I also feel that I am like part of the Cinderella story....
The Nana gal has been my girl since I started this thread and we spent the weekends ...

Hi brother, just want to share personal experience.  Once beginning "One step on two boats", there is no way that you won't hurt anyone (either your HK/BKK girl-friend).  What's more important is to think twice the way forward and make a decision asap.  To shorten damage to a girl may be a better out and dragging on will not benefit anyone (even yourself).  My experience is "to be honest" and tell the truth to the 'unchosen' one.  Truth hurts but lies won't last.

Another experience is, guy likes fresh and always think that the new one is better.  When the relationship is hot (together with lots of crazy sex), the relationship seems to last forever.  I always recall, I had similar feeling with my 'ex-' too but finally the relationship gone.

Sorry to be 'long-air' but just wish you'll have your 'perfect one' soon.

Brother Daltera, how are you recently?  Handling the situation well?

It's glad to see things go well with you brother daltera.  I support your decision to break up with your HK girl-friend and I fully understand your point.  We have limited information and no one can foresee the future.  Up to this moment, based on your perfect information, you've made decision.  I guess you will not regret no matter what happens and so do the Nana girl.  Enjoy the true love feeling and I'm just jealous (maybe some brothers here too) ;)