I always think that to maintain a relationship, it requires both parties. yes, the society seems to accept more the lotion that men have the tendency of loving more than one persons simultaneously. However, there are also women behaving like that. I am not saying that I think it is right to do so, it is just the fact. However, how to maintain a long lasting relationship may need, again, the two parties to try hard to maintain it.

The point is not about mainland or HK women, but whether you consider all the aspects before you make the move to marry one. You have to consider the cultural difference as well as how much you love her. The fact taht you feel that you are losing face makes you feel ashamed makes me wonder how much you love your existing wife.