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原帖由 cf4 於 2007-7-4 01:31 發表
早前我已見了社工了,社工都想見我老婆作了解,我通知老婆她說會考慮,今日打比老婆得知她怕如果再同我一齊,怕有一天我再賭再借她不能再承受,她有很大壓力,因為以前已比好多機會我了.

brother CF4,

I have changed my account. some problem. Anyway, just tell her to go and visit the 社工. Just tell your wife, if she gave you many many chances, why not give you one last chance? (Maybe you think I am stupid but at least you should try). Cheer up. don't give up, man.

Many people like you do gambling, but how many like you have guts to go to see 社工. I cannot make sure you will success, but there are people succeed and you maybe one of them. remember this.

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原帖由 brasco 於 2007-7-5 02:05 發表

a very close friend of mine were doing such stupid thing!!....

Sorry to say this. you think this is stupid? I don't think so. At least this is what CF4 should really do at this moment. This is what I call to do something in order to prove you are serious. No offense. Please encourage CF4 together,

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原帖由 kenny1234 於 2007-7-8 21:41 發表
大丈夫，一人做事一人當，就算她真係離開你又怎樣？
其實，點解你唔想下，離開你佢可能生活更美好，更幸福呢？你咁想會唔會好過d呢？
愛一個人也要尊重對方的決定，不是單方面講你會改就要比機會你的，
我不是 ...

Hai..... To be honest, the situation is tough.
To brother CF4, first I want to ask you two questions:
(1) Ask yourself (from the deep deep bottom of heart), do you still love your wife and cannot lost her anymore? How about your wife? same?

(2) Part of agree with Kenny1234, the decision is made by your wife. It's her decision but as I said people always have choice. You have and your wife also has. Does your wife leaving you is the reason you want to quit gambling? If yes, then think positivly, all you do is to PROVE that you are serious and damn serious about the quiting. About the pressure thing of your wife, no one can help. only she can help by herself.

Really at this stage, I have nothing to say and I can see that you already start action.(IT"S REALLY GOOD!!!) My friend, keep it up. No matter what the result is. You tried damn hard and should feel no regret at all.

For the worse case, if your wife decided to leave (Just saying, eveything is possible). Then, you should regret and hate gambling because it breaks your family. At the same time, you should be pround of yourself that at least you tried hard for the relationship and start action to quit gambling.

The topest level of LOVE - is willing to be hurt. (INSIDE LOVE, there is no fear).
I can see how much your wife loves you even though her heart has been hurt a lot. NOW, IT"S TIME FOR YOU TO HEAL HER HEART. CHEER UP MAN!!!

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原帖由 cf4 於 2007-7-8 20:31 發表
我想我肯定能夠戒賭,亦向財務申請貸款去冚晒d咭數,我老婆想到現在仲未應承我見社工的事,她經常有陰影仲同我講內心很灰,我好擔心無左個好老婆.

MAN, Tell your wife to give you one more chance. At least to go to 見社工. no big deal, right?
BE positive.

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原帖由 brasco 於 2007-7-10 01:46 發表

I'm afraid that u get me wrong, i was saying that a very close friend of mine had tried to get some money through galmbling in order buy her wife a gift.
sorry for my misleading!!

Oh... Very very sorry. My misunderstanding. Can you tell us about the result? Thank you.

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原帖由 Rod 於 2007-7-10 09:21 發表
Brother CF4, you are in a very difficult situation.  From another perspective, however, you must understand that once you did something wrong, you have to suffer the consequence.  That's why nowada ...

Yeah, Just act now. I think the consultant you saw can give you some advice