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原帖由 hotel60 於 2009-11-22 17:02 發表
Sounds Like you had bad experience. Like to share?

For me, she ask me to dinner ......like to try a resturant together because she heard it from her friend which is good. Do you think they all look ...

Not necessary for money, you should be able to tell - if you're not obsessed.  I definitely used a 'dedicated' #, in case relationship is getting too close or sour.  I would pay her one way or another, after ML.  Just that to let her know don't get too involved with the relationship.  Otherwise, I agree to treat her as the way you would treat your friend, or girl friend.

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原帖由 hotel60 於 2009-11-24 00:28 發表
Thank you brothers. You guys are the experts and make me look fxxkin dumb. I heard from other c-hings story about spy camera and then they want money from you otherwise they would post it on You Tube. ...

As other chings said, just dinner is already a treat, and that shouldn't be any commitment, just relationship developing stage; or to develop a closer relationship to make it more joyful when ML.  In this case, I would later buy little gifts, or pay her more tips if you plan to re-visit her work place.  Tendering notes is too auspicious, neither of you would feel good.

Keep your mind open la!

Good luck!

p.s. do let us know your report.   Tkx in advance.

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原帖由 kkleung 於 2009-12-2 12:21 發表
Dont wanna be rude or mean or put you off here,but you have made a fatal mistake,c-hing.
Now she knows where you live.
Like Ces hing said:no money involvement is very dangerous.
Think abt how many  ...

I would rather say beware...  if you think about # of dicks, I guess you would probably never stray....

Seems not much development these days.  C hing, how the story goes?