Hi Fxxkallday,
First of all, I dont really like you nick... but that is something else.
When I said random is fun, what I mean is as life cant be predicted, things will happen randomly, why not set ur mindset to accept the fact, as a higher level, why not face it in a positive way, is fun to have random things happen.
Love vs Relationship, I will see the matter like this: Love is the common ground, foundation and most important ingradient for relationship. Is that mean without love, it cant be any relationship? I think the answer will be different to everyone. Can a building build on a "not so solid" foundation? I think you still can, it wont be a tall and large building tho.
If you think your relationship between you and your wife is business, which also means $$. Most of the family come down to a lot of $$ metter, and when $$ hit love, it seems all the romance start to fade out, money seems like a mirror, which explore all the ugly and evil side of a human being. Who is the boss, who get the power to use those resourse! wahahahahaha... Well, do you think there still love in a relationship like this?
Will Love eventually become Relationship? This will depends on different people. I saw a lot of 70+ yrs old couple still holding their hands walking along the street. (I live in Sydney) I dont only see, but I can feel love in between them. Are they in a relationship? Yes, they are. Do they love each other? Yes, they do.
Will Passion eventually fade out? Yes, the answer is for sure; the matter of fact is how long it take, everything goes up will come down... except age. The trick is how to reduce the speed of decline, how to make the passion last longer.
Trust, Love, Relationship, whats the link between them? I guess is Communication. Without communication, they wont last.
Everyone are writing their own story book, pass a day, flip a page. how the chapter end will depends what you write in it now. Talk to ur wife, tell her how you feel, set a common goal, work for it and dont look back.
my 2 cents and good luck
