更自由，可以隨心所欲！

我都好有共嗚!! 這就是中年男人宿命??

Me too...  Count me if any function.........support.... brother

我都係單上一族。一個人包間 K 房，DJ + MM 齊齊劈 氣氛都 OK 啊！
有時亦會去下正斜骨咁。

其實結左婚既 FD 連街都唔會出，更遑論北上。未結婚既，因為長期單身，年紀大後脾氣變得異常古怪兼麻X煩。所以我覺得單上輕鬆自由得多。

你結左婚未?點解又可以時時單上? 我記得你d post, 你好似係香港nc浦多?

我就覺得一個人好難去k - 我連自己一個人去外面食飯都唔會, 寧願買返屋企食.

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原帖由 einsteiniii 於 2009-12-19 16:39 發表
你結左婚未?點解又可以時時單上? 我記得你d post, 你好似係香港nc浦多?

我就覺得一個人好難去k - 我連自己一個人去外面食飯都唔會, 寧願買返屋企食.

仍是單身，北上冇問題。2005 之前主力蒲香港nc，其實現在90%都係北上消費了。只是在nc版我的回應較多。

我經常都一個人食飯。可能平日工作/生活較單調，去 nc 時候我會較放，所以一個人去都可以搞到氣氛。

睇黎呢樹都好多szsn既c兄喎

我而家都差唔多30, 好多戰友而家都結婚了, 正如樓主所講, 唔想拖累d 朋友...而且朋友好多都變成住家男人, 真正坐牢一樣

本來都仲有好多團友, 不過有d好杯中物, 自己又唔啱玩, 玩玩下d戰友買少見少..........

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原帖由 einsteiniii 於 2009-12-19 02:09 發表
Kevin: 你幾嵗? 你講的心態我感同身受.....雖然我冇去到CP再折返, 但"KTV or SN is too bothering nowadays.  Looking for a short term relationship, but fearing that it will affect my family.   A confl ...

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CHings
This song for all 30+/40+ man....especially for those 條船已沉了一半...

生命的插曲  張學友

夜已悄悄飄過　沿途乘客沒有太多
但我不想說話　而你亦同樣痛楚
讓你我也醒覺　重投原有伴侶那方
在尾班車駛到後　留下你一個

望你勉強的笑　緩緩退後變細小
共我揮手作別　眼淚兒像雪飄
是你我也控制不了　浮沉塵世極渺小
獨自有心中所愛　但卻結識了

Woo...　來讓我偷偷痛哭
他朝我倆　也會悄然的老去
Woo...　忘掉這哀傷插曲
今天這樣的結束　從開始已結束

別要再去想我　你要接受這結果
可知他一天發現　到最後同樣痛楚
別要再去想你　我也接受這結果
讓我可跟她過活已不錯

Woo...　來讓我偷偷痛哭
他朝我倆　也會悄然的老去
Woo...　忘掉這哀傷插曲
今天這樣的結束　從開始已結束

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原帖由 boot_boot 於 2009-12-14 16:19 發表



Locate a LB and bring her to K.  

It would work and you would have fun as well.   

Ching
What is LB?

好歌.多謝CHING.

Sorry did not have Chinese input on this laptop so have to input in English

I also feel the same thing as most brother do. I am in Beijing and last night I just go out to dinner by myself and then stay in the apartment watching TV. Most of my friend are either married or have gf so I don't want to bother them and I don't want to go to KTV by myself as it is rather expensive in BJ and is no fun

I am the same condition as yours. CA or CP is too far for me . I can only go SZ SN. Last Summer, I engaged with a SN girl for several times, and my wife found it (forgot to delete a message in my mobile). Brothers might think of the situation at that moment. I spent 2 months on asking for her forgiveness . When I returned to SZ SN early this year, I seldom patronized the same BG more than 2 times.

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原帖由 fabregas04 於 2009-12-26 01:23 發表
I am the same condition as yours. CA or CP is too far for me . I can only go SZ SN. Last Summer, I engaged with a SN girl for several times, and my wife found it (forgot to delete a message in my m ...

It seems that your wife does not believe you as she always checking your mobile message!

She checked it unintentionally. Since then, I believe she won't trust me 100% although I have stopped going SZ SN for 6 months .

