Ching
I went out with a shanghai BG. After spending a few days (and nights) togeher in Shanghai during my last two trips to Shanghai, I thought everything was going well. All of a sudden, she stopped taking my call or replying SMS. Oh well. I am too old to get any serious injury from this, but it still made me feel bad...   and shitty  

No, not much. I took her out for movies, dinner, brought a few things. Interestingly, I took her to Sogo. She looked at the price tags and decided not worth the money.  She then took me to another more localized mall with G2000 and other mid-range priced appeal. I also took her out to an Italian restaurant one evening, she didn't like it. She preferred eating RMB10 noddle in a small shop, and that's exactly what we did the next day.  Not sure I could find another nice girl like her, good looking, fun and with a kind heart.

Yes, you are probably right. I was toooooo naive lah.  Anyway, learned a lesson. Looking back, I did have some good time.

actually, I was trying to establish a relationship. well, things do not always work out....