[疑難] Same mistake again

For those married men here, I have to make some admendment on this phrase ' Life is short. Have a FXXX. Never an affair' because you will end up screwing up your marriage. ' feeling ' game is fun and exciting but it is definitely not for a married man because it will end up destroying your family and the heart of that nice girl you pretend to care so much about. As for the what you call ' nice girl '. it will be hard for you to decide if she plays it for real or not. If she is serious about you while you cannot give her what she wants ' a marriage ' at the end of the day. You will become a jackass that play around with other people's feeling and pretend to be a nice guy to begin with. My final advice. Just pay up and move on with your life. No feeling involved, safe it for the family.