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原帖由 Haidada 於 2008-6-10 13:44 發表
其实我倒佩服那些女女。。为了生活十来岁就要出来打工。出卖身体，自尊。。她们心里承受的压力是多大啊。。我不会歧视她们。。反而同情她们和我会对她们好。。因为我对女女好。。尊重他们。。所以女女都对我好。。
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I have exactly the feeling on working girls... I told 2 of my closer lunchboxes in the past that I really admired their courage and gut to come all the way to China SOuth, doing something that no one feel excited to share about, and faced the prssure from their home that they had to get married before 25 and also all the bad words behind them, saying that they sacrificed their bodies for $$..... Both of them wanted to study but terminated at different stages sinec their families did not have the $ to support them further and they could hardly get a decent job.
Of coures, you could say that they are greedy, they have no dignity. Yes, they are greedy, their eyes are on $ and they know they are doing something immoral for $... But look, when I was 17, i had just graduated Form 5, no financial pressure, my path (and most friends of that age) was straightforward, finished the A-level and tried to get into the University. We did not need to worry much about $ and future..
Regarding topics to discuss, I coudl not expect MMs from China to communicate with me in English, or expet them how to drink/enjoy red wine. However, do not forget we as HKer, also learnt how to drink red wine not many years ago.. In 80's , we still think that the older the red wine, the better. In fact, I was quite moved by my lunchbox when I told her the basic step of enjoying a glass of red wine and some stories about red wine, she sighed.. saying that I am so lucky to be a HKer, have the chance to know so many things, and they could not have the chance to be exposed to the outside world (and she must be thinking that she was so unlucky to spend the time with me rather than a handsome 20's years old young Chinese man, haha)... I could not say a word for 10 sec...
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