愛上不該愛的女人 .... 但卻深深愛上

Dear happy_user

The answer to your question is simple: quit smoking!

A more serious question is like what unhapy bear has implied here, are you prepared to start a family with her? Are you prepared to be the step father of her kid? Will you accept your relatives (parents, friends, etc.) may not agree with you marrying a divorced woman? Are you maintaining the relationship with her because of sex? ....

I do agree that love is the most important element in a relationship. Nonetheless, it is not the single element. When two people live together, there are thousands other things you need to consider before making the big move.