I am the same condition as yours. CA or CP is too far for me . I can only go SZ SN. Last Summer, I engaged with a SN girl for several times, and my wife found it (forgot to delete a message in my mobile). Brothers might think of the situation at that moment. I spent 2 months on asking for her forgiveness . When I returned to SZ SN early this year, I seldom patronized the same BG more than 2 times.

She checked it unintentionally. Since then, I believe she won't trust me 100% although I have stopped going SZ SN for 6 months .