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原帖由 Haidada 於 2007-6-15 17:41 發表
It was last June I first met this Henan MM in a SN in SZ. When I do not travel I would go to some SN and fast food in SZ by myself, hard to find brothers. Usually I follow the info from the thread. ...
Like some brothers said in other threads, women in China need financial support.
It is a dlilemma in life that love, like plant, cannot thrive on dried soil.
I think that your MM was really fond of you. But for many reasons, her self-esteem, respect to you etc, she would not ask for your help. At the same time, you did not offer shouldering all her need in the near future. In other words, staying with you means no future.
So she is caught in a crossroad -- You or her future spouse?
She might have made a decision. She would stay with a husband but enjoy the loving feel while she can. This is why she spent a couple weeks with you.
Now she may have come to a critical point. Maybe there are external factors. But she chose to stay with her so-called husband.
However, I still think that she made that decision with a mixed feeling.
So don't be surprised if she shows up later. But be prepared. If you feel that she worth something to you, offer her something, on top of sweet words, that can carry her life for the next 6 months.
Then you can keep enjoying her company. And I trust that you would not "SINK" in the end -- GOOD LUCK!