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原帖由 wt29 於 2009-12-16 03:23 發表 越軌行為, 最難受的是有強烈的 "犯罪感"!

totally agree!!!

ching, 小心沉船呀! 　　

good! this is the dilemma of middle age men!

einstein 兄: I'm 45 la.  Got a wife of 30 and have no child.   I guess that's the problem.   Just met a 20 years old girl working in a restaurant of CP in Oct and developed a relationship this month.  She gave me the feeling of girlfirend in my high school time.  She struggled a bit and finally let me take off her clothes in bed and I knew that I was 沉船 la.   I don't know how to go on.  That's "就是中年男人宿命??  ".   Maintaining one family is difficult, economically and emotionally.  Having headache if I need to have two families.  
That's good if we just go SN or NC.   See if brothers can organize a gathering in Jan then.

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原帖由 kevink8888 於 2009-12-28 01:20 發表
einstein 兄: I'm 45 la.  Got a wife of 30 and have no child.   I guess that's the problem.   Just met a 20 years old girl working in a restaurant of CP in Oct and developed a relationship this month.  ...

CHings
This song for you and all 30+/40+ men....especially for those 條船已沉了一半 or 條船已沉了(like myself, ha ha ha) ...

生命的插曲  張學友

夜已悄悄飄過　沿途乘客沒有太多
但我不想說話　而你亦同樣痛楚
讓你我也醒覺　重投原有伴侶那方
在尾班車駛到後　留下你一個

望你勉強的笑　緩緩退後變細小
共我揮手作別　眼淚兒像雪飄
是你我也控制不了　浮沉塵世極渺小
獨自有心中所愛　但卻結識了

Woo...　來讓我偷偷痛哭
他朝我倆　也會悄然的老去
Woo...　忘掉這哀傷插曲
今天這樣的結束　從開始已結束

別要再去想我　你要接受這結果
可知他一天發現　到最後同樣痛楚
別要再去想你　我也接受這結果
讓我可跟她過活已不錯

Woo...　來讓我偷偷痛哭
他朝我倆　也會悄然的老去
Woo...　忘掉這哀傷插曲
今天這樣的結束　從開始已結束

I don't mean to repeat my own post, but this is the most listened song in my ipod.... for a good reason.... ha ha.

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原帖由 dl9394 於 2009-12-25 10:53 發表
Sorry did not have Chinese input on this laptop so have to input in English

I also feel the same thing as most brother do. I am in Beijing and last night I just go out to dinner by myself and then ...

我諗我都體會得到...我都試過一個人因工作而住係北京...(都幾年前嘞)
有D放被放逐感覺...
卒之我我學識左QQ...同埋去見QQ網友...

有時玩QQ並不一定為溝囡上床...
當中都不乏奇遇.....例如我識左一班剛大學畢業的後生仔女..變左佢地職業輔導員...
又或者..有河北的兩姐妹(19,22)...成日上佢地屋企,佢地煮住家飯我食...但亦祇係食飯..純過蒸漏水
不過至少唔洗生活得甘悶

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原帖由 sxhk 於 2009-12-28 02:03 發表

CHings
This song for you and all 30+/40+ men....especially for those 條船已沉了一半 or 條船已沉了(like myself, ha ha ha) ...

生命的插曲  張學友

夜已悄悄飄過　沿途乘客沒有太多
但我不想說話　 ...

我第一个LB离开时就是这种感觉。。快离开前已有了。。
现在我就沉得清醒些。。。

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原帖由 Haidada 於 2009-12-28 10:22 發表


我第一个LB离开时就是这种感觉。。快离开前已有了。。
现在我就沉得清醒些。。。

CHing
Good to know I am not the only one....  
What does LB stand for?

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原帖由 sxhk 於 2009-12-28 16:19 發表

CHing
Good to know I am not the only one....  
What does LB stand for?

其实大部分师兄都系甘既。。从一开始我们呢D有家有室又一把年纪既， 或稍大，上去玩。。遇到既都系D年轻美女。。出来赚钱的。。。又能有什么其他的结局呢。。。

LB 指 LUNCH BOX 即日日食既饭盒。。收养起来的二奶萝。。。

[ 本帖最後由 Haidada 於 2009-12-28 17:12 編輯 ]