Can you tell us more details? want to know more background see if we can give you some advice?

So, for these two suggestions. How would you feel? Really okay?

Tell you what, I guess you should be serious about this and don't be navie, I guess the lady will totally changed after she gave birth to the baby.

Seriously, I think the man (sorry to say this) is really irresponsibe to you.

Anyhow, I hope if you two come up the conclusion, then I hope your well la.

It's a sad story for three of you.

From the point of view of lady --> It's always sad to choose not to give birth for own child

But from the way of solving out, maybe it would be a good choice for you.

However, I don't quite understand why you can so patient to your husband. (Being honest, your patient is a good manner)

Anyway, I totally agree that don't think having children can solve out the problem. Please think a way to solve the relationship b/w you and your husband. More communication.

Good luck!