重視家庭，但又會去偷食

I agreed with all of your options.
Human is a kind of animals, just like others such as lion, tiger,....etc.  Think and check that out, in male gene, always need to have sex with more than 1 female, it is our natural.  No matter in human being or other animials.

It is okay to release yourself from time to time especially under high pressure in our living enviornment in HK.  As long as play it safe and not to let your wife knows.  Maybe they pretend not to know that acting in most of the families.

Be smart, going out to buy service, but not input much feeling on them; otherwise, it is easily broke your family.