這個問題何寫一篇論文。簡單來說：

老公去滾的原因 - 可多過一個
1. 受別人引誘
2. 本身好色
3. 身理有需要
4. 在家感到苦悶 - 此点老婆要檢討

老公去滾的態度-
1. 盡量掩飾，避免老婆起疑或發現 (這樣還好)
2. 不介意別人如同事朋友知道(有放任本色)
3. 不介意老婆知道 (大壞！)

怎麽辨？
視乎老婆想 end result 怎麽樣-
1. 想分乎？那麽就攤牌、大吵一輪，然後離婚。
2. 想教訓老公? 不必了，沒有效果, end up 分手。
3. 想保持家庭完整? 可以用冷靜的度, 指出老公不對, 而後商量以後怎辨, 如一同去 message or sauna. 表示妳知道他的需要。

Nice to hear the happy ending to an unhappy incident.

My suggestion to you, Haze,l is to try to avoid 秋後算帳. If you want to forgive him, do it thoroughly.  He will feell indebted to you and will try to be a good husband in future. You may be able to gain his life-time loyalty to you.  Apart from that, men will always change, when they got their new born son/daughter.

Wishing you more and more happy days to come!